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2018-01-20 at 5 PM UTC in Dinner is served
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2018-01-20 at 4:56 PM UTC in life sucks...just don't let them know.
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2018-01-20 at 4:56 PM UTC in life sucksFight back against them...
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2018-01-20 at 4:53 PM UTC in ‘My crimes are unforgivable,’ says father who killed his three children
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2018-01-20 at 4:51 PM UTC in People Don't Like Me
Originally posted by -SpectraL You keep saying it's fact, but your posts belie that belief, as you have stated numerous times you are "not sure", you "think", and repeatedly wondered if it was just you or actually them. You can't have it both ways. You are either sure or you're not, and you already came across as unsure.
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2018-01-20 at 5:56 AM UTC in People Don't Like Me
Originally posted by aldra this sounds incredibly paranoid. the fact that you think virtually everyone you meet hates you without a good reason… either you're misinterpreting it or you're doing something (maybe unconsciously) to elicit such an extreme reaction… either way talking to a psychologist or counsellor will likely give you some insight
But I'm not. That's the thing. I don't have any enimies. There's no way its in my head. These people do not like me. The fact that I can very specifically tell that I'm treated differently(negatively) where ever I go(in th city I live in), is proof that its not in my head.
Believe me, I've questioned if it was in my head and its not. I've denied it, but after going through it again and again, its fact. -
2018-01-20 at 5:10 AM UTC in ‘My crimes are unforgivable,’ says father who killed his three childrenHe could have given them up for adoption rather than killing them...
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2018-01-20 at 5:06 AM UTC in People Don't Like Me
Originally posted by Enter What defines a "bad look"? And if you can't explain what defines it then it's in your head!
I've actually believed for years now(over 10) that people, including my biological family, are not only are happy that I am alone all the time, but that they want me to kill myself. I've truly believe that people are trying to push me to kill myself.
The thing is, knowing that alone makes me self improve. I actually quit smoking cigarettes because my biological family was trying to mess with me and get me to kill myself. I quit smoking, started eating healthy, started exercising, and stopped talking to them.
I was getting bad looks from other people when I started this job as well. Its not exaggerated, not hallucinated, not made up. People don't like me. -
2018-01-20 at 12:43 AM UTC in ‘My crimes are unforgivable,’ says father who killed his three childrenWhy did he kill them?
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2018-01-20 at 12:36 AM UTC in People Don't Like MeThe girl offered to buy me a coffee today because she was buying for everyone. I think she's trying to mess with my head. She has a couple of friends that work here and they both give me bad looks all the time. Maybe she was going to spit in my coffee.
I can tell these people don't like me. Everyone that is new gets a person that helps them, and listens in on their calls occasionally. The person I got has never said a single word to me. I'm literally guessing on a bunch of stuff and making up shit to passify the customers.
I think they are trying to undertrain me so that I get fired. -
2018-01-19 at 10:07 PM UTC in People Don't Like Me
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2018-01-19 at 10:05 PM UTC in Empathy Vs Remorse
Originally posted by Daily I've never understood this
I can understand with perfect clarity what somebody is feeling depending on what they're saying to me. Oh, you just got fired? Damn, bruh, sucks! I'll help you out, I know a guy. Broke up with your gf? Dude, look at these red flags she exhibited, who gives a shit? She was a cunt. Family problems? I don't know what to say to you breh but I'm here for whatever you need.
But…feeling what they're feeling? That's bullshit, no? Do people actually feel, like really FEEL what somebody else is feeling because you're listening to their words and looking at their facial expressions?
Real talk. I'm not some sort of psycho, I'm a very functional person with healthy relationships. But I certainly cannot, under any circumstances, feel what somebody else is feeling. I just understand what they're feeling because I'm not an autist.
Am I the only one here? Enter back me up
I agree. We can only see their emotions, but don't share them unless we are close to them.
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2018-01-19 at 8:13 PM UTC in People Don't Like MeWell I'm at work now and I'm pretty sure its all beginning. I can kind of tell by peoples behavior that they don't like me. Its hard to explain, but I can sense it.
Always like this... -
2018-01-19 at 7:27 AM UTC in People Don't Like Me
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2018-01-19 at 6:30 AM UTC in Empathy Vs RemorseHow do these two relate?
What does it mean if a person can't feel empathy and doesn't feel remorse for things that he/she knows hurt others?
He/she knows that the things were wrong, but doesn't care about the effects it had on others? -
2018-01-19 at 6:23 AM UTC in Affiliate Marketing and Drop Shipping
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2018-01-19 at 6:21 AM UTC in People Don't Like MeI use to do a lot of bad things. Like mess with people, cheat on girlfriends, etc. But this was way back in the day.
Could it be that they are mad because I never got caught? -
2018-01-19 at 6:18 AM UTC in People Don't Like MeI wasn't on drugs, it happened. There are a few things that happened a long time ago that could be causing this, but it would only mean that grudges are being held from like 10+ years ago.
1. In elementary school a friend made up that a teacher was molesting these two girls and the teacher got fired(I think) after a police investigation.
2. I use to valdalize things a lot as a kid. Like sling-shooting out car windows until it made the news.
3. A friend went on a shooting rampage, killing two other people and wounding others, before killing himself.
Maybe I have a bad reputation. But this stuff is from a long time ago. We're talking like over ten years ago. -
2018-01-19 at 4:23 AM UTC in Affiliate Marketing and Drop Shipping
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2018-01-19 at 4:22 AM UTC in People Don't Like MeI think I need to move to a different city. I live in Salem, Oregon and I can tell than when I go up to Portland(where I go to strip clubs and bars and in general) the people are way better. People seem more relaxed and seem like they are happier. In Salem, it seems like most people are pissed off or something. Every job I have, my co-workers at some point(usually within two months) make it obvious that they don't like me.
