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how the fuck wud a tarantula do any of that
u on sumit, wallhong? -
2022-10-31 at 7:45 PM UTC in ok gimme a usertitle
Originally posted by Kafka https://www.dollskill.com/products/legit-funny-clown-backpack
why he wearin a bdsm harness? and why over his clown suit? very unprofessional and inappropriate for children's parties. my ninja lookin like a depressed violent j on his way to tha gay club. -
2022-10-31 at 7:04 PM UTC in Scron & Meikai are engaging in a transactional relationship...
Originally posted by Ghost I like looking at her butthole
problem is, i dont like to be perceived. not in my totality, not in any sense. but i especially do not want certain aspects of me to be perceived - my unironic enjoyment of many nickelback songs, my crippling addiction to methamphetamine, my butthole, etc. -
2022-10-31 at 6:38 PM UTC in ok gimme a usertitlei know specific requests are generally frowned upon/are completely ignored as a matter of course, but something to indicate that i am astonishingly irony poisoned and almost fundamentally incapable of being a serious human being wud be good. for my sake, sure, but more importantly for the sake of neurodivergent users everywhere.
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2022-10-31 at 6:28 PM UTC in Female morgue worker gets pregnant from raping corpse
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2022-10-31 at 6:08 PM UTC in Scron & Meikai are engaging in a transactional relationship...especially bad if/when i smoke weed because i am like on the threshold of having severe autism or something. a drug that makes me get all up in my own shit psychologically? yeah that shit pushes me over the edge into something akin to full blown ultra severe non-verbal autism. i need to buy a weighted blanket or somefing lmao
Originally posted by Donald Trump If your relationship isn't transactional then you are by definition getting nothing out of it.
big agree dat "transactional" isn't necessarily a bad thing, but if its *all* your relationship is (which is what op is sayin) that's not really healthy. i guess u can get cynical and say "even love is transactional ur just making eachother feel happy chemicals and if one of you stops feeling that the relationship is pointless", but that's some super jaded 'altruism doesn't exist' kind of stuff. healthy relationships should be transactional, but should probs also be a lot more than transactional.
(also important what kind of transactions we're talking about, how fair they are, and how socially acceptable they are. if the transaction is 'i am pretty and you are gross, old, and wealthy - i'll be your arm candy and you write me into your will' that's... i mean, more power to both parties in that situation tbh, but society generally gonna call that transactional where they wouldn't say that about 'you do dishes and i'll cook dinner'. cuz if u ever talked about division of labor with your partner that was incredibly transactional, but nobody is gonna ack like having clearly delineated obligations to support eachother and make eachothers lives easier is a bad thing.) -
2022-10-31 at 6:04 PM UTC in Scron & Meikai are engaging in a transactional relationship...y'know, i think that would be a fair conclusion to draw based on observation. even i sometimes worry this might be true. but then i remember i love him and think he's hot, so nah that can't be it. everything wrong and apparently frigid about our relationship just boils down to me being incredibly withdrawn/spergy/aloof/socially stunted/anxious and having abysmal self-esteem. also im incredibly touch-averse, but also [internally, secretly, privately] incredibly needy about physical contact.
i'll be going to sleep, laying there alone because he isn't sleepy yet, feeling like absolute shit and wanting to go cuddle with him... and then just... not do that. partly because im gross/dont wanna bother him, but also my general anxiety and the touch averse/neediness thing are a trip to navigate. 🤷♀️ -
2022-10-31 at 5:50 PM UTC in Female morgue worker gets pregnant from raping corpse
Originally posted by Rape Monster She is a narcissistic autistic, it's a terrible combo
sorry sweaty but autism/schizoid/schizotypy and narcissism/borderline/histrionic are just shots in the gender wars fired by psychologists. they exist solely to medicalize normal behaviors associated with each sex. not only r u being incredibly ableist and perpetuating harmful stereotypes about "mental illness", ur rly showing ur lack of domain expertise here by claiming a wamen can be autistic. -
2022-10-31 at 5:39 PM UTC in Female morgue worker gets pregnant from raping corpse
Originally posted by cigreting Which country has socialism worked well in?
im not sure lobotomizing everyone except trannies constitutes "socialism", but it does call to mind nazi germany - which seemed to do pretty okay. who knows what might have been had they not been roflstomped by the collective effort of pretty much every one of its contemporary world powers. but i mean, the fact that it took the collective effort of all the world powers should tell u something. -
2022-10-31 at 5:35 PM UTC in I think my friend is deadif they did, u shud celebrate their escape from worldly suffering/the new and exciting kinds of worldly suffering they're currently experiencing thanks 2 the inescapable cycle of death and rebirth
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2022-10-31 at 5:24 PM UTC in Female morgue worker gets pregnant from raping corpseAnyway, I support UBl (that's a lower-case L). And I mean universal. Lads too. Then the incessant bitching by both sides will stop. Only the troons will be spared, so that they can serve as caretakers/molesters of the bedridden lobotomized.
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2022-10-31 at 5:18 PM UTC in Female morgue worker gets pregnant from raping corpse
Originally posted by Kafka I haven't heard this one before, a sign you've lost touch with reality.
I mean, I am being intensely cheeky here but:
Originally posted by Kafka I don't see how it's unequal if they're telling the truth about men.
you believe it to be true. incels believe they're telling the truth about women. doesn't mean either of you is right.
consider that female insight into men is about the same as male insight into women. men joke about "only wanting one thing". women believe men only want one thing (and it's disgusting). but is it true that men only want one thing? it's certainly true in the eyes of many women. objectively, it's probably about as true as anything cig has said about what women want. -
2022-10-31 at 5:11 PM UTC in Female morgue worker gets pregnant from raping corpseif women want dudes to suck it up when they talk shit, women are gonna need to suck it up too. since the demand is that men be beholden to these ancient gender customs, maybe a trade where women suck it up and return to one of their ancient gender customs - perhaps getting back in the proverbial kitchen, or being baby factories again. alternatively, women can also just suck it up and stop bitching, but i rly dont see that happening without universal basic lobotomy.
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2022-10-31 at 5:03 PM UTC in Female morgue worker gets pregnant from raping corpse
Originally posted by Kafka I think it would be better if they didn't care what we think because maybe then they'd stop trying to push beliefs about themselves or us onto us. They wouldn't be so fragile/easily hurt either which is unattractive.
these are all very fair points, and i totally agree it's in every dude's best interest to not give a shit because whining about stuff isn't hot. but these points do create a rather unfair and unequal situation, no matter how true they are. women be bitching about all the terrible shit dudes think/say about them, AND they be saying all kinds of heinous shit about dudes - pointing to this extremely trad and unequal gender norm (it is practically evo-psyche tier) as an explanation for why dudes should suck it up is terribly antifeminist. smh -
2022-10-31 at 4:51 PM UTC in Female morgue worker gets pregnant from raping corpse
Originally posted by Kafka I don't give a fuck if men think I'm damaged because I don't think that and they don't matter.
wow imagine if a guy said 'why tf would i care what women think? women dont matter' smh. he'd be the worst kind of misogynist. TYPICAL FEMINIST DOUBLE STANDARDS. so much for the tolerant left. -
2022-10-31 at 4:45 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A Discussionwhatever. my big 'nobody can possibly know wtf they're talking about wrt this question' caveat out of the way
... what do 'normal' people's outcomes look like? 'cause psychopaths are prob about the same as regular people here? which i'd guess means their outcome is likely to be 'ambivalence'? maybe a slightly happier outcome than normal since they aren't going to be as sad later in life when we all inevitably spend our days watching everyone we know and love die. -
2022-10-31 at 4:35 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A Discussionwait what are you even asking here? like psychopaths happiness outcomes generally, or their happiness outcome vis-a-vis aging? because i feel like a big part of why narcissistic personalities might trend towards unhappiness with age is that after a point, age starts to destroy your looks, your athletic ability, etc. mostly tho, narcissists might want (need) to succeed and be cooler and better than everyone else, but most will just be boring ass regular people their entire lives. as more and more people have more than they do, that's gonna be a source of anguish.
and even if you've achieved a lot in life by the time you're 70 (big plus for narcissistic types), you're prob never gonna be as spry as an 18 year old who's young dumb and full of cum (could see this being a huge negative). you can lord your wealth and achievements over them if you have those, but they can just be like "lol lmao im 18 not 900 like u i havent had time to make that much yet. but i can do a backflip, loser. can u?" and you've got no comeback (or u try it because ur ego is fragile and break ur hip because ur an old fart and it is also fragile)
aging itself is unusually relevant to those with narcissistic traits, but prob wouldn't be super relevant to the happiness of people with psychopathic ones? -
2022-10-31 at 4:12 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A Discussion
Originally posted by Kafka I thought it just wasn't a well thought out question. Why would someone try to root out psychos here?
yea it absolutely isn't a well thought out question (at least if u accept my framing of psychopathy). realized that immediately after typing out the 'rooting out psychopaths' sentence, hence the one that follows it. i decided i was just sayin 'lol lmao psychopaths aren't even gonna have an answer for you here bud soz' instead of what it literally says -
2022-10-31 at 4:08 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A Discussion(i know psychopaths are seen as manipulative and this makes it easy to assume they actually have an amazing grasp of theory of mind, but it's entirely possible to know how people will react to stimuli without understanding anything about what would be going on inside their heads/hearts to drive that reaction)
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2022-10-31 at 4:04 PM UTC in Psychopathic/Narcissistic Scale: A Discussionyeah this probably applies to most every disordered personality/way of thinking? everything is a spectrum from 'normal' to 'completely batshit', and everyone finds themselves somewhere along that spectrum for every mental illness/personality disorder. hard to think of a mental illness that isn't just [doing a normal healthy thing everyone does, but too much or too little]. cud even say this applies to schizophrenia, with people who have internal monologues, no aphantasia, and vivid/rich inner lives being farther along the spectrum.
also this thread feels like a test to root out psychopaths (whose whole thing is basically that they do not engage with theory of mind, and so have no idea how to answer a hypothetical about emotions they/someone else'd feel in a given situation). altho since our internal worlds are all qualia and that of the psychopath is especially mysterious (unless u r one), it's not like non-psychopaths will have much better luck at answering this with any accuracy
