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2019-01-16 at 9:39 PM UTC in CandyRein has to look halfway across the world to find someone interested in dating her...The story line is intriguing … I've always enjoyed the thought of online romances unfolding on forums and blossoming into loveThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-01-16 at 10:29 PM UTC in Can we please go back to our misogynistic ways?so unsubscribe to them .. this type of bitching is silly.
Just see the threads you wanta see and participate in.
BTW where are these examples of the hores being treated as equals? I must have missed themThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-01-16 at 10:12 PM UTC in CandyRein has to look halfway across the world to find someone interested in dating her...those are different … I can buy romance books too.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-01-15 at 4:14 AM UTC in "I'm Irish"I’m Heinz 57 and my children are intercontinentalThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-01-08 at 1:54 AM UTC in What are the official character restrictions when it comes to legally naming your child in most countries?27 years ago, I was not allowed to give my child 2initials with a period between them, for his middle name.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-01-06 at 4:03 AM UTC in ATTN: ECAPBumpThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-01-05 at 4:03 AM UTC in Silva _13 does not deserve my care?It’s been years .. people still refer to his retarded threads as facts. It’s reword because he’s just a below average male looks wise, below average sexual partner, and lived a less than desirable life to bring home to the family ...
Yet, I remain his friend.
Sometimes that just happens.
I was far stronger than his bs .. but no clue regarding online perception
I’ve talked to him a few times a year every year since 2013 when we met.
I’ve gone through his ups and downs .. I feel him,but narcist dont feel much of anything.
Anyway .. he created this drunk persona of me.
It was aweful, just really a terrible betrayal of trust ...
He is and has always been my friend. But he has never earned it.
That’s allThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-01-05 at 3:11 AM UTC in I just rage quit my bank after 15 years and went to the credit union across the street (DISCUSS: banks vs credit unions)But careThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-01-03 at 2:42 AM UTC in (Differentially) Diagnosing a Myoclonic SeizureIt makes me really sad to hear about addictions people struggle with. I wish you could get the kind of support you really need to give your body a rest and time to fully recover (or best it can at this point.
I think it’s impossible to get a proper diagnosis and treatment for psychological problems or physical with more chemicals.
You are so bright, well spoken, you seem to be thoughtful and kind. I wish for you to find a way to honor and care for the gifts you were given.
I dunno ... darn.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-01-02 at 1:41 AM UTC in take one last glanceWELLLLLLL .... Where is the new and improved room photo?
and zooks how come you posted 15 year old photos .. how does your place look now?The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-01-02 at 1:23 AM UTC in How Lucy's long lost testicles, and the gay community are oppressing cloning in 2019.^^ children also put their fingers in their mouth, ears, and nose. They also put other things in those places. It is not uncommon for children to finger paint with their poop or stick things in light sockets.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-01-01 at 8:18 PM UTC in Life is total bullshit.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-12-28 at 1:23 AM UTC in Why do horses let us ride them?
Originally posted by hydromorphone I've trained many horses in my life, been riding for most of it.
Horses look to the rider as a partner they can trust… that or you can break their spirit too, at least some can be broken… but you ALWAYS get more from the horse who trusts you and WANTS to do what you ask because he trusts he won't be harmed, and it's safe to do, and that he want's to make his buddy on his back happy too. Some horses genuinely like the attention, and will get it either by doing good or bad things, just like kids. If you give them the attention when they do positive, you're all good, but if you let that sort of animal get attention in the bad way… you're in for a hell of a pain in the ass.
I loved having that level of trust, and connection that you literally cannot get from doing anything else. Some say you "have to be the boss", but that's not true. You're equals, and you being a tiny, puny human, who can literally be killed in so many fucked ways while dealing with 900lb-2,2000lb animals (I had a clydesdale stallion that did weigh in at 2,200lbs., but large ponies weigh in at 900lbs, but your average quarter horse weighs 1,200lbs.) you HAVE to put some trust into your steed, and if you can't, you have no place on their back. They trust you to make the choice, because you shouldn't give them any reason not to believe you're making the right choice, which will keep them safe (and sometimes will be fun- horses like a lot of the cool shit you can train them to do as much as we enjoy doing it on their back or while driving them), so don't ever give them a reason NOT to trust you. You should NEVER train a horse with any method that inflicts pain, and FYI whips (lounge whips, and riding crops) should NEVER touch a horse any harder than a light tap with a riding crop, which should be used to give cues, and signals to the horse, or a lounge whip which is used as a training aid, both to get them to do directional walk/trot/canter in a circle around you, and as a tool for the "Friendly game" where you let it touch them all over to show them it won't hurt them. No tool should EVER be used to cause pain, as it will backfire on you every time.
I trusted my clydesdale with my life. I miss him so much to this very day.
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I use to excersize a couple of percherons that were only rode or used for elk hunting .. packing back the kill, in winter.
Big Red took me all summer to earn her trust. I loved that huge girl. I use to take her to the fairgrounds and play around taking her around the Barrells. I rode her bareback always. I weighed maybe 100 lbs, 5 feet tall lol.
One day she got a burr in her butt ... put her head and neck straight out, and all I could do was hold on and pray she didnt get caught in any barbed wire or break a leg in a large hole. It was the scariest ride 2 miles of my life. Also one of the best too. Sadly I fucked up her mouth in an effort to interupt her fun. Best times of my life were with horses. Wish I could have shared the magic of firendships with horses with my kids.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2018-12-24 at 7:02 AM UTC in How are you feeling at the moment..The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-12-24 at 5:55 AM UTC in Listen up you snow flake Gen Ex’ersThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-12-24 at 5:08 AM UTC in Listen up you snow flake Gen Ex’ersThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-12-24 at 4:22 AM UTC in Listen up you snow flake Gen Ex’ers
Originally posted by Grimace I can't tell you how many times I was sent an E-MAIL or even a FACEBOOK MESSAGE by a kid who was interested in a job for the summer while out of college. An e-mail?? Is that supposed to impress me? Is that supposed to make me believe you are serious about the job and someone I need to look into further? Straight to the trashcan.
I don’t want to be argumentive with you .. I get what you are saying. So I was married for nearly 28 years. My primary role in our family dynamic was raising the family and taking care of the physical household 100% ...
But I did work always. I worked from home for 9 years ..... anyway, it wasn’t until 2010 that I ever needed a resume. If I walked into a business, and they were hiring, I would get the job. In 2012 I moved from a small affluent beach town where I knew eVERYONE to a big affluent beach town where I knew no one. I wanted to go back to the career I LOVED, but had been away from for 10 years.
I went to 4 of the top companies I wanted to work for and was thrown out!!! Well not thrown out, but told politely I had to apply online.
I already had, and had gotten no response. I lived in SoCal. I had an earned, respectable work history. I had never not gotten a job I wanted EVER. I had management positions since I was 16!! No shit. Earned.
But times changed ... I had to take a 50% pay cut to get back into an industry I loved, maybe even more, but I got that job by walking in that door after many slammed before.
In middle America ... I’m back in the game. It depends where you are in the US, and your salary range, as to how you find quality employees and how employees find jobs.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2018-12-16 at 5:50 AM UTC in ITT: I Dox Myself
Originally posted by gadzooks There's way too much paranoia about personal information and all that on the Internet these days.
And I get it! I really, truly do.
But you know what, just to put a few people at ease, I am going to dox myself here…
I am, in fact,Spartacus…Donald Trump…A bird…A plane…
No, but for real, my name is:
Darren MacKenzie.
I live in Chilliwack, BC.
I am 34 years old.
I even apparently have videos online that I posted some six to eight years ago (that I forgot about until tonight)…
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7V0yuDKRbLUzNes0Kvd5Cg
People need to let go a bit of their shells/masks.
Imagine if your name was the only name in the country you reside ... crazy I know, but believe it or not there are actually unique names in countries.
Then imagine becoming unemployed and applying for jobs, where your “reputation” online matters. Another words, your online presence plays a role in consideration for your next job
Now consider, for years you never really thought about this, but when you googled your name, you discovered much of your life was available with just a name search .. thank god, you lived a decent life and actually what was online, was to your favor
Now imagine some lunatic online who only knows your name, manages to trash you by posting his fantasies of what he believes you really are.
That then becomes the first thing any potential employer see’s online when they search your name.
Imaginethat! Really.
It does happen more often than you think, to people that don’t really think that fiction can over-rule real life accomplishments
You know why? Because it’s illegal to discriminate, or deny a prospective employee an opportunity based on hearsay ...
Well, the fact of the matter is, it happens daily. And for those who make those judgement calls when sorting the yes and no piles, try to prove you ended up in the no pile because of an initial search of your name on the internet ...
From personal tough expierence and thousands of dollars to clean up someone else’s evil deeds, please don’t make the same mistake.
It does happen and you would be very surprised, as I was how negatively this can effect your future, no matter how much hard work and effort you put into doing the right thing ...
In your case, it’s clear you haven’t lived that kind of life. But, maybe one day you will and one day, it won’t mattwr because your story and history is on page 12 .. but some sicko’s biography is on pages 1-11The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2018-12-16 at 4:08 AM UTC in Does anyone know why DH actually closed?The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-12-16 at 2:29 AM UTC in Candy I love you but ...I’m worried about your choices.
I know it’s playfulness .. I love that about you, but this online bs can fuck up anyone’s life .. and I don’t want you to be effected!
Keep your bitches under control or let them loose.
I love you 💕❤️😘
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