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several notes about self awareness
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2018-11-03 at 5:10 AM UTC
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2018-11-03 at 5:12 AM UTC😂
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2018-11-03 at 5:12 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo not really, more like something a passive millenial who is unsure of how to obtain anything but the bare necessities lives. Give me your Facebook or I'll beat the shit out of your short gay dad
i gave you my facebook once and the next day my computer was magically system32'd
you first so i can add you to the secret trianglism facebook group -
2018-11-03 at 5:15 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo not really, more like something a passive millenial who is unsure of how to obtain anything but the bare necessities lives. Give me your Facebook or I'll beat the shit out of your short gay dad
Use what you got... Inherintely to do more and make more. You're obviously intelligent... A complete asshole but putting that aside, use your fucking intelligence and figure it out. Don't come here and bitch to essentially yourself, out loud, so others can hear.. -
2018-11-03 at 5:16 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ Snoob is a good example of Un self aware. Even if he thinks he is, or is to an extent, guys like him are so programmed to generally have a main agenda and one track mind which they are scared to consider the possibility of it being wrong or at the very least not as right as he might think.
Ive gone to some very informative talks on campus of adults talking about controversial subject matter and its always civil and done in a respectful manner, in the understanding that there's enough self awareness with these folks that they realize we aren't always right and we may in fact be right too, but the "I know I'm right and nothing you can do will change my mind" ive always found to be embarrassing and a clear indicator of a lack of self awareness in that sense that outside opinions don't equate to stupidity and inferiority to your own opinions.
Obviously nobody WANTS to be wrong, but I think true self awareness is accepting that you can be wrong, and regerding certain issues you very likely are. People are scared to be wrong–it's humbling, tarnished egos, and can be felt as though due to being incorrect about one thing dimishes one's credibility therefore nobody will take them seriously about other matters.
a lot of times, like everything else the message delivered by the medium shapes how you react to it. It's easier to take criticism and admit you're wrong to someone you see as being of somewhat equal stature to you versus someone you see as inherently inferior. Most people are guilty of this to an extent and will defend a position they aren't so confident about because the person they're conversing with can't articulate the nuances of the detriment of your position.
I try to be pretty open IRL unless I subconsciously determine someone to be an "other" (enemy) and from then on they are basically dead to me and I assume they think the same about me even if they don't. Yes my personal/emotional issues affect every part of my life thanks for askingThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!- mmQ,
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2018-11-03 at 5:24 AM UTC
Originally posted by Glokula's Homabla i gave you my facebook once and the next day my computer was magically system32'd
you first so i can add you to the secret trianglism facebook group
I have no vested interest in fucking up your computer and making you close your 68 tabs of Wikipedia and blogs by people who "debunk" autism by being diagnosed as autistic but still manage to successfully blog about how they can debunk autism by blogging about it.
ON the topic of self awareness...The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2018-11-03 at 5:25 AM UTC
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2018-11-03 at 5:28 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo I have no vested interest in fucking up your computer and making you close your 68 tabs of Wikipedia and blogs by people who "debunk" autism by being diagnosed as autistic but still manage to successfully blog about how they can debunk autism by blogging about it.
ON the topic of self awareness…
is this a thing. invite me to your community -
2018-11-03 at 5:34 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo a lot of times, like everything else the message delivered by the medium shapes how you react to it. It's easier to take criticism and admit you're wrong to someone you see as being of somewhat equal stature to you versus someone you see as inherently inferior. Most people are guilty of this to an extent and will defend a position they aren't so confident about because the person they're conversing with can't articulate the nuances of the detriment of your position.
I try to be pretty open IRL unless I subconsciously determine someone to be an "other" (enemy) and from then on they are basically dead to me and I assume they think the same about me even if they don't. Yes my personal/emotional issues affect every part of my life thanks for asking
Just eat and apple go for a jog and take ten deep breaths make a chardini martini and relish in happy. Then when you're coming down or irritable just avoid everyone and everything until you're back to normal, then repeat. -
2018-11-03 at 5:36 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo This is literally the best medium for it
Why? You'd be better off saying it in the mirror. At least you could keep some of the negativity down. If you feel this way then you notice it, there for you are one of the few that has it in your power to do something better. Or just come here and bitch. Or both js -
2018-11-03 at 5:57 AM UTC
Originally posted by Jackrabbitfyi Why? You'd be better off saying it in the mirror. At least you could keep some of the negativity down. If you feel this way then you notice it, there for you are one of the few that has it in your power to do something better. Or just come here and bitch. Or both js
I actually feel pretty happy right now. Life is pretty good all things considered -
2018-11-03 at 5:59 AM UTC
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2018-11-03 at 5:59 AM UTCinb4 i failed another drug test cuz im a junkie should i off myself for real this time?
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2018-11-03 at 6:01 AM UTC
Originally posted by Jackrabbitfyi Why? You'd be better off saying it in the mirror. At least you could keep some of the negativity down. If you feel this way then you notice it, there for you are one of the few that has it in your power to do something better. Or just come here and bitch. Or both js
I mean at the end of the day everyone can bitch. It's easy. From as simple as "fuck I don't wanna be at work this fucking sucks" and you just kinda angrily go about day, pushing people away from you bevause why would people want to associate themselves with that. What I hear the most is people bitching in a variety of mediums and its just always verbatim.
>I'm mad about this today fuck it's always the same shit
>I'm mad at this group of people for so and so reasons and here are the reaskns
>I fucking hate that this keeps happening and I blame someone or a group for it happening.
But no solutions. Made at an ongoing situation at work? Step up and hamdle DAT. Address the issue, it's amazing what a mature respectful chat can do between two people with mutual frustrations.
Mad about larger scale things? Realize what you can and can't do to try and find solutions. As the scale grows larger so does the ability to find resolution but both parties continuing on with angers isn't gonna bring any type of solution and typically just exasperated it. That's where group meetings, open and honest, disxussion, can actually do SOMETHING to at least catalyze a chance for the better for all parties.
Too often than not people just want to be mad, for whatever reason, with no fucking idea of what they wish to see happen to remedy that. It's like at that stupid old AA saying "accept the things I cannot change, change the things I can, and courage to know the difference.
There's really no benefit to hating shit if it just harbors in you and you never do anything about it except just keep talking about how much it hates you without ever being willing to hear outside perspective which you instantly dismiss because you personally want to keep keep harboring hate.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2018-11-03 at 6:03 AM UTC
Originally posted by Glokula's Homabla inb4 i failed another drug test cuz im a junkie should i off myself for real this time?
Get sober...im serious I am a total fuck up. I did it. If I did it believe me ANYONE can. I mean anyone. Really
And if youre being facetious or messing with op or what not than ignore what I just said Lol -
2018-11-03 at 6:05 AM UTC
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2018-11-03 at 6:07 AM UTC
Originally posted by Jackrabbitfyi Get sober…im serious I am a total fuck up. I did it. If I did it believe me ANYONE can. I mean anyone. Really
And if youre being facetious or messing with op or what not than ignore what I just said Lol
There are so many thousands of reasons why people get sober, from the spectrum of personal choice to legal consequences to health issues and everything in between. And there's just as many reasons why people continue to not stay sober. What was it for you, your breaking point, of you will, thst allowed you or motivated you to do it and follow through? -
2018-11-03 at 6:07 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ I mean at the end of the day everyone can bitch. It's easy. From as simple as "fuck I don't wanna be at work this fucking sucks" and you just kinda angrily go about day, pushing people away from you bevause why would people want to associate themselves with that. What I hear the most is people bitching in a variety of mediums and its just always verbatim.
>I'm mad about this today fuck it's always the same shit
>I'm mad at this group of people for so and so reasons and here are the reaskns
>I fucking hate that this keeps happening and I blame someone or a group for it happening.
But no solutions. Made at an ongoing situation at work? Step up and hamdle DAT. Address the issue, it's amazing what a mature respectful chat can do between two people with mutual frustrations.
Mad about larger scale things? Realize what you can and can't do to try and find solutions. As the scale grows larger so does the ability to find resolution but both parties continuing on with angers isn't gonna bring any type of solution and typically just exasperated it. That's where group meetings, open and honest, disxussion, can actually do SOMETHING to at least catalyze a chance for the better for all parties.
Too often than not people just want to be mad, for whatever reason, with no fucking idea of what they wish to see happen to remedy that. It's like at that stupid old AA saying "accept the things I cannot change, change the things I can, and courage to know the difference.
There's really no benefit to hating shit if it just harbors in you and you never do anything about it except just keep talking about how much it hates you without ever being willing to hear outside perspective which you instantly dismiss because you personally want to keep keep harboring hate.
Exactly. Complain complain but never a solution. They want to complain. Coming up with a solution or meeting half way or simply being understanding and kind about things, are much easier to do, I think but people want to make mountains out of mole hills. They despise one another over differing viewpoints. Viewpoints that they have no control over the outcome of anyway. They complain about the lives of others, the way others choose to live their lives which doesn't even effect them anyway. I don't get itThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2018-11-03 at 6:11 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ There are so many thousands of reasons why people get sober, from the spectrum of personal choice to legal consequences to health issues and everything in between. And there's just as many reasons why people continue to not stay sober. What was it for you, your breaking point, of you will, thst allowed you or motivated you to do it and follow through?
I saw finally what it was doing to people I loved. THEY LOVE me. I didn't love me. I had to realize their pain and try to see myself as they did. Now I do. I see where I lack and don't. Right after I got sober I had the absolute most horrific two years of my life. Yet I didn't go back. At that point I knew I won. I knew who I was what I was about... I saw clearly for the first time. I started drinking at 11 drugs at 14 and was very functional for most of my life that way.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2018-11-04 at 4:06 AM UTCmmqs posts ITT are warmfeelingThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
