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People Don't Like Me

  1. #1
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    Alright, I think I know what it is. You know how people communicate and form relationships, I don't think I can. From a young age, most people learn how to 'be part of the group', make friends, get married and have kids. My parents and I never had a relationship, nothing close. I believe this, along with the contributing factors of my unatractive looks, has made me into one of those people that no one likes.

    I have distinctly noticed that people seem repulsed by my presence. They don't like me.
  2. #2
    Ghost Black Hole
    Interpersonal relationships are like selling a product, you have to advertise and sell yourself to people.

    That's how you make it in the professional world, romantically and socially in general.

    Look at Elliot Roger for example. He travelled a lot, had expensive clothes,a nice car and wasn't ugly. He had a strong desire to socialize and find a girlfriend but he failed miserably every step of the way and went out like a true incel warrior.

    His failure in life was because he couldn't sell himself to peers, females, his family or even himself.

    Your problem is obvious, you have the exact same profile avatar for over a year, probably longer and you post like once a week in T&T and only interact with technology related subjects in general.

    You have to change your outer identity to reflect more what people want to see, this is different with every group of people but there are some obvious ones that everyone can relate to.

    Like happiness, kindness, generosity, confidence. People that are associated with these traits are generally pretty well liked
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  3. #3
    Item 9 African Astronaut
    a/s/l ?
  4. #4
    -SpectraL coward [the spuriously bluish-lilac bushman]
    That's mostly a good thing and actually for your own good, because most people are just shitbirds on the take.
  5. #5
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Ghost Interpersonal relationships are like selling a product, you have to advertise and sell yourself to people.

    That's how you make it in the professional world, romantically and socially in general.

    Look at Elliot Roger for example. He travelled a lot, had expensive clothes,a nice car and wasn't ugly. He had a strong desire to socialize and find a girlfriend but he failed miserably every step of the way and went out like a true incel warrior.

    His failure in life was because he couldn't sell himself to peers, females, his family or even himself.

    Your problem is obvious, you have the exact same profile avatar for over a year, probably longer and you post like once a week in T&T and only interact with technology related subjects in general.

    You have to change your outer identity to reflect more what people want to see, this is different with every group of people but there are some obvious ones that everyone can relate to.

    Like happiness, kindness, generosity, confidence. People that are associated with these traits are generally pretty well liked

    I'm trying new things all the time and go out to places. But people are like in their circles and shun me out. I'm treated as if I was a chimo. There's a social barrier there.
  6. #6
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Item 9 a/s/l ?

    14/f/cali

    Originally posted by -SpectraL That's mostly a good thing and actually for your own good, because most people are just shitbirds on the take.

    Mostly.
  7. #7
    -SpectraL coward [the spuriously bluish-lilac bushman]
    It's called a blessing in disguise.
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  8. #8
    Flatulant_bomb Tuskegee Airman
    14 and F in Cali? Ride it out, you will be fine. Talk to granny about your feelers.
  9. #9
    Flatulant_bomb Tuskegee Airman
    Oh and get off this site!
  10. #10
    Speedy Parker Black Hole [my absentmindedly lachrymatory gazania]
    Originally posted by Ghost You have to change your outer identity to reflect more what people want to see, this is different with every group of people but there are some obvious ones that everyone can relate to.

    Spoken like a true cuck
  11. #11
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    I'm actually in my 30's.
  12. #12
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    I think I need to get a new vehicle. A girl at my last job walked up to me and said, "You drive a women's vehicle". This could be a clear sign that my image isn't quite clear. The problem is that I have the lifetime oil change policy with my vehicle and it has under 100k miles. I paid for it in full when I bought it with 24k miles on it. So I think a second vehicle would be best. Something manly like a truck or maybe a jacked up Jeep.

    I still don't know why the guy in the black hat at my workplace was talking shit, but I think maybe he figured I'd be an easy target due to my woman's car I drive.

    I am losing body fat though. I just need a new vehicle, less body fat, and some more possessions, along with some funds, and then I'll be a step further in the right direction.
  13. #13
    Speedy Parker Black Hole [my absentmindedly lachrymatory gazania]
    You can't be liked for things you own
  14. #14
    AngryOnion Big Wig [the nightly self-effacing broadsheet]
    Jesus dude just be yourself and don't give two fucks what other people think.
    Let the chips fall where they will who gives a shit.
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  15. #15
    Sophie Pedophile Tech Support
    Oh it's this thread again. Let's see how many pages it will get to this time.
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  16. #16
    Originally posted by SBTlauien I think I need to get a new vehicle. A girl at my last job walked up to me and said, "You drive a women's vehicle". This could be a clear sign that my image isn't quite clear. The problem is that I have the lifetime oil change policy with my vehicle and it has under 100k miles. I paid for it in full when I bought it with 24k miles on it. So I think a second vehicle would be best. Something manly like a truck or maybe a jacked up Jeep.

    I still don't know why the guy in the black hat at my workplace was talking shit, but I think maybe he figured I'd be an easy target due to my woman's car I drive.

    I am losing body fat though. I just need a new vehicle, less body fat, and some more possessions, along with some funds, and then I'll be a step further in the right direction.

    What car do you drive? A car is just a car. Lets see them talking shit when you climb out of your car all jacked up and with a rifle in the trunk.
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  17. #17
    Nil African Astronaut [the overexcited four-footed chanar]
    Originally posted by Sophie Oh it's this thread again. Let's see how many pages it will get to this time.

    I love how the man in the black hat comes up again too, that bastard!!
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  18. #18
    tee hee hee Naturally Camouflaged [slangily complete this slumberer]
    You need some vit D (sunshine, not d*ck).
  19. #19
    SBTlauien African Astronaut
    I drive a 2010 Honda Civic. I do get plenty of sunshine.

    The guy in the black hat might be a serious problem, financially and socially.

    There is something going on though. I just can't pin-point it. They are against me and are constantly planning and plotting my destruction. I just don't know why though.

    Most things they don't know about. But this one time in 5th grade, I made a sceen about how the PE teacher was molesting these two girls and this other kid said that he saw it. The teacher got replaced and arrested and who knows wht happened to him.
  20. #20
    mmQ Lisa Turtle
    Have you considered turning yourself off and then back on again?

    I thought you were a girl for quite some time and you were just toooo cute. Maybe try that? Dress in drag and get your feminine side on. Probably could make some male and female friends alike. Just laugh at everyone's jokes and talk about the weather and food.
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