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2022-11-02 at 11:28 PM UTC in What are the chances an average person can identify a fake gun
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2022-11-02 at 11:14 PM UTC in How are you feeling at the moment..Only noticed now that my period’s stopped. Thanks implant.
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2022-11-02 at 11:08 PM UTC in How are you feeling at the moment..
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2022-11-02 at 8:33 PM UTC in What are the chances an average person can identify a fake gun.
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2022-11-02 at 8:18 PM UTC in I think my friend is deadSame bday as well
“It appears that the annual celebration held on December 25, the winter solstice, was the most important celebration of the cult; it was believed that Mithra was born on this day, hence “the birthday of the unconquered sun” -
2022-11-02 at 8:13 PM UTC in I think my friend is deadMithras did the same things Jesus did before him, it’s all bogus.
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2022-11-02 at 3 PM UTC in How are you feeling at the moment..How I’m gonna feel bright and perky and have all my shit together by tomorrow morning…
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2022-11-02 at 2:52 PM UTC in How are you feeling at the moment..Like I should eat something but have no appetite so the Monster isn’t sitting well. I got bacon sandwiches and chicken curry but will probably wait a few hours to order takeaway.
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2022-11-02 at 2:37 PM UTC in The Midnight ClubDTE who was your favourite character? Any of his books.
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2022-11-02 at 2:29 PM UTC in The Midnight Club
Originally posted by DontTellEm I loved Christopher Pike growing up, so much better than R.L. Stine. I think my first was Remember me 1 & 2. But that wasn’t my favorite, I really loved The lost Vampire series & the introduction to Khrishna to me
I didn’t get the hype over the last vampire series, felt he was copying other styles. It did make me interested in Krishna and the vedas though. -
2022-11-02 at 2:26 PM UTC in I think my friend is deadIt’s like I’m reluctant to arrange sex but it also seems a waste for no one to see my pretty lingerie so every now and then I make an effort to do something wild just to make sure I’m living.
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2022-11-02 at 2:16 PM UTC in I think my friend is dead
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson As an older person now and looking back I know I wasted a lot of time…that I didn't think I was wasting at that time.
"if I knew then what I know now" etc.
I'd have fucked around less, worked harder, saved more, planned for the future and took care of my health a lot better.
Hindsight etc.
I feel like I should have a more active sex life and date but it really doesn’t appeal to me enough, so sometimes I force myself to do something crazy. -
2022-11-02 at 2:08 PM UTC in I think my friend is dead
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2022-11-02 at 2 PM UTC in I think my friend is deadIt freaks me out how short it is, I feel like you really only have 20 years of youth/life not counting childhood.
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2022-11-02 at 1:44 PM UTC in I think my friend is dead
Originally posted by Sophie I don't handle death that well, but again, it's not pretending if you actually don't know their ultimate fate. Also, people who are actually depressed to the point of going through with suicide are not in their right mind, so going without saying bye, doesn't mean anything in the context of the relationship. It just means the person was terminally depressed. You can't talk people in that state of mind out of it either. Not that you shouldn't try, but it's like having a conversation with a wall. Because they are unwell.
I get ya. I handle by thinking they’re not suffering anymore, it’s the living I pity. I guess I do have hope in that if time is simultaneous then they’ll always be alive right now, just in the past. Or maybe after the universe collapses it will repeat itself exactly and we’ve already lived this life before billions of years ago and that will continue. -
2022-11-02 at 1:33 PM UTC in I think my friend is dead
Originally posted by Sophie How would i know it's false hope? If one day someone i care about seems to disappear there is no way for me to know for certain that they are dead. And if the person in question went by the parameters i laid out in my earlier posts, they would never be found. So the hope is just hope. Because there can be hope as long as there is a chance, no matter how small.
I’m not gonna get into why I dislike hope but doesn’t it seem icky that you’d rather pretend your friend is still alive and that they wouldn’t do something like that? It’s like not knowing them and sad that they couldn’t feel they could tell a close friend about the biggest decision of their life.
It may just be that I handle deaths well and that’s why I can’t relate. -
2022-11-02 at 1:14 PM UTC in I think my friend is dead
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2022-11-02 at 12:02 PM UTC in I think my friend is dead
Originally posted by Sophie If he's dead for real, he should have just kept his mouth shut, dissappear and then commit unliving in a place where the body will never be found. Because then you don't have to burden your 'friends' with lukewarm messages of: "Hey imma off myself, thought you should know, BYE"
In fact when someone disappears without a trace you can't be sure if they are dead or not, so why assume the worst.
I’d rather they say if they were close otherwise I wouldn’t know to resent them or not for vanishing/not being a real friend, or to know what happened and still think of them as a friend. -
2022-11-02 at 2:49 AM UTC in What are you thinking about....Wondering why I’ve never thought to buy a wool blanket when they feel so nice
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2022-11-02 at 2:45 AM UTC in The Midnight Club
