Originally posted by Rrr
Does how a guy looks actually matter? For women its like everything, perhaps even the only thing, but it seems like for a guy there are a lot of other factors at play, like money, or personality/confidence, being fit, etc. Of course if a guy is a model its going to be significant, but for everyone else idk
No matter what you look like you can find women. I used to think it was difficult but women are just as horny and lonely as men and that's their secret. If you keep looking at them like "WELL WHAT DO WOMEN WANT I DONT UNDERSTAND" and act like you have to play some kind of game to get laid, then yeah, you're going to have a hard time with your mental gymnastics. But if you literally just be yourself (and I mean the good you not the stalking stabbing girls with pencils you) then I think most people would have no problem finding women.
I mean I have seen some UGLY motherfuckers get laid regularly. I'm 10/10 so I wouldn't know what that's like, but honestly the cliche is true. You just gotta put yourself out there. Actually talk to women.
I'm an introvert so it's not always easy for me but I find that when I do open up to people, women will flock to me like flies. Alcohol is a quick cheat code but they have to be drunk also and those aren't always fun places to hang out.
I would not put too much stress on looks, sploo. If you want a 10/10 bitch like the ones I fuck then yes, you will need to look like a motherfucker. (if you need workout tips hmu)
But if you're just trying to find love or pussy (all cats are grey in the dark) then don't worry about how you look. Worry about how you present yourself.
Frankly I'm kind of in a mode where I don't even want to meet people or talk to anyone so I am really short and cold with people. But it's kind of helped me understand why sometimes people are like that with me as well. You never know what's going on in someone's head, including girls. So don't feel bad if they do something you don't like.
I'm also in a FWB situation though so what do I know. I've been using dating apps on and off but honestly most of the women I meet just flat out suck. I don't like most people. I can socialize with them, but I won't like it.
