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I'm not ready to be a father.

  1. #21
    Technologist victim of incest
    Originally posted by -SpectraL You could file a legal pursuit to remove your name and association from the child permanently.

    What are these legal pursuits you speak of? Never heard of that!
  2. #22
    I have a daughter I've never met because baby mom is a terrible person.

    If you make your kid watch Nathan for you they'll turn out alright
  3. #23
    EllariaSand African Astronaut
    Originally posted by -SpectraL The child support would be a whole different case.

    18 years lololol
  4. #24
    Enterita African Astronaut
    Originally posted by yum I have a daughter I've never met because baby mom is a terrible person.

    If you make your kid watch Nathan for you they'll turn out alright

    do you have to pay child support
  5. #25
    EllariaSand African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Enterita do you have to pay child support

    Yes ..... if you’re the father you’re responsible for 18 years of child support......they are legally allowed to take it from your pay..if you evade and they come after you you’re responsible for all back child support.....
  6. #26
    Originally posted by Enterita do you have to pay child support

    No but the father figure in he4 life is literally eastern European trash with a big nose. Her older son (I think 7 now) is pretty well adjusted and intelligent with excellent verbal skills if I recall correctly. I really don't know the whole situation, the last time we spoke me and her other baby daddy were threatening each other over the phone and then she told me to lose her number. My best course of action is literally to stalk her, confront he4 and guilt her into letting me be a part of its life, although I will never be integral.
  7. #27
    EllariaSand African Astronaut
    Originally posted by yum No but the father figure in he4 life is literally eastern European trash with a big nose. Her older son (I think 7 now) is pretty well adjusted and intelligent with excellent verbal skills if I recall correctly. I really don't know the whole situation, the last time we spoke me and her other baby daddy were threatening each other over the phone and then she told me to lose her number. My best course of action is literally to stalk her, confront he4 and guilt her into letting me be a part of its life, although I will never be integral.

    She never came after you for support?

    Because technically you’re responsible to pay it regardless of her asking or not....if she comes for you later you’re responsible for all the years you didn’t pay
  8. #28
    Enterita African Astronaut
    Originally posted by yum No but the father figure in he4 life is literally eastern European trash with a big nose. Her older son (I think 7 now) is pretty well adjusted and intelligent with excellent verbal skills if I recall correctly. I really don't know the whole situation, the last time we spoke me and her other baby daddy were threatening each other over the phone and then she told me to lose her number. My best course of action is literally to stalk her, confront he4 and guilt her into letting me be a part of its life, although I will never be integral.

    sounds pretty fucked. the kid will end up hating her for never letting her see you though.
  9. #29
    Originally posted by Enterita sounds pretty fucked. the kid will end up hating her for never letting her see you though.

    I've been in prison and cheated on her. I'm sure she'll be telling her terrible things about me. Her mother is a product of adoption so she can morally justify it.
  10. #30
    Enterita African Astronaut
    Originally posted by yum I've been in prison and cheated on her. I'm sure she'll be telling her terrible things about me. Her mother is a product of adoption so she can morally justify it.

    when you got out of prison did you notice women liked you more
  11. #31
    Originally posted by EllariaSand She never came after you for support?

    Because technically you’re responsible to pay it regardless of her asking or not….if she comes for you later you’re responsible for all the years you didn’t pay

    It's more complicated than that and I likely live in a different country than you. I really don't know if I'm even on the birth certificate or if it's unknown. Her baby daddy is a pathological liar so he might have convinced her to put his name on it. Fuck I hate thinking about this shit
  12. #32
    stl1 Cum Lickin' Fagit
    Other "down low" guys sure do.
  13. #33
    Originally posted by Enterita when you got out of prison did you notice women liked you more

    I noticed it before but this time my ex sabotaged a lot of possible relationships. I just sent her a very hateful message because she still has a bookshelf of mine
  14. #34
    -SpectraL coward [the spuriously bluish-lilac bushman]
    Originally posted by Technologist What are these legal pursuits you speak of? Never heard of that!

    You could also file a restraining order against the child, prohibiting it from coming within a certain distance.
  15. #35
    Enterita African Astronaut
    Originally posted by -SpectraL You could also file a restraining order against the child, prohibiting it from coming within a certain distance.

    can't believe i'm asking this to spectral, but don't you need probable cause
  16. #36
    EllariaSand African Astronaut
    Originally posted by yum It's more complicated than that and I likely live in a different country than you. I really don't know if I'm even on the birth certificate or if it's unknown. Her baby daddy is a pathological liar so he might have convinced her to put his name on it. Fuck I hate thinking about this shit

    Sad
    Because it sound like you’d like to be in her life....

    DNA is irrefutable though....if you wanted proof and court ordered visitation you could prove you’re the father

    That opens the door to your financial responsibilities regarding the child though....unless this other guy adopted the child
  17. #37
    Originally posted by EllariaSand Sad
    Because it sound like you’d like to be in her life….

    DNA is irrefutable though….if you wanted proof and court ordered visitation you could prove you’re the father

    That opens the door to your financial responsibilities regarding the child though….unless this other guy adopted the child

    I really don't care about the financial responsibilities. I'm not really in a position this minute to be an awesome father but I want to keep a dialogue going with her. I realized that to see her now in my situation was kind of selfish but I really do want her to know me as her dad. In the meantime I might try to get this hawt 19 year old preggers or possibly this naturally maternal native girl who takes too many benzos. As you can see In clearly not in a good position but plan to be in a few years
  18. #38
    stl1 Cum Lickin' Fagit
    Fatherhood is serious business.

    Don't fuck it up.
  19. #39
    RisiR † 29 Autism
    Originally posted by yum No but the father figure in he4 life is literally eastern European trash with a big nose. Her older son (I think 7 now) is pretty well adjusted and intelligent with excellent verbal skills if I recall correctly. I really don't know the whole situation, the last time we spoke me and her other baby daddy were threatening each other over the phone and then she told me to lose her number. My best course of action is literally to stalk her, confront he4 and guilt her into letting me be a part of its life, although I will never be integral.

    PROOTS.
  20. #40
    Enterita African Astronaut
    Originally posted by RisiR † PROOTS.

    lmao
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