I can't stand girls that have this mentality and in an effort to cover up their own insecurities they have to put other women down, women who may go way out of their way to protect their figure.
A couple weeks ago or so, I was talking to this girl online and I hit her up, and she replies back with how she likes the band "failure" as well. Not a lot of girls know of the band failure, much less people in general.. but anyways, she looks alright and I tell ask her if she wants to meet up for coffee one evening soon.
My days that I can meet up with girls like that are limited because I work nights and sleep during the day so I never can "go out for lunch" or hang after they get off work on days that I work. We set something up for a few days later in the week anyways. Anyways the day comes and I text her a little bit before we were supposed to meet up and say hey still meeting up in a couple hours? And she's like "oh hey sorry I can't my roommate and I are going to watch something on tv tonight, I forgot that blah blah blah was on tonight"
I just text her back "already take it easy" or something like that and delete her contact. like 5 days later, its my day off again and I kinda want to go do something besides drinking at home. (I was already kinda buzzed) and I'm looking through the dating app to see if there is a girl that would like to go to the arcade with me (this arcade has all these vintage pinball machines and you can drink beer in there, but at the time I was under the impression it had to be something with a lid like wine)
I can't really find anyone so I go through my phone and I see a number in my call log, and I assume its some girl that I drunkenly spoke to briefly one of the last couple nights but I can't remember who it is. I send a text saying "hey whats goin' on, wanna go to the arcade with me later?" and she was like "yaa lets do that"
I ask to see a picture and its that same girl that stood me up evidently. I'm like (meh whatever guess I'll hang with her, I just want to get out and do something)
I tell her I'll buy the tokens and for her to just meet up with me with a cheap bottle of wine and she agrees as long as its white wine because she doesn't like red wine.
I'm getting ready to leave and she tells me she's at the store and she can't find any wine that she likes. (so in my head I figure well I'm just going to grab a brew for myself before I go then) She sends me a text saying "should I bring cups?" and I say "why if you can't find any wine that you want" and she goes "yeah you're right im just going to grab a water, do you want anything?"
And I say "yeah I told you I wanted a bottle of wine..." and she's like "okay I'll get one"
Anyways I get there and I'm just chilling outside having a cig before she gets there. She text me telling me she is pulling up. She gets out of her car and starts walking up to me, and it soooo does not look like the girl in the pictures, i mean it does, but uglier and a whooooole lotta fatter. plus she's incredibly short so shes like this lil blob and she's just has a very unkept appearance/ is frumpily dressed. (she at least came through on the wine)
I'm thinking to my self (aaaaahh hale nah nigga! I'm so over this bs, not only did she stand me up earlier in the week, and the whole wine thing played out like I was pulling teeth, and she looks like ass, I'm so over this)
I tell her "hey I'm sorry I can't do this, later" and walk off to my car and she calls me asking me what was wrong and why did I leave. I explain to her that she's just been really difficult and her not looking like her picture was the last straw and I don't feel want to do this. She starts telling me I look like a hobo with my beard (the pictures she saw of me I had my huge jihad beard... so I dont see what the problem is) and she tells me she's sure I have a small dick. (I don't have any hang ups about my dick, kinda weird for her to tell me this, when I told that hooker as well that I didnt want to pay that much to bang her, she mentioned my dick to lol and I didn't even tell any of these girls that they were fat.
But yeah girls like that and my daughters mom have that mentality to diss guys that don't find them attractive and to diss women that aren't overweight..
A real man wants whatever he wants not what a woman implies what real men want. How would a woman know what a real man wants anyways if they aren't men?
Like bill the cat is someone who I would consider a real man on here but he's gay and likes young skinny dudes and muscle jocks, nothing inbetween and definitely no fatties. He likes what he likes.
And I don't like when ugly bigger girls call themselves BBW's, you have to actually first be beautiful to be one, you're not one just because your overweight and trashy looking. But hey I guess the term has just taken on a meaning as means to throw out instantly that they want guys that fetishize and fat women on a pedastul. I mean if you type bbw in google you're going to get a bunch of porn..
And also sure I like girls with curves, but a lot of these girls bringing up that real men like girls with curves typically go beyond just being curvy they get into squatty lumpy territory Why not just say something like "real men like rolls" lololol
