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People Don't Like Me

  1. #61
    playingindirt Tuskegee Airman [nevermore overpopulate your whitweek]
    Originally posted by SBTlauien Alright, I think I know what it is. You know how people communicate and form relationships, I don't think I can. From a young age, most people learn how to 'be part of the group', make friends, get married and have kids. My parents and I never had a relationship, nothing close. I believe this, along with the contributing factors of my unatractive looks, has made me into one of those people that no one likes.

    I have distinctly noticed that people seem repulsed by my presence. They don't like me.

    maybe you ought to consider whether you like them. you don't know that they don't like you. most people generally talk too much about nothing or has the kind of loyalty that only goes as far as what it will get them.
    but there are some pretty cool people around. just let things happen on their own.
  2. #62
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    Originally posted by mmQ Practical advice cannot help you SBT. Do you want to have to have a wrinkly piece of paper with the the textbook responses that you have to pull out and read whenever someone says something to you? "wait hang on I know what to say here" *pulls out paper*

    Only if it helps them like me. But they aren't going to like waiting for me to look it up. Peoplw communicate very fluently but I don't seem to pick up on social ques. I don't know what a lot of things mean. That's likely an issue.

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    author="Lanny"]

    Yeah, calling people "nasty" and thinking everyone is trying to attack you when they aren't is the reason no one likes you. I said she was trying to have a conversation, not hop on your dick. Who gives a fuck if she's married or not, she was a person trying to have a social interaction with you, a golden opportunity to not be an anti-social weirdo, which it seems like you failed miserably at.

    Your conviction that everyone is out to get you is far and away the most off-putting aspect of your personality.


    Not everyone. Just a lot of people. Like social circles handing out flyers with my picture on it and big, bold, red letters spelling out "CHILD MOLESTER". Restricting me of any chance or possibility to learn how to form positive relationships.
  3. #63
    Lanny Bird of Courage
    Originally posted by SBTlauien Not everyone. Just a lot of people. Like social circles handing out flyers with my picture on it and big, bold, red letters spelling out "CHILD MOLESTER". Restricting me of any chance or possibility to learn how to form positive relationships.

    No one has ever done that to you. If you think they have then you are suffering from paranoid delusions and you should seek medical attention ASAP.
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  4. #64
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Lanny
    No one has ever done that to you. If you think they have then you are suffering from paranoid delusions and you should seek medical attention ASAP.

    Well, I was just giving an example. But they could have done that or something similar.
  5. #65
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    So what should I do differently this week? There must be something that I can do that'll make people not dislike me so much.
  6. #66
    Originally posted by SBTlauien So what should I do differently this week? There must be something that I can do that'll make people not dislike me so much.

    Stay home.
  7. #67
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Stay home.

    Is that what it takes?
  8. #68
    Nil African Astronaut [the overexcited four-footed chanar]
    maybe you are crass and have bad manners?

    think about it
  9. #69
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Nil maybe you are crass and have bad manners?

    think about it

    I chew with my mouth closed. I do a good job at not interrupting people but that's because they are usually yelling at me. I share the road.
  10. #70
    Originally posted by SBTlauien Is that what it takes?

    Yes, the less you interact with people the less opportunities they have to dislike you.
  11. #71
    tee hee hee Naturally Camouflaged [slangily complete this slumberer]
    U need more vit c.
  12. #72
    -SpectraL coward [the spuriously bluish-lilac bushman]
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Yes, the less you interact with people the less opportunities they have to dislike you.

    If you want to be open to opportunities, you have to stay available and networked, otherwise those opportunities will never reach you.
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  13. #73
    Originally posted by -SpectraL If you want to be open to opportunities, you have to stay available and networked, otherwise those opportunities will never reach you.

    This is NIS...the land of the basement dweller and shut in...
  14. #74
    Ghost Black Hole
    Originally posted by SBTlauien So what should I do differently this week? There must be something that I can do that'll make people not dislike me so much.

    Wear a funny shirt that gets people's attention.

    I walk around town in a rabbit hat and a sailor moon shirt and I have gotten dozens of compliments about the hat or Shirt even though I look like a jack the Ripper in a meth lab explosion people want to smile and be nice to me because I present myself as someone fun and interesting.

    Be like a peacock and distract them and they won't know how dark and depraved you are on the inside

  15. #75
    tee hee hee Naturally Camouflaged [slangily complete this slumberer]
    V necks are so early 2000's.
  16. #76
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Ghost Be like a peacock and distract them and they won't know how dark and depraved you are on the inside

    I'm not dark and depraved. I eat healthy and exercise. I take good care of myself. I wear new clothing. I go out and spend money and buy new things. I'm not fat. I look quality, rather than degenerate. I'm actually the opposite of dark and depraved.
  17. #77
    tee hee hee Naturally Camouflaged [slangily complete this slumberer]
    You need to be more brooding and mysterious.
  18. #78
    Originally posted by SBTlauien I'm not dark and depraved. I eat healthy and exercise. I take good care of myself. I wear new clothing. I go out and spend money and buy new things. I'm not fat. I look quality, rather than degenerate. I'm actually the opposite of dark and depraved.

    That all sounds very generic, you need to be "different"...ever thought about being a furry?
  19. #79
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson That all sounds very generic, you need to be "different"…ever thought about being a furry?

    What is a furry?
  20. #80
    -SpectraL coward [the spuriously bluish-lilac bushman]
    Originally posted by SBTlauien What is a furry?

    A furry is a peculiar species of LibTard.
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