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2022-10-31 at 2:37 AM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A DiscussionThis reminds me of something, why I didn’t like my psychologist. She was trying to make me feel okay about things, positive even, about having less, but she was really trying to break me. I remember seeing this girl in a wheelchair all excited because someone texted her, she was telling her carer about it. That’s what happens when you feel positive about having less and I never want to be like that. Hope is another sinister coping mechanism that doesn’t work.
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2022-10-31 at 2:05 AM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A Discussion
Originally posted by Haxxor You’ve finally found a setting for despair…So now put it on your schedule for twice a month; I think that's a reasonable amount of time to feel hopeless about everything… If you paint a black picture, the picture will be black. Tomorrows only exist in our minds.
I feel free when I give up hope, not despair. Anyway argument never convinces and I don’t feel like having discussions with you about anything. -
2022-10-31 at 1:49 AM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A DiscussionI don’t think you understand it’s about abandoning hope completely, something few people can do. I’m not talking about depressed people.
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2022-10-31 at 1:42 AM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A Discussion
Originally posted by Haxxor Hopelessness often spirals into destructive behavior that keeps damaged souls on a treadmill of negativity and self-fulfilling prophecies of defeat and disappointment. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Scratching their fingernails on blackboards of futility they always aim low thus avoiding disappointment.
No, disappointment comes from hoping. You can be hopeless and still have a productive life. -
2022-10-31 at 1:30 AM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A DiscussionI was a trainwreck a few years ago and wanting to abandon hope could be a thought from my warped mind, so maybe it isn’t right.
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2022-10-31 at 1:25 AM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A Discussion
Originally posted by Haxxor The real hopeless victims of mental illness are to be found among those who appear to be most normal.
Most people are, in the most ordinary sense, very limited.
They pass their time, day after day, in idle, passive pursuits, just looking at things - at games, television, whatever.
Or they fill the hours talking, mostly about nothing of significance - of comings and goings, of who is doing what, of the weather, of things forgotten almost as soon as they are mentioned.
They have no aspirations for themselves beyond getting through another day doing more or less what they did yesterday.
They walk across the stage of life, leaving everything about as it was when they entered, achieving nothing, aspiring to nothing, having never a profound or even original thought…
This is what is common, usual, typical, indeed normal.
Relatively few rise above such a plodding existence, and they’re all here.
I think being hopeless is good for your mental health, if you can abandon it completely. The people here aren’t hopeless. -
2022-10-31 at 12:28 AM UTC in Military Genius Zelensky wants Ukrainians to throw molotovs at Russian tanks
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2022-10-30 at 11:26 PM UTC in Guys im in the ukrainian club right nowI hate fashion nowadays. It makes me feel old not following current trends but it’s too ugly.
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2022-10-30 at 11:22 PM UTC in How are you feeling at the moment..I hate when idk if I’m gonna sleep or stay up. I feel like I need to lay down then I crave cigs and it keeps me up.
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2022-10-30 at 11:07 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A Discussion
Originally posted by Migh Not exactly. Psychopaths still get to enjoy things in life, they just enjoy different things.
Its kind of like a religous person that finds happiness in doing volunteer work, saying that other people will never feel happy unless they become religous and do volunteer work for the community. Its not true due to different people finding happiness in different places.
This reminding me of something, I used to think people saw me as crazy because I wanted different things out of life. When you have different priorities you don’t act normal. -
2022-10-30 at 10:20 PM UTC in Kafka has died. KAFKA MEMORIAL THREAD!~!~!~
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2022-10-30 at 10:19 PM UTC in I think my friend is dead
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2022-10-30 at 10:12 PM UTC in Kafka has died. KAFKA MEMORIAL THREAD!~!~!~
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2022-10-30 at 10:08 PM UTC in Isolation 2020
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2022-10-30 at 8:10 PM UTC in I think my friend is dead
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2022-10-30 at 7:38 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A DiscussionI told him I’d stop if he said the word and I really wanted him to be happy but he wanted to be what he thought I wanted him to be. :/
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2022-10-30 at 7:35 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A DiscussionHe was a saint or a psycho
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2022-10-30 at 7:33 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A DiscussionHe let me spam him every day for three years and didn’t care, normally that’s abusive and I wouldn’t have treated him like that but he really didn’t care. I think he was just that empty, it was sad.
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2022-10-30 at 7:31 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A DiscussionMik was like this, apathetic and it was sad.
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2022-10-30 at 7:30 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A Discussion
Originally posted by Migh But fulfillment is different for them. They cant connect with others but they also have no need or desire to do so(unless they want something other than the relationship), so they are at no loss unless they trick themselves into thinking they are.
Who's really suffering though, psychopaths or non-psychopaths?
It’s like someone having to spend their life in jail but not caring, and if they suddenly found enlightenment at the end and felt regret then they are suffering.