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I'm so happy to be engaged, let me tell you what!
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2018-09-14 at 11:11 AM UTCHot take: going on and on about how you're engaged (or other things in your life that make you happy) is just as insufferably autistic as a NEET going on and on about some anime that they're super into.
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2018-09-14 at 11:18 AM UTCif it actually made them happy they wouldn't have to spend 23 hours a day telling everyone about it
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2018-09-14 at 11:26 AM UTC
Originally posted by aldra if it actually made them happy they wouldn't have to spend 23 hours a day telling everyone about it
I like my autism take better than this, but only because this seems like the default "bitter asshole" response. Maybe they are happy. Maybe they're just too thick to realize nobody else shares the same amount of interest in their happiness as they do. Like with real autists going on and on about whatever they're into. The problem is just how self involved they are - it's irritating no matter what particular part of your life you obsessively try to share with everyone else. -
2018-09-14 at 7:35 PM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-09-14 at 11:47 PM UTCSo autism = wealthy but unhappy?
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2018-09-14 at 11:55 PM UTC
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2018-09-15 at 12:01 AM UTC
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2018-09-15 at 3:14 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ I recently got happily engaged to the LOVE OF MY LIFE, and I cannot stop talking about how amazing it makes ME feel. MEEEEE. If anyone wants to talk about anything else I have to remind them that what they're talking about isn't important right now. I'm engaged; that's what's important.
In fact I've learned over 9000 ways to change the topic back to my engagement.
If people are talking about dogs, I love saying things like "my fiancee has a dog" then change the topic back to my fiancee and my engagement.
Or if I'm out at lunch and people are being inconsiderate talking about something else, I might say something like "I better not eat too much, I already bought my wedding dress and want to make sure I still fit it when we get married! lololol"
If someone comments on the weather, I will say something like "It can rain all it wants now.. so long as it doesn't rain on the [insert wedding date]" Then I pause so they ask about the date and tell them all about my planned wedding!
If I'm around strangers and nobody is talking (like on a bus or train) I might play with my engagement ring, laugh at text messages my fiance sent me a week ago or sigh loudly just to start a conversation about my engagement. If those fail I just put on my veil (I always carry it with me) and hum the wedding theme tune loudly while examining my ring in front of them.
Another good way to start talking about my engagement is ask people their opinion on wedding related things, like cakes, venues, dresses or asking people what they love most about being engaged.
My plan is to continue directing all conversation to my engagement for 6mths or so, then to my wedding for another 6mths.. then I'm not sure.. I will probably spend 6mths of finding ways to insert "my hubby" into every second sentence.
Once all of those topics have been used up I'll probably get pregnant..
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2018-09-15 at 8:23 AM UTC
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2018-09-15 at 8:29 PM UTCI thought you were going to get gay married to panthrax and have a Tinychat wedding.
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