Are you okay? I'm sensing undercurrents... If you're drinking energy drinks you can use a straw so it doesn't touch your teeth, that's what I do. Finish all of the antibiotics even if it's already cleared. Ask for a fluoride toothpaste subscription.
Thinking about how using hedge words makes people not what to listen to me but I don't want people to just believe everything I say, I want everyone to be objective.
2024-08-14 at 8:49 PM UTC
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Some people have extreme personality changes after a stroke, that would be your only hope.
2024-08-14 at 7:46 PM UTC
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"Bonobo females have a unique way of maintaining social harmony and curbing aggression in males, primarily through coalitionary behavior and sexual dynamics. Here’s how they do it:
### 1. **Female Alliances:**
- **Forming Coalitions:** Bonobo females often form strong alliances with one another. When a male becomes aggressive, multiple females will band together to confront or isolate the aggressive male. This coalitionary behavior is a powerful deterrent, as a single male cannot easily dominate a group of females acting in unison.
- **Support Networks:** These alliances are not just situational but are maintained over time through social bonding, grooming, and mutual support, which makes them effective in any conflict situation.
### 2. **Sexual Behavior:**
- **Use of Sexuality:** Bonobos are known for their use of sexual behavior to diffuse tension and aggression. When a male becomes aggressive, females may engage in sexual activity with him or among themselves to reduce tension. This sexual behavior serves as a form of social currency that helps to calm the male and redirect his focus away from aggression.
- **Control Over Mating:** Female bonobos have considerable control over mating opportunities. By withholding sexual access, they can influence male behavior, encouraging more cooperative and less aggressive conduct.
### 3. **Social Status and Maturity:**
- **Dominance Through Social Rank:** Female bonobos, particularly older and more socially connected ones, often hold higher social ranks than males. A high-ranking female or a coalition of females can use their status to influence group dynamics and prevent males from becoming overly aggressive.
- **Males Learning from Females:** Young males, who remain close to their mothers during their early years, learn to navigate social interactions through the example of female behavior, which emphasizes cooperation over aggression.
### 4. **Physical Intervention:**
- **Direct Confrontation:** In some cases, if a male becomes too aggressive, females may physically confront him. The combined physical strength and aggression of multiple females can be overwhelming for a single male, compelling him to back down.
These strategies work together to create a social environment where male aggression is minimized, and cooperation and harmony are prioritized."
2024-08-14 at 7:40 PM UTC
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"Post-Hunt Celebrations: In many cultures, once the prey has been successfully hunted, the community may engage in celebratory dances around the animal or the fire where the animal is being prepared. These dances often involve circular movements, singing, and drumming, which serve to bring the community together in gratitude and celebration."
2024-08-14 at 7:35 PM UTC
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I'm wondering what would happen if women did skip around an aggressive male, how would they feel or act?
2024-08-14 at 7:32 PM UTC
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"The behavior of holding hands, skipping in a circle, and chanting likely has roots in evolutionary psychology, where such activities could have provided adaptive advantages in human social development. Here are some potential evolutionary reasons for this behavior:
1. Social Cohesion and Group Bonding:
Survival through Unity: In early human societies, strong social bonds within groups were crucial for survival. Activities like holding hands and moving in a coordinated way, such as skipping in a circle, likely helped strengthen these bonds, reinforcing group unity and cooperation. This unity was essential for collective activities like hunting, gathering, and defense against predators.
Trust and Cooperation: Physical touch, such as holding hands, promotes the release of oxytocin, a hormone associated with bonding and trust. Engaging in synchronized movement and chanting could have further enhanced feelings of connection and trust among group members, promoting cooperation and reducing conflicts."
2024-08-14 at 7:30 PM UTC
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"The participation in activities like holding hands, skipping in a circle, and chanting is generally more associated with women and children, particularly in cultural or recreational contexts. However, the degree to which men or women engage in these activities can vary widely based on cultural norms, the specific context of the activity, and social expectations.
Factors Influencing Participation:
Cultural Norms: In many cultures, women and children are more likely to participate in activities that involve singing, dancing, or games that include holding hands and moving in a circle. These activities are often seen as nurturing, playful, or communal, traits traditionally associated with women."
Yesterday I learned I have time blindness. I called it spacing out but now I have a good reason to buy a vintage Polly Pocket clock.
Waiting on pizza. Emotions have been all over the place today. I'm not sure if I should game or do something productive to take my mind off things.
2024-08-14 at 6:54 PM UTC
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I do fist pass from gaelic football.
2024-08-14 at 6:43 PM UTC
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I'm wondering why that came to me now. I remember as a child the girls holding hands and skipping around chanting "no boys allowed". Then there's pagan women, they like to hold hands and skip and chant too. Is this just a female activity?
2024-08-14 at 6:29 PM UTC
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"Bonobo females are smaller than males, but they band together to maintain order in the group. If a male bonobo becomes aggressive, the females use their strength in numbers to prevent him from hurting anyone."
