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2019-04-06 at 11:51 AM UTC
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2019-04-06 at 11:58 AM UTCI understand what your saying, I must have misunderstood. I just think you have a charismatic personality that would keep a woman attracted no matter what your past.
Oh, and I think your percentages you stated about getting shot down are a bit over the top. There are good woman who will accept you and your struggles.
It’s where you’re going, not where you’ve been.
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Laughing at myself 😂 before you do for my use of cliche 😂The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-04-06 at 12:01 PM UTC
Originally posted by CASPER No i think you misunderstood. My reluctance to lie is pretty much the entire reason I haven't gotten laid in years, and haven't been in a relationship in near a decade. That's why I'm really only comfortable talking to women who know all that stuff from he get-go. It's just too much baggage to dump in someone's lap, and honestly as a guy in my situation, you're probably going to get shot down > 95% of the time. And out of that 5%, probably 3% are batshit crazy or with their own major flaws that makes them willing to compromise.
In short, I really just don't have the time, energy or inclination to put myself out there with all my fucked up shit- and wade through a sea of rejections to find that 2% someone I'd actually be happy with.
Lol. But if you have a friend, have her get at me lol.
More or less where I'm at -
2019-04-06 at 12:02 PM UTCJuice,
But what if you find a woman with that thing that makes your heart race? You know, where there’s an electricity between you. -
2019-04-06 at 12:03 PM UTC
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2019-04-06 at 12:04 PM UTCYa’ll can’t decide when it will find you. When I stopped looking is when I was found.
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2019-04-06 at 12:04 PM UTC
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2019-04-06 at 12:09 PM UTC
Originally posted by Technologist Juice,
But what if you find a woman with that thing that makes your heart race? You know, where there’s an electricity between you.
Then I'll know I need a bathroom break
Originally posted by Technologist Ya’ll can’t decide when it will find you. When I stopped looking is when I was found.
Yeah, that's what I've done for the most part. Still not sure why I commented in this thread, maybe just to show agreement with Casper lol -
2019-04-06 at 12:18 PM UTCWhy? You too drunk for me to drag answers outta ya? Lol
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2019-04-06 at 12:23 PM UTC
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2019-04-06 at 12:24 PM UTC
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2019-04-06 at 12:24 PM UTC
Originally posted by Technologist Juice,
But what if you find a woman with that thing that makes your heart race? You know, where there’s an electricity between you.
Lol. Pretty much any woman that I find even mildly attractive, I start thinking about her in some sweatpants on the sofa with me watching a movie. Or whether she'll look cute angry when I tell her she's got hairier feet than I do, and start hitting me with a pillow. Or whether I'll want to kiss her when she's all sick with the flu and gross and sweaty and hasn't showered for 3 days. And then I picture her screaming at me, and how we'd most likely break up.
Yeah my percentages were probably a bit off, but the truth is that people have different standards. The chance that someone is going to have that butterflies in the stomach feeling for you too...isn't great for guys in our positions. At 25+ women have generally had a few bad relationships by that point. They've dated the "bad boy" they've tried to fix someone. They've had a complete loser. I may just have zero idea what I'm talking about too, but generally, I think women want stability, security. Someone they can be proud to be seen with or talk about. When you're coming off a decade plus heroin addiction, you're just not ticking a ton of those boxes.
I should check my Tinder. I think I right swiped a lot of homely looking girls bc I felt like they should get some attention too, and I don't mind talking to anyone. Socializing is good. But like I was describing above, maybe some of those girls get those butterflies reading my profile. Anything is possible rofl. But I'm not really interested in anything more than talking with them. And generally, women have much higher standards than dudes. Yadadameen?
Idk. Relationship stuff is iffy. Especially In recovery. I should actually start going to NA meetings lol. Shit sounds like a party.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-04-06 at 12:25 PM UTCHow’d you guess Matt? We had butt secks in front of everyone. Then I let all the men in the club tap it. 😁
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2019-04-06 at 12:26 PM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-04-06 at 12:32 PM UTC
Originally posted by CASPER Lol. Pretty much any woman that I find even mildly attractive, I start thinking about her in some sweatpants on the sofa with me watching a movie. Or whether she'll look cute angry when I tell her she's got hairier feet than I do, and start hitting me with a pillow. Or whether I'll want to kiss her when she's all sick with the flu and gross and sweaty and hasn't showered for 3 days. And then I picture her screaming at me, and how we'd most likely break up.
Yeah my percentages were probably a bit off, but the truth is that people have different standards. The chance that someone is going to have that butterflies in the stomach feeling for you too…isn't great for guys in our positions. At 25+ women have generally had a few bad relationships by that point. They've dated the "bad boy" they've tried to fix someone. They've had a complete loser. I may just have zero idea what I'm talking about too, but generally, I think women want stability, security. Someone they can be proud to be seen with or talk about. When you're coming off a decade plus heroin addiction, you're just not ticking a ton of those boxes.
I should check my Tinder. I think I right swiped a lot of homely looking girls bc I felt like they should get some attention too, and I don't mind talking to anyone. Socializing is good. But like I was describing above, maybe some of those girls get those butterflies reading my profile. Anything is possible rofl. But I'm not really interested in anything more than talking with them. And generally, women have much higher standards than dudes. Yadadameen?
Idk. Relationship stuff is iffy. Especially In recovery. I should actually start going to NA meetings lol. Shit sounds like a party.
I think working on you, and not worrying about a relationship right now, is probably best. You don’t know who you are sober, but you’re beginning to find out. How can you give your all if you don’t know all of you yet? I get it.
Honey, I dated for so long, then didn’t date at all while I was raising my son, didn’t want him to see woman as sluts. I didn’t get married till 51. I may be an anomaly, but it’s rarely too late.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-04-06 at 1:07 PM UTCI dunno what I'm gonna do. I'm never really happy. When I'm in a relationship I can be slightly more happy sometimes or slightly more anxious. I really don't kno what to do. Tinder and fucking random bar whores is so tired and shitty and depressing I feel I've done damage to my soul. I'm just going to have an open heart and actively talk to every female I come in anything beyond peripheral contact with. I want to tell at my baby mama and I told my ex girlfriend off then the next day I found out she was asking people about me then lied about it when I asked her.
I dunno, the world is a fucked up place. I just wanna carve out a spot that's a little less soThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-04-06 at 2:30 PM UTC
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2019-04-06 at 2:31 PM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-04-06 at 2:32 PM UTC
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2019-04-06 at 2:39 PM UTC
