Originally posted by Bill Krozby
^he does love his kids, and by the way I wouldn't trust a study done by the university of texas in austin at all. A lot of students there are huge liberals who will never have kids themselves and are for post birth abortions.
And there's far worse things you can do to a child without ever laying a hand on them. And some kids thats the only way they will behave, my dad used to spank my brother and I and it was the right thing to do because we would of never of done things the right way.
Only people that have been spanked feel teh need to justify this fucking violence against kids. My God, you people are pathetic.
"Hurr, my daddy used to beat me, i turned out fine right?" You aren't even aware of how fucked up you are. I may be a pedo, but at least i know the measure of my own degeneracy. Jesus fuck.
Originally posted by Sophie
Yeah, that's the most pathetic part. I am a fucking pedophile and even i have never actually BEAT CHILDREN WITH A BELT. You are worse than a pedophile, how does that make you feel?
Makes me feel nothing. Your opinion on the matter is invalidated by your inclination to view children as sex objects.
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Originally posted by HampTheToker
Makes me feel nothing. Your opinion on the matter is invalidated by your inclination to view children as sex objects.
Originally posted by HampTheToker
Bill Krozby doesn't understand how a kid comes to expect bribes for doing next to nothing when you give to them as a motivator to do little housework bullshit that they should be doing as a matter of personal responsibility anyway.
When I tell my son to pick up after himself and he says no, then I pull out my belt and tell him one more time. There's no reward like that for being responsible for your own mess. I do tell him thank you and let him know that I appreciate his help. Sometimes, if he doesn't bitch and whine about it, maybe I'll get him an ice cream or some other goodie snack or cheap toy, but that reward is for doing what he's told without resistance. He's a very headstrong kid, but rewarding him with small things for cooperation does seem to work as long as he knows that his reward is for cooperation not for meeting his responsibilities. You have to make that distinction clear otherwise children will believe the latter.
I'm with you, except for the whole hitting children part. Hitting children is for parents who don't know how to parent.
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Originally posted by mmQ
Are we really trying to argue that an allowance as a teenager makes a kid greedy and entitled? Wtf? Pretty much everyone I know growing up got a silly little allowance for doing chores and plenty of them are regular responsible adults now with professional jobs and families.
Implying that people with jobs and families can't be greedy and entitled. My goal in raising my children isn't to raise people with 'professional jobs and families' but to raise decent human beings. Adults act like entitled, spoiled brats all the time.
Originally posted by Discount Whore
I'm with you, except for the whole hitting children part. Hitting children is for parents who don't know how to parent.
Yours might not need it, but mine do. These kids will run all over that ass if they sense weakness. They're like little gorillas.
Originally posted by HampTheToker
Yours might not need it, but mine do. These kids will run all over that ass if they sense weakness. They're like little gorillas.
That is a sign of not knowing how to parent, that you need it. You only need it now because you've already set the foundation for needing it. I'm not saying it doesn't work, but you never need to hit your children if you've parented right.
Originally posted by Discount Whore
No I don't, because I've seen just the opposite. Allowance isn't the only thing at play here either.
Then we're not talking about the same thing. A fucking allowance doesn't equate to entitlement and 'not being a decent human being.' Obviously there are a myriad of factors that play into how a child develops and how they turn out. Allowance isn't a bad practice. That's what I'm saying. Nothing more, nothing less.