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2018-03-12 at 7:36 PM UTC in Treating my sister like the animal she is
Originally posted by lempoid loompus its a woman
a WOMAN
do you know how strong a woman is?
and zanick needs help. this is why being an agreeable person is a bad thing, a 6 year old could step all over you if he was just a little bit domineering, and if he's a guy he'd be about as strong as your sister.
I really don't need my sister filing charges against me. She's vindictive and cruel, and I don't need that following me around. Even if I did want to hurt her, I wouldn't.
Originally posted by Issue313 How about concern trolling? It seems like it'd suit Zanick's personality better than §m£ÂgØL's style of abuse. The idea is to act like you just want to help. Pick things women get insecure about.
ie.
I want to help you to find a decent man to settle down with, you won't have your looks for long.
Have you changed your mind about having children? You're already 25/30/whatever.
Have you thought about using something to deal with those wrinkles?
Your hands are shaking, you should get that checked out, it might be parkinson's.
Your hair is getting a little light, you should switch to a milder shampoo.
Your hairline looks to be receding a little sis, you should keep an eye on that.
You remind me so much of mom, you're going to be just like her when you get old.
Do you feel tired? You know low energy can be a symptom of diabetes/cancer/pregnancy.
You should keep an eye on this mole on your neck, it might be skin cancer.
Yeah, I've tried that before. I used to look for physical imperfections that used to be associated with vampire superstitions a long time ago, and then I suggest that she see a doctor for them. She couldn't stand it, but it got old fast and I can't do it around family, which is the whole point - they don't understand our relationship, so they don't understand that I'm only being proactive. Plus, it just didn't feel right. I wasn't accomplishing anything except keeping her at bay, and I'm really not a mean guy so I stopped. I need to look evil in the eye soon, and I can't do it with old jokes. -
2018-03-12 at 7:29 PM UTC in Treating my sister like the animal she isI definitely can't hurt her or detain her, and I'm not going to rape her or have Bill Krozby rape her either.
Originally posted by RisiR † Give her some.
Give her some good. All that built up trauma must have created an animal inside you. You are smart, Zanick. You know how to tame the animal to the point it won't go loose. Control it. Use it to destroy your faggot sister.
Rip her a new one.
20 years ago, that anger would have been useful to me. But now my coping skills are different. She's an animal who can't control her rage, and that's what differentiates us. That kind of reaction is best avoided if I'm to remain in control of this situation.
Originally posted by NARCassist you need to turn any situation that you can to embarrass her or make her look bad or stupid in some way. be quick to point out all her failings and magnify them, bring them up at any opportunity, don't let her or anyone else forget them. set her up to embarrass herself if possible or just exaggerate shit to the max.
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That's one approach I've considered in the past. I'm not sure how well it'd work because it sounds a bit riskier to attempt. I did correct her grammar once in public: she looked at me as if she was going to rip out my large intestine and strangle me with it. She's pretty smart, so I don't know if I'll be able to catch her slipping up when I need to. To make matters more difficult, there won't be many other people around besides us, so I don't know that attacking her social value would be entirely productive for my defense. I'm not looking to put her down and make myself look better by comparison, I just want peace and stability and I don't think I'll get it by playing her game.
Originally posted by §m£ÂgØL2becausescronfuckeduptheforum One great thing ive found is LAUGHING.
"You stupid piece of shit, mom likes her eggs over easy. You've always been a fucking dumbass."
*single chortle, small shake of the head maybe, walk away*
She'll bring it up. But don't address it. Just change topics. Or give her directions/something to do. If she won't do it, YOU do it, and don't say anything. It's simply a thing that needed to be done. Show her you are the more useful one.
This type of shit drives narcissists absolutely fucking wild. It denies them the attention, acknowledgement, and satisfaction they crave. You want her to know she's a joke, but you want her to come to the conclusion on your own.
I usually do this to unruly people at my work, without the chuckle or head shaking. And I'll never do something for them, if they don't listen the first time I just tell them "cmon man, don't be lazy, do x" because I'm not trying to make them feel bad.
But your sister deserves to feel bad, which is why i have given you the upgraded method.
Laughing at her behaviors can work when I don't really have to be around her for long, but while they deflect her insults temporarily, she will always pick up where she left off before long. She's a predator, and she thinks I'm her prey. She'll be here for a week or more, this time. Caring for our mother will require close communication, so I'll need a stronger response if I'm going to stay relatively sane.
Originally posted by greenplastic For realz though can we get some pics? Is she hot?
No, and no. She feels entitled to whatever she wants, so she's never been able to refuse herself a piece of food. She would be quite pretty, had this behavior not taken root in her childhood. -
2018-03-12 at 6:04 PM UTC in do u remember the first thing u came to?Pretty sure I don't remember because I had no idea what was happening and was trying desperately to curtail the whole event.
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2018-03-12 at 6:03 PM UTC in The Retardest Thread: Fashionably Late Edition.Divorce is very popular these days. I see no reason why every happy marriage shouldn't be punctuated with lawyers.
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2018-03-12 at 6:02 PM UTC in Hydro really is a piece of shit.
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2018-03-12 at 5:59 PM UTC in Treating my sister like the animal she isI can't hurt my sister, I'm an adult man you faggot. The police report would follow me for the rest of my life and I'd never get to meet my nieces and nephews.
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2018-03-12 at 5:49 PM UTC in Treating my sister like the animal she isMy mother is having a procedure done. Like a good son, I'm going to all of her appointments with her and making sure that I know all the details for her aftercare. When she gets home, I'll be keeping an eye on her around the clock.
My sister, a clinical narcissist, is also coming home after this procedure. She's very stressed about the whole ordeal, and when she can't cope with a situation, she usually tries to execute a stupid power play over me. To this end, she's been texting me a lot, telling me that I don't know how to care for our mom, that I'm a failure, I'm going to screw this up, etc. Variations on the same insults she's been handing me since I was old enough to understand. So, I'm fairly certain that when she's actually under the same roof as me, she will be a lot worse.
Now, I know how to respond when my sister behaves this way. A lot of therapy has prepared me so that she won't get under my skin, or take advantage of me like she used to. I haven't had to put up with her for a whole week in years, but I'm not worried about how I'll react to her usual bullying. What I want to do, rather, is turn the tables. I'll be letting her know that I'm in charge, and she's only here to help me look after our mom. This has never worked before, as my sister is a very unreasonable person. I'm not entirely sure how to go about making her understand that this is not going to go her way.
For obvious reasons, I won't be bothering our mother with this conflict. I want to make my life a little easier and still care for my mom the way she deserves. Niggas, what are some subtle ways you've thwarted the domineering people in your lives? -
2018-03-12 at 4:52 PM UTC in Hydro really is a piece of shit.I mean, it's not like Bill Krozby is hideous or anything. His face has good symmetry, and his smile is actually kind of inviting because his teeth are pretty straight. Women probably don't get scared just looking at him. It probably isn't until he asks for sex for the hundredth time that they start to wonder if they've made a mistake, and that's when he gets handsy.
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2018-03-12 at 1:01 AM UTC in ATTN: Bill Krozby
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2018-03-12 at 12:59 AM UTC in ATTN: Bill Krozby
Originally posted by infinityshock dont think youre specially enough for me to pull out and come anywhere other than inside one of your orifices so deep that i leave your abdomen looking like octomom on her 9th trimester of pregnancy.
anything after that is going to involve you either rolling around like the blueberry girl on willy wonka or calling for a forklift.
My point exactly. -
2018-03-12 at 12:57 AM UTC in ATTN: Bill Krozby
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2018-03-12 at 12:48 AM UTC in ATTN: Bill Krozby
Originally posted by infinityshock by that logic you would consent by having my dick crammed into your voice box
If you ever came near me naked and erect I would push you over and stomp your crotch until it was flattened on the ground and then I'd smile and help you up and get you a cab back to your hotel where you'd think about the rest of your cockless life. -
2018-03-12 at 12:44 AM UTC in Going to pro/anti Trump ralliesYou should try to agitate the crowd and incite a riot.
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2018-03-12 at 12:42 AM UTC in Holy shit.
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2018-03-12 at 12:23 AM UTC in Mobile GamesGlow Hockey
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2018-03-12 at 12:15 AM UTC in ATTN: Bill Krozby
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2018-03-12 at 12:09 AM UTC in Hydro really is a piece of shit.Troll or not, this could be a valuable opportunity to observe a cluster B in a natural habitat.
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2018-03-10 at 6:10 PM UTC in When -SpectraL dies...His great-nieces and nephews are going to stumble upon a room full of hoarded Totse memorabilia and then they'll find this website in the 'frequently visited' tab of his browser and it will reveal a new world of sickness that they never knew about him. If we're really lucky, they'll think he was part of a kind of modern Nazi revival movement and direct a media group to some of our posts.
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2018-03-10 at 5:57 PM UTC in Going to a gay guy's house tomorrow.There's no need for you to address the question of your preference right away. All you need to do is commit to experiencing the moment or not. Do you want to have sex with these men, or don't you?
You don't have to have a fully-fledged theory of your sexuality prior to engaging in sexual acts. That's why they call it experimenting. Have fun with it, let yourself enjoy rolling around with those faggots and report back with details. -
2018-03-10 at 5:35 AM UTC in I don't know what happened to my taste
