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I'm not ready to be a father.
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2018-08-12 at 4:05 PM UTC
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2018-08-12 at 4:09 PM UTCI have a daughter I've never met because baby mom is a terrible person.
If you make your kid watch Nathan for you they'll turn out alright -
2018-08-12 at 4:11 PM UTC
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2018-08-12 at 4:12 PM UTC
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2018-08-12 at 4:16 PM UTC
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2018-08-12 at 4:16 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enterita do you have to pay child support
No but the father figure in he4 life is literally eastern European trash with a big nose. Her older son (I think 7 now) is pretty well adjusted and intelligent with excellent verbal skills if I recall correctly. I really don't know the whole situation, the last time we spoke me and her other baby daddy were threatening each other over the phone and then she told me to lose her number. My best course of action is literally to stalk her, confront he4 and guilt her into letting me be a part of its life, although I will never be integral. -
2018-08-12 at 4:17 PM UTC
Originally posted by yum No but the father figure in he4 life is literally eastern European trash with a big nose. Her older son (I think 7 now) is pretty well adjusted and intelligent with excellent verbal skills if I recall correctly. I really don't know the whole situation, the last time we spoke me and her other baby daddy were threatening each other over the phone and then she told me to lose her number. My best course of action is literally to stalk her, confront he4 and guilt her into letting me be a part of its life, although I will never be integral.
She never came after you for support?
Because technically you’re responsible to pay it regardless of her asking or not....if she comes for you later you’re responsible for all the years you didn’t pay -
2018-08-12 at 4:19 PM UTC
Originally posted by yum No but the father figure in he4 life is literally eastern European trash with a big nose. Her older son (I think 7 now) is pretty well adjusted and intelligent with excellent verbal skills if I recall correctly. I really don't know the whole situation, the last time we spoke me and her other baby daddy were threatening each other over the phone and then she told me to lose her number. My best course of action is literally to stalk her, confront he4 and guilt her into letting me be a part of its life, although I will never be integral.
sounds pretty fucked. the kid will end up hating her for never letting her see you though. -
2018-08-12 at 4:22 PM UTC
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2018-08-12 at 4:23 PM UTC
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2018-08-12 at 4:24 PM UTC
Originally posted by EllariaSand She never came after you for support?
Because technically you’re responsible to pay it regardless of her asking or not….if she comes for you later you’re responsible for all the years you didn’t pay
It's more complicated than that and I likely live in a different country than you. I really don't know if I'm even on the birth certificate or if it's unknown. Her baby daddy is a pathological liar so he might have convinced her to put his name on it. Fuck I hate thinking about this shit -
2018-08-12 at 4:26 PM UTCOther "down low" guys sure do.
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2018-08-12 at 4:27 PM UTC
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2018-08-12 at 4:28 PM UTC
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2018-08-12 at 4:29 PM UTC
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2018-08-12 at 4:29 PM UTC
Originally posted by yum It's more complicated than that and I likely live in a different country than you. I really don't know if I'm even on the birth certificate or if it's unknown. Her baby daddy is a pathological liar so he might have convinced her to put his name on it. Fuck I hate thinking about this shit
Sad
Because it sound like you’d like to be in her life....
DNA is irrefutable though....if you wanted proof and court ordered visitation you could prove you’re the father
That opens the door to your financial responsibilities regarding the child though....unless this other guy adopted the child -
2018-08-12 at 4:54 PM UTC
Originally posted by EllariaSand Sad
Because it sound like you’d like to be in her life….
DNA is irrefutable though….if you wanted proof and court ordered visitation you could prove you’re the father
That opens the door to your financial responsibilities regarding the child though….unless this other guy adopted the child
I really don't care about the financial responsibilities. I'm not really in a position this minute to be an awesome father but I want to keep a dialogue going with her. I realized that to see her now in my situation was kind of selfish but I really do want her to know me as her dad. In the meantime I might try to get this hawt 19 year old preggers or possibly this naturally maternal native girl who takes too many benzos. As you can see In clearly not in a good position but plan to be in a few years -
2018-08-12 at 5:05 PM UTCFatherhood is serious business.
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2018-08-12 at 5:05 PM UTC
Originally posted by yum No but the father figure in he4 life is literally eastern European trash with a big nose. Her older son (I think 7 now) is pretty well adjusted and intelligent with excellent verbal skills if I recall correctly. I really don't know the whole situation, the last time we spoke me and her other baby daddy were threatening each other over the phone and then she told me to lose her number. My best course of action is literally to stalk her, confront he4 and guilt her into letting me be a part of its life, although I will never be integral.
PROOTS. -
2018-08-12 at 5:06 PM UTC