2019-04-06 at 4:17 PM UTC
Originally posted by CASPER
Lol. Pretty much any woman that I find even mildly attractive, I start thinking about her in some sweatpants on the sofa with me watching a movie. Or whether she'll look cute angry when I tell her she's got hairier feet than I do, and start hitting me with a pillow. Or whether I'll want to kiss her when she's all sick with the flu and gross and sweaty and hasn't showered for 3 days. And then I picture her screaming at me, and how we'd most likely break up.
Yeah my percentages were probably a bit off, but the truth is that people have different standards. The chance that someone is going to have that butterflies in the stomach feeling for you too…isn't great for guys in our positions. At 25+ women have generally had a few bad relationships by that point. They've dated the "bad boy" they've tried to fix someone. They've had a complete loser. I may just have zero idea what I'm talking about too, but generally, I think women want stability, security. Someone they can be proud to be seen with or talk about. When you're coming off a decade plus heroin addiction, you're just not ticking a ton of those boxes.
I should check my Tinder. I think I right swiped a lot of homely looking girls bc I felt like they should get some attention too, and I don't mind talking to anyone. Socializing is good. But like I was describing above, maybe some of those girls get those butterflies reading my profile. Anything is possible rofl. But I'm not really interested in anything more than talking with them. And generally, women have much higher standards than dudes. Yadadameen?
Idk. Relationship stuff is iffy. Especially In recovery. I should actually start going to NA meetings lol. Shit sounds like a party.
See I knew you were a cool dude from hearsay but now you’re even cooler. I’m really proud of what you have accomplished. And yes, you’re not suppose to date for a year in recovery because your addiction can transfer to sec and emotions. I drank about my dads death for a year. masturbated driving in a storm super drunk and on cocaine. I didn’t hit the kind of rock bottom that involved death or injury... but I got a dui and woke up the next day ready to change my life. I was sober for a year a year and went to meetings for 6 months. And they absolutely discourage dating for a year. Look at what happened to me when I wasn’t even dating I was just looking to not be alone because I was afraid I was going to drink that night.
Don’t worry about ticking boxes. I’m getting older and I’m starting to worry I’m not looking for men that provide safety and security. But I also have realized you just can’t fight nature. If you have the electricity tech described that’s really all that matters. As long as that person also doesn’t harm you. Then the electricity can go fuck itself.
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2019-04-06 at 5:22 PM UTC
That mal chick seems like a huge douchebag.
2019-04-06 at 5:24 PM UTC
Learned it from my NIS babes.
2019-04-06 at 7:41 PM UTC
Krotz you fuck tanks stfu and you'd probably lick a man's ass for a pinch of potpourri
2019-04-06 at 7:48 PM UTC
"you're lame drug"
Whelp there ya have it folks
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2019-04-06 at 7:50 PM UTC
Grylls
Cum Looking Faggot
[abrade this vocal tread-softly]
ask my BLANK for free drugs
looks like you paused there to think of some bullshit fake person and forgot to type it
2019-04-06 at 7:54 PM UTC
kroz
weak whyte, frothy cuck, and former twink
wow you faggots totally skooled me lol
2019-04-06 at 7:59 PM UTC
You're alright, Krotz. Still got a lil slop bitch on your lip, but you're alright.
2019-04-06 at 11:38 PM UTC
This has been a good thread to read, a lot of honest posts in here about subject matter that's been heavy on my thoughts lately. I feel like I've been dropping my opinions all over the site though so I'll let yall take this one.
2019-04-07 at 12:32 AM UTC
I'll just do feels for tonight. I have a first date in about an hour with a match thats a little better than usual. I took 10 mg adderall and now I have bubble guts.
2019-04-07 at 12:37 AM UTC
Can you force yourself to eat something nutritious? Small but packed with nutrients.
