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2022-03-05 at 8:46 PM UTC in what's the last thing you bought?
Originally posted by frala I just never see them anymore…
Guess you're right.
https://www.quora.com/Why-do-we-never-see-dalmatians-anymore
I will covet my dalmatian sightings now -
2022-03-05 at 8:44 PM UTC in What I’m looking for in a friend:Oh I read that wrong. I don't think she's an alt.
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2022-03-05 at 8:42 PM UTC in What I’m looking for in a friend:
Originally posted by frala Right right. Well Solstice you be quiet now while Mal attempts to determine whether or not Kafka is using an alt to bait people into friendship.
I like you funny words magic man! Im not trying to bait anyone into friendship. I'm questioning inconsistencies because I'm a curious human. -
2022-03-05 at 8:38 PM UTC in what's the last thing you bought?
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2022-03-05 at 8:32 PM UTC in What I’m looking for in a friend:I said solstice shouldn't engage. I have no emotions in this matter so it's no skin off my back to engage.
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2022-03-05 at 8:28 PM UTC in What I’m looking for in a friend:
Originally posted by Kafka - Discord.
- Watch movies with and recommend them.
- Music recommendations.
- Not an addict. This is because I’m highly suggestible and it’s okay if you lie about it.
- Say you’re doing something productive even if you’re not. This will motivate me.
- Preferably plays chess.
If this is you hmu.
Why are you looking for friends? Don't you have plenty at uni? Everyone has more friends in college than adulthood. Or did you switch altars and now this one wants friend? -
2022-03-05 at 8:26 PM UTC in Grief
Originally posted by SEGA Nigga Drive That's the thing though… That would be like a completely insane person's reaction in many eastern countries and your whole family would be blowing up your phone trying to help you and offer you food and shit.
Whereas going and getting shitfaced and bawling for weeks and being internally emotionally destroyed and shit, in the west, seems like it's a "yeah that do be happenin sometimes, they'll get over it… Or maybe not but that do be happenin too".
How do you know where I came from or what my family did? I like you, but you can make arrogant assumptions sometimes. -
2022-03-05 at 8:23 PM UTC in What I’m looking for in a friend:
Originally posted by Solstice I'm racist and mean and bigoted to people who deserve it, of which there are many. I'm also nice and polite and kind to people who deserve it, of which there are fewer each day.
I couldn't give a fuck less what the collective female hivemind thinks of the way I act on an anonymous internet forum and am not sure why I'm even indulging any of you with attention or replies.
Yes this is proper response. Don't engage. -
2022-03-05 at 5:58 AM UTC in what's the last thing you bought?GameStop gc for my cousin, kombucha, probiotic soda, quinoa pasta, and a classic rotisserie chicken from Whole Foods. Other groceries, wine, and local honey from the normal grocery store, tequila, a sparkling water stream thingy, and a second ZeroWater enhancement pitcher.
Trying to keep myself from over spending because I have to use my insurance check on another fucking car. Some chick who doesn't know how to drive pulled out in front of me. So pissed because the car I got before was a steal and now it's totalled. -
2022-03-05 at 5:52 AM UTC in GriefIn my experience you just drink about it and self destruct for about a year. Then you get some therapy and one day the ball stops hitting the button as often.
https://psychcentral.com/blog/coping-with-grief-ball-and-box-analogy -
2022-03-05 at 12:25 AM UTC in Please just tell me what type of egg is your favorite it will help me know about your personality
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2022-03-05 at 12:13 AM UTC in Please just tell me what type of egg is your favorite it will help me know about your personality
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2022-03-04 at 9:37 PM UTC in The Retarded Thread: Get off that bus edition
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2022-03-04 at 9:32 PM UTC in The Retarded Thread: Get off that bus edition
Originally posted by mmQ I wonder how many suicidal people don't give out warning signs. Like a super happy person suddenly dies and you could look back and say, oh I get it, they were pretending to be happy. That makes sense. And that was a warning. Basically if someone is happy, they're probably also suicidal and just pretending. How do you know if a person is genuine happy or pretend happy ?
You can see it in the eyes
I often said I want to sleep forever since puberty and no one saw it as a warning sign not even myself. -
2022-03-04 at 9:23 PM UTC in Grief
Originally posted by Meikai i dunno. the japanese have the tamaya/butsudan. keeping a household shrine for your dead family is arguably quite normal for humans (generally), it's just maybe a bit out of touch with western socioreligious practices. nothing about what OP said comes across as particularly bad or unhealthy except that she feels it's become obsessive. the actions themselves seem fine tho - just the… fervor… might be unhealthy. 🤷
when my parents die i might keep a small shrine to them, to remember them by. been thinking about it more lately. i dunno.
edit: the hair dyeing thing is probably the most weird thing you've done, OP. weird coping mechanism, but it's not that weird really. our parents dying probably *should* fuck us up and make us do weird shit to cope. the fact that you've gotten a bit weird is, ironically, normal?
I agree with all of this -
2022-03-02 at 2:41 AM UTC in The Retarded Thread: Get off that bus edition
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2022-02-28 at 9:38 PM UTC in First Conflict of 2022
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2022-02-28 at 9:36 PM UTC in First Conflict of 2022
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2022-02-28 at 9:32 PM UTC in First Conflict of 2022Wait isn't the Singapore shit popping off now too? We got a two for one folks!
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2022-02-28 at 10:18 AM UTC in The Retarded Thread: Get off that bus edition