2024-06-05 at 3:13 PM UTC
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Is this true?
I'm thinking of that software engineer specifically, he was rambling about the details of his job and knew I wouldn't understand it but he was talking about every detail. Is that not condescending?
2024-06-05 at 3:09 PM UTC
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Is this true?
I'll accept that they ramble about themselves to try and impress women and not be condescending, but the ones I talked with likely were condescending types and that's what I picked up on.
2024-06-05 at 3:07 PM UTC
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Is this true?
It's not computing in my mind. My intuition has never let me down.
2024-06-05 at 3 PM UTC
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Is this true?
I feel icky now bcus I've never felt wrong about my judgements before. But maybe the ones that did talk about themselves to me did so in a condescending tone, I can't remember.
2024-06-05 at 2:36 PM UTC
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Is this true?
I always thought they did it because they were psycho and didn't view me as a person.
...The explanation video I watched said they did it because they think women are attracted to physically attractive men so they do it to try and stand out to the women when they think they aren't attractive enough. I never thought of that but I am demisexual and don't feel attracted to strangers at all no matter how physically attractive they are, so maybe that's why I thought it was a red flag this whole time. I didn't know being demisexual could warp things like that.
I don't want to die on a day I don't feel like myself. Hopefully tomorrow is more productive.
I finally showered and feel like I'm going to have a heart attack now so I'm in bed. Shouldn't have drank that monster.
Instead of looking out at the sea I'd rather watch other people looking out at the sea. Is that normal?
I feel more relaxed when I'm watching other people relaxing.
Whenever I go to the beach I'm there for five minutes. Whenever I'm at a park I can't sit down for long, always have to walk somewhere else.
I suspect that chilling out for one day is just too unnatural for me.
I need to go out again to the store to get monster and houmous. I still have to shower today and feel kind of off rn.
I wasted too much time being fatigued so I snorted research chemicals to stay awake longer and still plan to study for five hours today.
2024-06-05 at 9:10 AM UTC
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My second cat
"**Yes**, cats indeed have a social structure, and it's fascinating! Let's explore:
1. **Feral Cat Colonies**:
- In feral cat colonies (those living with no human interaction), a **matriarchal hierarchy** often exists. The core social unit consists of related females and their kittens.
- The **matriarch**, typically the oldest and most dominant female, plays a central role in decision-making and resource allocation within the group⁴.
2. **Domestic Cats**:
- Domestic cats are unique members of the Felidae family. Unlike most wild cat species (which are solitary predators), domestic cats can adapt to living in groups.
- When density of cats and food sources allow, they form social structures. These structures often follow a **matrilineal pattern** (blood related through the mother's line).
- Female cats are usually at the top of the hierarchy. They band together, play midwives to one another, raise kittens together, and even nurse each other's kittens.
- An unspayed female cat has control over her mates during mating season, choosing who she wants to mate with¹².
3. **Household Hierarchy**:
- Even in our households, the same hierarchical setup is present, and **female cats** often take charge.
- The catnip mouse, a coveted toy, is usually passed on to another female, regardless of whether they are related or not³.
So, next time you observe your cats, remember that there's often a **queen** overseeing the feline affairs! 👑🐾"
