User Controls
People Don't Like Me
-
2018-10-09 at 8:14 PM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien Alright, I think I know what it is. You know how people communicate and form relationships, I don't think I can. From a young age, most people learn how to 'be part of the group', make friends, get married and have kids. My parents and I never had a relationship, nothing close. I believe this, along with the contributing factors of my unatractive looks, has made me into one of those people that no one likes.
I have distinctly noticed that people seem repulsed by my presence. They don't like me.
maybe you ought to consider whether you like them. you don't know that they don't like you. most people generally talk too much about nothing or has the kind of loyalty that only goes as far as what it will get them.
but there are some pretty cool people around. just let things happen on their own. -
2018-10-09 at 9:46 PM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ Practical advice cannot help you SBT. Do you want to have to have a wrinkly piece of paper with the the textbook responses that you have to pull out and read whenever someone says something to you? "wait hang on I know what to say here" *pulls out paper*
Only if it helps them like me. But they aren't going to like waiting for me to look it up. Peoplw communicate very fluently but I don't seem to pick up on social ques. I don't know what a lot of things mean. That's likely an issue.
[quote pk=559381
author="Lanny"]
Yeah, calling people "nasty" and thinking everyone is trying to attack you when they aren't is the reason no one likes you. I said she was trying to have a conversation, not hop on your dick. Who gives a fuck if she's married or not, she was a person trying to have a social interaction with you, a golden opportunity to not be an anti-social weirdo, which it seems like you failed miserably at.
Your conviction that everyone is out to get you is far and away the most off-putting aspect of your personality.
Not everyone. Just a lot of people. Like social circles handing out flyers with my picture on it and big, bold, red letters spelling out "CHILD MOLESTER". Restricting me of any chance or possibility to learn how to form positive relationships. -
2018-10-10 at 12:13 AM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien Not everyone. Just a lot of people. Like social circles handing out flyers with my picture on it and big, bold, red letters spelling out "CHILD MOLESTER". Restricting me of any chance or possibility to learn how to form positive relationships.
No one has ever done that to you. If you think they have then you are suffering from paranoid delusions and you should seek medical attention ASAP.
-
2018-10-10 at 9:37 PM UTC
-
2018-10-15 at 4:46 PM UTCSo what should I do differently this week? There must be something that I can do that'll make people not dislike me so much.
-
2018-10-15 at 4:57 PM UTC
-
2018-10-15 at 7:37 PM UTC
-
2018-10-15 at 11:12 PM UTCmaybe you are crass and have bad manners?
think about it -
2018-10-16 at 4:17 AM UTC
-
2018-10-16 at 12:20 PM UTC
-
2018-10-16 at 1:49 PM UTCU need more vit c.
-
2018-10-16 at 2 PM UTC
-
2018-10-16 at 2:06 PM UTC
-
2018-10-16 at 2:09 PM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien So what should I do differently this week? There must be something that I can do that'll make people not dislike me so much.
Wear a funny shirt that gets people's attention.
I walk around town in a rabbit hat and a sailor moon shirt and I have gotten dozens of compliments about the hat or Shirt even though I look like a jack the Ripper in a meth lab explosion people want to smile and be nice to me because I present myself as someone fun and interesting.
Be like a peacock and distract them and they won't know how dark and depraved you are on the inside
-
2018-10-16 at 2:10 PM UTCV necks are so early 2000's.
-
2018-10-16 at 7:38 PM UTC
Originally posted by Ghost Be like a peacock and distract them and they won't know how dark and depraved you are on the inside
I'm not dark and depraved. I eat healthy and exercise. I take good care of myself. I wear new clothing. I go out and spend money and buy new things. I'm not fat. I look quality, rather than degenerate. I'm actually the opposite of dark and depraved. -
2018-10-16 at 7:40 PM UTCYou need to be more brooding and mysterious.
-
2018-10-16 at 8:10 PM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien I'm not dark and depraved. I eat healthy and exercise. I take good care of myself. I wear new clothing. I go out and spend money and buy new things. I'm not fat. I look quality, rather than degenerate. I'm actually the opposite of dark and depraved.
That all sounds very generic, you need to be "different"...ever thought about being a furry? -
2018-10-16 at 9:36 PM UTC
-
2018-10-16 at 9:38 PM UTC