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2017-01-13 at 2:52 AM UTC in does ny1 here live in nyClose enough to NY.
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2017-01-11 at 3:05 AM UTC in What should I do with my time?I’d go with Russian. I have like an obsession with linguistics and languages. I’ve had an urge to learn Swedish recently.
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2017-01-05 at 10:27 PM UTC in Being an online or telephone sex worker
Originally posted by RisiR Ok… ok. If you aren't Zek that's alright. I fucking welcome that.
PM me your cuteness and I'll buy you some shit.
You couldn’t handle my cuteness. :P -
2017-01-05 at 10:23 PM UTC in has a song ever given u a bonner?I wonder if there’s a frequency that can make people spontaneously orgasm.
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2017-01-03 at 6:44 PM UTC in People on this forum/zok/totse/sanc that deserve notice for being an ok guyI’m never on lists. :(
If there was a list of people who are never on lists I still wouldn’t be on it. -
2017-01-03 at 6:42 PM UTC in I am very smartI’m over 4000 years old.
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2017-01-03 at 6:40 PM UTC in Being an online or telephone sex workerDo phone sex lines even still exist?
I’m assuming you’re asking about camming when you says online sex worker. You can make quite a bit doing it, mostly depends on if you get someone who tips well.
If you want gifts you don’t even have to cam, you can make a tumblr and put a link to your amazon wishlist. You don’t need to post nudes either, just being cute is enough to have people buy you stuff :P, though posting sexy stuff will help lol. -
2017-01-01 at 12:04 AM UTC in do u thikn im sexixiicciiiBrush your hair. And try some eyeliner. Guys always look cuter with eyeliner.
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2016-12-31 at 11:54 PM UTC in what would you do if jesus appeared in front of you?And then he turns out to be just some homeless guy with a fog machine and you drank hobo pee.
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2016-12-30 at 2:38 AM UTC in How do ya'll feel about killing?I try to avoid killing anything, even bugs. I catch them in something and put them outside instead. I feel horrible killing something just cause I don’t want it near me.
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2016-12-29 at 10:03 PM UTC in focalin is satanI’ve never heard of focalin. I used to take adderall all the time at school.
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2016-12-29 at 9:53 PM UTC in I cleaned up my tabs for the first time in like 6 monthsFor the longest time I never used tabs. I was so used to opening another window I just kept doing it that way.
My computer isn’t that powerful so I try not to open too many tabs at once. I currently have 11 open between three different windows.
I used to obsessively bookmark every page I went to that was even mildly interesting. I had so many bookmarks that I could barley ever find anything in them. I don’t do that any more, now I try to only bookmark something if I know that I’m going to need it later.
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2016-12-29 at 9:38 PM UTC in Why Japan is better than America.Japan has cooler fashion than western countries.
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2016-12-25 at 4:36 PM UTC in Your christmas haul.I got both a purse and a pair of headphones with kitty cat ears lol =^_^=. I got a leather jacket, some other stuff for my room and some nailpolish too.
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2016-12-24 at 9:29 PM UTC in Will people think I took it the @ss if I'm limping?It wouldn’t be the first thing that crossed my mind. I’m not sure that you can even get fucked hard enough to wind up with a limp. I’ve had some pretty big stuff up my butt and the worst was a little soreness after.
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2016-12-24 at 9:19 PM UTC in Marijuana
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2016-12-24 at 11:33 AM UTC in Would you rather die all alone, or along with a bunch of other people?I’ve always thought it would be rather romantic to slit your wrists with someone.
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2016-12-24 at 5:32 AM UTC in emptiness
Originally posted by the holy ghost apathy controls my entire life. i can never even think of a thread to make because nothing comes into my mind. i have nothing to talk about because nothing interests me. the only way i can communicate with others is through manipulation/attention seeking or verbal shitposting
This is pretty much me.
Originally posted by Malice Severe depression and anhedonia, along with this:
I went the hedonism route. It’s been working rather well for me. :) -
2016-12-23 at 11:49 AM UTC in Since men can never hit women...
Originally posted by thelittlestnigger It is not false that sex and gender are two different things. But you do seem to surpass the obvious difference between the attitudes regarding them. Your sex (or is it gender?) is a product of chromosome combinations and determines if you will be a child bearer or an inseminator. This is the reality regardless of the social construct of gender. Current beliefs of gender are based solely on identity and have no physical or factual basis on a biological level. This is why many are having a difficult time agreeing that gender is even a legitimate thing. Much like others in this thread said, I can run around on all fours, bark and eat dog food I am still a human.
To put it another way let us say an individual was born in India. They grew up in India and were surrounded by indian culture. We would say this persons nationality is Indian. But in this individuals mind their National Identity is that they are not of Indian descent at all. They, though being born in india, raised in india and surrounded by indian culture, have come to the conclusion they they are an Italian! In our day that is a rather insane thought. To think that you are something by "identity" and expecting others to accommodate you in an identity built of your own perception that wholly disregards the reality and circumstances that are directing your life.
But no, this Trans-Italians plight is seen and answered. Clinics open up with procedures to dye the skin the color of the individuals "National Identity" and though extremely risky this procedure is encouraged even though "Trans national" rates of suicide are actually higher after the procedure.
And we cannot forget that these rates of suicide in trans nationals could never be due to mental illness or defective psycology and must always be reinforces that the rate is higher because of their status as an oppressed people. Even though the suicide rates among all other minority groups who face similar levels of oppression are drastically lower.
And it would be a travesty and outrage when, during the olympic games, these trans nationals are unallowed to compete for the nation of their national identity rather the nation of their nationality. So we would accommodate and say "what is nationality anyway? is it not an archaic social construct? Isnt there a history of oppression surrounding this?" We must move forward and allow the Trans Nigerians to compete for Nigeria and so forth. To not do so would be a violation of our most basic human rights.
In time it comes to be that nationality as a simple and reasonable system of identification is plain wrong. It comes to be that even being a "nationalist" is something to be ashamed of because it is at its core "transphobic". Nationality is replaced by the idea of National Identity. Some people identify as a Russian though they reside in iceland. A resident of somalia becomes canadian overnight. Others believe that National Identity itself can be too restrictive and therefore become nationals of Middle Earth or Tatooine. There are even individuals who identify as Zeta Reticulations. And of course the nationally fluid must be accomodated, and people from day to day swap their national identity to whatever best suits the time.
And in the end, when the change is made and we have patted ourselves on our backs for reconstructing nationality as national identity and accepting national fluidity a realization will dawn. A feeling will slowly sink in. When all is said and done no one really knows "who" they are anymore.
Comparing gender to nationality isn’t accurate. Your national culture is somthing you learn growing up. Gender is somthing that is inherent to a person, something that you’re born with, it’s not just gender roles or the “culture” of the gender which a person identifies with. -
2016-12-22 at 11:15 PM UTC in The best thing about the holidays.