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2020-01-07 at 12:49 AM UTC
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2020-01-07 at 1:03 AM UTC
Originally posted by Octavian I need to find good womenz to have my babies but leave me alone. I could deal with the whole dad thing but not put put up with their dumb bitch mothers.
thats kind of part of being a dad. Dont you have a son? My bm is insane and gossipy and hateful and I have to deal with her to see my kid.
I just typed a bunch of stuff twice and deleted it. Having a kid for selfish reasons is gay and your kid will grow up being kind of a fuckup for sure without any relationship between you. You should know this tho but do whatcha want but it doesnt seem like you want a kid for any good reason. I kinda want a kid rn and admit its not for good reasons but Im at least willing 5o do everything I can for the lil bastard -
2020-01-07 at 1:04 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo thats kind of part of being a dad. Dont you have a son? My bm is insane and gossipy and hateful and I have to deal with her to see my kid.
I just typed a bunch of stuff twice and deleted it. Having a kid for selfish reasons is gay and your kid will grow up being kind of a fuckup for sure without any relationship between you. You should know this tho but do whatcha want but it doesnt seem like you want a kid for any good reason. I kinda want a kid rn and admit its not for good reasons but Im at least willing 5o do everything I can for the lil bastard
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2020-01-07 at 1:12 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo thats kind of part of being a dad. Dont you have a son? My bm is insane and gossipy and hateful and I have to deal with her to see my kid.
I just typed a bunch of stuff twice and deleted it. Having a kid for selfish reasons is gay and your kid will grow up being kind of a fuckup for sure without any relationship between you. You should know this tho but do whatcha want but it doesnt seem like you want a kid for any good reason. I kinda want a kid rn and admit its not for good reasons but Im at least willing 5o do everything I can for the lil bastard
Oh no I do want kids and I would make a great dad, I just cba having a relationship with the mother of said children. Nothing wrong in that, I just don't feel like I could give a woman my full loving attention as I would a child. She would probably get bored and cheat on me. I would rather just be a co parent. -
2020-01-07 at 1:14 AM UTCI have a son who I can't see cause his mother is a complete bitch. I will be in his life regardless of what she says or plans to do to prevent that. I have no convictions or anything pertaining to domestic battery etc, so she has fuck all against me in a court of law.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2020-01-07 at 1:45 AM UTC
Originally posted by Octavian I have a son who I can't see cause his mother is a complete bitch. I will be in his life regardless of what she says or plans to do to prevent that. I have no convictions or anything pertaining to domestic battery etc, so she has fuck all against me in a court of law.
Wait, you just said you DO want kids and WOULD make a great dad and now you say you have a son. So do you actually have a biological kid already? -
2020-01-07 at 1:48 AM UTCThere's no fucking way I would ever want or have kids because children are annoying as fuck, expensive, and inconvenient in my opinion. There's no way I'm going to spend many years of my time and thousands and thousands of dollars taking care of a miniature more vulnerable version of myself just for "legacy" or to feel like I have a purpose.
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2020-01-07 at 1:52 AM UTC
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2020-01-07 at 1:53 AM UTC
Originally posted by Solstice There's no fucking way I would ever want or have kids because children are annoying as fuck, expensive, and inconvenient in my opinion. There's no way I'm going to spend many years of my time and thousands and thousands of dollars taking care of a miniature more vulnerable version of myself just for "legacy" or to feel like I have a purpose.
Yeah I have one but since the past 3 years have been fucked up, I chose not to be in his life. At least for now anyway. -
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2020-01-07 at 2:25 AM UTC
Originally posted by Octavian Yeah I have one but since the past 3 years have been fucked up, I chose not to be in his life. At least for now anyway.
That's respectable but you don't even seem that fucked up compared to a lot of these idiots who run around with their kids on a daily basis, you just liked a little nose candy here and there. -
2020-01-07 at 2:32 AM UTCYeah I've battled Cocaine addiction since I was 16, (now 29). It was always a denial thing, saying I can stop anytime but now I face a bigger problem when I drink. It triggers my Cocaine urges unless I'm in the right company, but sometimes even that can even be hard given the availability. The other risk is just drink on its own cause I'm less sober and more volatile/ prone to dumbshit behaviour when extremely drunk.
Just sick of not finding a happy medium. I would like to stop the Cocaine for good though. -
2020-01-07 at 2:36 AM UTCI was the opposite Oct. I had to have beer when I did blow. Alcohol was my leveling out drug.
Oct it took me awhile to quit. I fell off the wagon a lot, but I just went right back to sobriety. You are doing the right things. It’s not an overnight thing, but you’re on your way.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2020-01-07 at 2:42 AM UTC
Originally posted by Technologist I was the opposite Oct. I had to have beer when I did blow. Alcohol was my leveling out drug.
Oct it took me awhile to quit. I fell off the wagon a lot, but I just went right back to sobriety. You are doing the right things. It’s not an overnight thing, but you’re on your way.
Thanks Tech
Yeah it sure feels good when you're sober for a while I must admit. I always said it must suck to love something so much you can't have it again. -
2020-01-07 at 3:04 AM UTC
Originally posted by Octavian Oh no I do want kids and I would make a great dad, I just cba having a relationship with the mother of said children. Nothing wrong in that, I just don't feel like I could give a woman my full loving attention as I would a child. She would probably get bored and cheat on me. I would rather just be a co parent.
ah well thats much more common these days. Co-parenting requires a lot of communication between parents though, both when thr kid is with them and when its not. Fuck Ive been with so many fucking single moms Ive had far too much of a hand in some kids development before.
My situation is kinda fucked, Ive posted about it more than I should but meanwhile theres a beautiful little girl who looks similar to me being raised (in a stable home) with two vaugely slavic older siblings as their brother and sister, with a paternal figure I do not like or respect although I will submit he does a lot for his kids. Ive recently started seeing her more over the holidays but there was some childish drama the other day so now things are a little more up in the air.
All things considered, my cokehead gossipy weirdo bm isnt too bad. She fucks with me and seeing my kid though because she's insane but we know each other well enough to guage each others intentions. She's going to try to use me financially and probably as a babysitter for her other kids later on (which I will fight her on) but I really blame her other baby daddy for trying to poison our relationship which is understandable because hes slavic and I basically cuckolded him which is an unforgivable slavic sin.
Really all you can do is try. There were times I was extremely disheartened with the situation and considered doing some very rash things but my patiance paid off and led to a new level of entropy. Just try to be in your sons life no matter how bad you think you screwed up. If you wanna get a bitch pregnant just to co-parent there are girls for that but youre better off making her think youll be there forever borse and a barriage and all that or else shes likely gointo seek someone who'll tell her what she wants to hear. Or you can find a slag who wants a kid for selfish reasons and that's also cool and might work out really well.
Fuck knows man literally no one is an expert at raising kids and anyone who says theyre an expert probably raised the most insufferable little bitches you could imagine. Just aspire to go right where your parents went wrong and thats good enoughThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2020-01-07 at 3:06 AM UTC
Originally posted by Technologist I was the opposite Oct. I had to have beer when I did blow. Alcohol was my leveling out drug.
Oct it took me awhile to quit. I fell off the wagon a lot, but I just went right back to sobriety. You are doing the right things. It’s not an overnight thing, but you’re on your way.
Well to be fair coke isn't really worth doing without alcohol anyways because cocaethylene is so much superior. -
2020-01-07 at 3:12 AM UTC
Originally posted by Solstice Well to be fair coke isn't really worth doing without alcohol anyways because cocaethylene is so much superior.
The dowmside is the night never ends and when done alone I found myself watching cream pie videos for hours if not days. That must have done some damage to my brain in a sexual way albeit I feel fine somewhat now.
I don't watch porn but it sure as hell is better off your head on coke, sex too!
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2020-01-07 at 3:16 AM UTC
Originally posted by Octavian The dowmside is the night never ends and when done alone I found myself watching cream pie videos for hours if not days. That must have done some damage to my brain in a sexual way albeit I feel fine somewhat now.
I don't watch porn but it sure as hell is better off your head on coke, sex too!
I take prescription amphetamine so binge watching porn is basically a huge part of my life. If there's a way to sexually damage your brain from overexposure to it then I'm surely fucked by now. Never really been a creampie kind of guy but I'd say that's probably pretty vanilla compared to what I find myself pulling up. -
2020-01-07 at 3:21 AM UTC
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2020-01-07 at 3:26 AM UTC
Originally posted by Solstice I take prescription amphetamine so binge watching porn is basically a huge part of my life. If there's a way to sexually damage your brain from overexposure to it then I'm surely fucked by now. Never really been a creampie kind of guy but I'd say that's probably pretty vanilla compared to what I find myself pulling up.
It's insane how much it makes you more wired/ enjoyable.
I think getting drunk and fucking/ sleeping is more fun than being up for days, compared to suffering major serotonin syndrome; and feeling like a brain damaged mess.
