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Should we embrace our grief?
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2018-10-24 at 5:53 AM UTCThe only people on this forum that like me are women
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2018-10-24 at 6:20 AM UTCI'm not sure if i'm quite ready to believe Malice actually killed himself. Make of that what you will.
Originally posted by MORALLY SUPERIOR BEING 2.0 - The GMO Reckoning Why do people cry when someone dies? Some people cry for the dead person, they were great, they deserved better than this world of death and rebirth. Others cry for themselves - I have lost this person I relied upon, and their loss will affect me.
But for someone to die when old, or after a long illness is no tragedy. Malice said he was unable to be happy, and his life was a problem to him. Some people die too early, some people die too late. I think that suicide can be a rational thing sometimes. If life is a problem, end it. Cut short the suffering, return to the norm.
And ultimately it was his own family that pushed him to kill himself - his aunts were bugging his father to throw him out following his failure to complete a year in college. He was vindicated - his family are trash.
I wish I was rich I would have loved to have gotten Malice to do research or something. But would he have been happy doing it? Doubt it. Even rich people, who get lots of money, sex, drugs commit suicide. In fact prosperity seems to cause people to kill themselves even more so.
I agree, lets say though that all the negative emotions Malice was feeling were solved the moment he took his own life. Ok, i still care, i still feel sad. Even if the sadness comes out of a place of selfishness. Like "how will i deal wit X or Y" or whatever. The point is, grief is useful for the survival of the group. It doesn't matter where it comes from from individual to individual, everyone(Who is not a psychopath) feels grief, why? Because it hurts and we feel hurt in order to know what we don't want to happen.
In the context of the group this means the group will try to prevent others from dying, or will try to prevent anything that caused the grief in the first place.
The reason i am saying this is because i felt bad when you said "Others cry for themselves" even so, it helps the group which is an objective good in my view. -
2018-10-24 at 7:28 AM UTCEvery five seconds, nine people die somewhere in the world. Everybody dies.
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2018-10-24 at 8 AM UTC
Originally posted by -SpectraL Every five seconds, nine people die somewhere in the world. Everybody dies.
I'd like an accurate number. Like,
Between 18:55:35 and 18:55:40 GMT today, only two people died.
Between 18:55:40 and 18:55:45 GMT, 300 people died.
I want to know their names, ages, hobbies, likes, face, shit consistency, shit posting consistency, level of drug abuse, offspring, medical conditions, ethnicity, cause of death obviously, dick size, vaginal girth, buoyancy, last words, etc.
It's not that i care but it'd be cool information to pour through.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2018-10-24 at 8:03 AM UTCWhat is vaginal girth?
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2018-10-24 at 8:31 AM UTC
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2018-10-24 at 8:34 AM UTCOh 🐲 Too bad that's not what I asked!
Also, noted. -
2018-10-24 at 8:36 AM UTC
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2018-10-24 at 8:38 AM UTCI was actually birthed before that time.
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2018-10-24 at 10:26 AM UTCMalice or any other NPC causes no emotional response.
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2018-10-24 at 11:25 AM UTC
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2018-10-24 at 11:49 AM UTC
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2018-10-24 at 12:27 PM UTC
Originally posted by Lanny It's because pakis are a soulless r-type population, the culture has adapted to your expandability. Glorious westerners actually care about our friends and family so three days of sad and a meal just isn't going to cut it.
If anyone doesn't deal with death, or each other, well it's WASPs, or anyone from inside the Hajnal line. They are cold and don't seem to like each other much.
Muds are very humanistic people. No mud would do something like charge their kid rent, or praise Mexicans after a Mexican killed their own kid, like Mollie Tibbet's father did. They are loyal to their ingroup and very traditional.
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2018-10-24 at 12:27 PM UTC
Originally posted by Zanick At this point, I would say that it's likely he did it. Most users who'd fake their exit would have come back by this time, but I could be wrong. Ideally, he's viewing this thread right now and grinning autistically.
It was months before I came back. Close to a year IIRC.
But I didn't "fake my own suicide," I got blackout fucked up on a cocktail of drugs and alcohol and wrote this long post of final words to every poster I could think of, and when I woke up and found it I didn't know what the hell to do, so I just fucked off from the site. I have no idea whether I actually attempted suicide that night or not.
Eventually the guilt of writing all that, making everyone think I'd killed myself and yet still being here got to me and I had to come back and let everyone know I was still here. It sounds stupid but you guys are the closest to friends or family I've ever had
I really hope Malice is alright. Like I said before, his posts always sounded just like me, and his continuing to push on despite crushing loneliness and despair was always inspiring to me.
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2018-10-24 at 12:29 PM UTC
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2018-10-24 at 1:15 PM UTC
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2018-10-24 at 1:19 PM UTC
Originally posted by Lanny Also much of the best art comes from depressed depressed artists, our unique appreciation of art has driven us to adopt mourning traditions that maximize emotional scarring as to produce ever greater works of insight and beauty
It's why I've wanted to be Hank Moody since before he existed. I think I've always felt that to grow, you have to constantly break down and rebuild yourself.
In any case, I felt a lot more for Malice when I was sure he was alive. If he's dead, I kinda don't feel anything. Which is kind of strange considering how empathetic I am generally. Kinda weird. -
2018-10-24 at 1:19 PM UTC
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2018-10-24 at 1:49 PM UTC
Originally posted by Lanny It's because pakis are a soulless r-type population, the culture has adapted to your expandability. Glorious westerners actually care about our friends and family so three days of sad and a meal just isn't going to cut it.
Well no, Pakis just usually take for granted that you go to heaven. The mourning mostly happens because you don't think you'll be seeing them in the next 60 years. -
2018-10-24 at 1:54 PM UTCThe best part of mourning up, is folders in your cup.
Just kiddo g.
The best part of mourning is mourning.
There's only a handful of us here who have lost PARENTS. Moms and dads.
I can't imagine losing my MOM. Ugh. So sad thoughts and prayers sent to the mom losers.
I cared about two people my life - my dad Bruce and of course Chootie. Then they died. I hate die. Which is why I wanna never have a new dad or cat.
Im gonna get a new kitty this week though anyway
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Like Falco says, 3 days of sad are worth the thousands of happy.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
