Originally posted by mmQ
I mean at the end of the day everyone can bitch. It's easy. From as simple as "fuck I don't wanna be at work this fucking sucks" and you just kinda angrily go about day, pushing people away from you bevause why would people want to associate themselves with that. What I hear the most is people bitching in a variety of mediums and its just always verbatim.
>I'm mad about this today fuck it's always the same shit >I'm mad at this group of people for so and so reasons and here are the reaskns >I fucking hate that this keeps happening and I blame someone or a group for it happening.
But no solutions. Made at an ongoing situation at work? Step up and hamdle DAT. Address the issue, it's amazing what a mature respectful chat can do between two people with mutual frustrations.
Mad about larger scale things? Realize what you can and can't do to try and find solutions. As the scale grows larger so does the ability to find resolution but both parties continuing on with angers isn't gonna bring any type of solution and typically just exasperated it. That's where group meetings, open and honest, disxussion, can actually do SOMETHING to at least catalyze a chance for the better for all parties.
Too often than not people just want to be mad, for whatever reason, with no fucking idea of what they wish to see happen to remedy that. It's like at that stupid old AA saying "accept the things I cannot change, change the things I can, and courage to know the difference.
There's really no benefit to hating shit if it just harbors in you and you never do anything about it except just keep talking about how much it hates you without ever being willing to hear outside perspective which you instantly dismiss because you personally want to keep keep harboring hate.
Exactly. Complain complain but never a solution. They want to complain. Coming up with a solution or meeting half way or simply being understanding and kind about things, are much easier to do, I think but people want to make mountains out of mole hills. They despise one another over differing viewpoints. Viewpoints that they have no control over the outcome of anyway. They complain about the lives of others, the way others choose to live their lives which doesn't even effect them anyway. I don't get it
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Originally posted by Technologist
I haven’t been in those shoes….yet, and I hope not to be, but I could imagine being sucked into hate if someone killed my son.
My husband’s son was shot by his cousin. His son was 5 and the cousin was 13, and knew what he was doing, not accidental. My husband forgave the child for killing his son, it took time, but he did. Not sure if I could do that, it would probably take time to heal 1st.
Hate eats away at us. I tend to agree if something were done to my children that I may as well hate. I would hope that I could be strong enough not to.
Hate doesn't hurt the victims of hate. Hate destroys and blinds the holder of hate.
If someone hates me... I don't care I'm not bothered but they hate me so they are.
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Originally posted by mmQ
There are so many thousands of reasons why people get sober, from the spectrum of personal choice to legal consequences to health issues and everything in between. And there's just as many reasons why people continue to not stay sober. What was it for you, your breaking point, of you will, thst allowed you or motivated you to do it and follow through?
I saw finally what it was doing to people I loved. THEY LOVE me. I didn't love me. I had to realize their pain and try to see myself as they did. Now I do. I see where I lack and don't. Right after I got sober I had the absolute most horrific two years of my life. Yet I didn't go back. At that point I knew I won. I knew who I was what I was about... I saw clearly for the first time. I started drinking at 11 drugs at 14 and was very functional for most of my life that way.
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Originally posted by Ughhu
Just take an antidepressant and go out and do shit. You can have the best of both worlds. When out you can drink and do copious amounts of cocaine. You will be so happy, next morning depressed again it’ll the evening and next gram arrives!
Drinking may make it better for the moment but it actually makes it much worse when not drinking. It also gets your boduly used to solving the issue that way so when you can't you're fucked
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Originally posted by GGG
I almost never, ever do this. I may make a comment or ask a question, but I'll never sit there and try to have a conversation with somebody in public unless it's somewhere where that's to be expected (Bar, party, event, etc.)
I truly don't get people who want to do this. I don't like most people. Sure they may be kind and sweet, and great in many other ways, but that doesn't mean I want to be their friend or anything, and if I don't want to be their friend, why would I want to get to know them? I think the special short moments are so much more valuable.
Also I don't like the whole 'getting to know you' talk, which is generally where these types of things end up. If I can have a topical conversation about something then it's great. Good way to suck up knowledge from other people. But most of the time this is not the case.
thots?
Everyone uses me, lies to me or steels from me. When anyone needs hell I'm the first to jump, when the tables are turned I'm the first to get jumped on. Go figure
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Didn't know you all knew each other. Tech is a sweetheart and I love her username heheheheh
Candyrain is also very cool.
Some high quality ladies in this forum now
They are really great. Both carm (candy) and image (Tech) and I at separate times stood together against very different mods but all the same. We worked very well together. What's great is that they are both so intelligent and so kind and witty ...that we all stay level when we were being attacked bot one had to do it say more than the other. They are both very real and willing to help anyone at I am❤❤❤❤❤
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Wow... IDK you could probably just get a job... But you know, I guess being your own masked thief will certainly not raise any eyebrows when investigated. Your better off hiring a midget or something. Pay him in platform shoes. Idk
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