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How does everyone feel about marriage?
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2017-10-29 at 11:59 AM UTC
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2017-10-29 at 12:03 PM UTC
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2017-10-29 at 12:08 PM UTC
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2017-10-29 at 1 PM UTCNever get married. You are only signing up for a world of hurt.
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2017-10-29 at 1:19 PM UTC
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2017-10-29 at 1:22 PM UTC
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2017-10-29 at 1:33 PM UTC
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2017-10-29 at 2:07 PM UTCmost people do it the wrong way round. they figure they should get married, like aspire to it coz society says so or summing. then they start looking for somebody to get married to. often they'll set all sorts of conditions that they'll expect their future spouse to live up to. obviously that perfect person will be near impossible to find and then they'll end up settling for the closest they can find before its 'too late'. you should just get on with life and if or when you meet somebody that you truly feel that close to, and then feel like marriage is the way for you both, then go for it. anything other than that is doomed to either failure or a lifetime of settling for second best and prolly being miserable for most of your life.
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2017-10-29 at 2:36 PM UTCThe problems in marriages most usually come from without, rather than from within. External factors seep into the relationship, corrupt it, poison it, strangle it, until it can no longer support either the drama or the headache.
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2017-10-29 at 2:39 PM UTC
Originally posted by NARCassist most people do it the wrong way round. they figure they should get married, like aspire to it coz society says so or summing. then they start looking for somebody to get married to. often they'll set all sorts of conditions that they'll expect their future spouse to live up to. obviously that perfect person will be near impossible to find and then they'll end up settling for the closest they can find before its 'too late'. you should just get on with life and if or when you meet somebody that you truly feel that close to, and then feel like marriage is the way for you both, then go for it. anything other than that is doomed to either failure or a lifetime of settling for second best and prolly being miserable for most of your life.
marriage was designed and developed for a human society and culture that no longer exists. the original meaning of the word is precisely what it was for. it's time to rethink the entirety of current relationships and completely revamp the .gov-sanctioned act...top to bottom. and remove the definition of the term of marriage where it relates to the civil event of interpersonal relationships. -
2017-10-29 at 2:53 PM UTC
Originally posted by benny vader no, i'm talking about my sister.
Didn't wanna' bring it up but... Funny story, there's sort of an archaic law in my country, where in order to marry a family member you must ask permission from the king. Lol, not the government, the king.
"My liege,
If I may bring to your royal majesty's attention a matter of the heart I would be most honored. Please let me marry my cousin. May the light of your wisdom shine brightly upon us.
Your loyal subject,
Sophie" -
2017-10-29 at 2:56 PM UTC^ And then the babies start coming out with two heads.
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2017-10-29 at 4:56 PM UTCI think getting married younger than 30 or so (there's no cut and dry rule) is risky cause people still have their individual ever-changing hopes and dreams/expectations about what life should be and naturally they get snuffed out or limited when someone's attached to them at the hip. I mean to say limiting your possibilities by entering a legal contract with another person before you really figure yourself out can turn out ugly in so many ways..
The tricky part is by that age so many women have kids. Who wants to get in a relationship with some kids and maybe unknowingly enter into a beef with a baby daddy you don't even know.
By the time you're 40 though I'd say you should maybe be married to someone who you can tolerate, cause being 40 and eating frozen dinners alone would be sad.
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2017-10-29 at 4:57 PM UTCChristian based tradition
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2017-10-29 at 5:04 PM UTC
Originally posted by -SpectraL ^ And then the babies start coming out with two heads.
thats a myth.
actually incestuous reproduction between siblings is the best and most efficient way to advance the human rass and genome.
whatever deleterious or defective genetic traits will instantly be amplified and eliminated from our human gene pool within a generation or two unlike in non-incestuous reproductions where bad genes get passed down recessively thru a few generation before resurfacing.
tragic for the couples involved, but great for humans collectively in the long run.
the great and marvelous egyptian and roman empire came to a crashing end when the acts and practice of incest were stopped. -
2017-10-29 at 5:05 PM UTC
Originally posted by benny vader thats a myth.
actually incestuous reproduction between siblings is the best and most efficient way to advance the human rass and genome.
whatever deleterious or defective genetic traits will instantly be amplified and eliminated from our human gene pool within a generation or two unlike in non-incestuous reproductions where bad genes get passed down recessively thru a few generation before resurfacing.
tragic for the couples involved, but great for humans collectively in the long run.
the great and marvelous egyptian and roman empire came to a crashing end when the acts and practice of incest were stopped.
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2017-10-29 at 5:41 PM UTC
Originally posted by benny vader thats a myth.
actually incestuous reproduction between siblings is the best and most efficient way to advance the human rass and genome.
whatever deleterious or defective genetic traits will instantly be amplified and eliminated from our human gene pool within a generation or two unlike in non-incestuous reproductions where bad genes get passed down recessively thru a few generation before resurfacing.
tragic for the couples involved, but great for humans collectively in the long run.
the great and marvelous egyptian and roman empire came to a crashing end when the acts and practice of incest were stopped.
you have no idea what youre talking about. go read about genetics and how chromosomes work. -
2017-10-29 at 5:45 PM UTC
Originally posted by Wick Sweat The tricky part is by that age so many women have kids. Who wants to get in a relationship with some kids and maybe unknowingly enter into a beef with a baby daddy you don't even know.
that. women were intended to marry early, shit out a few brats to continue the family name and bond two separate families, then stay married to the same man for their entire lives regardless of their differences. if things were bad enough they slept in separate rooms. there was no divorce. divorcing without a religiously-justified reason was the end of both the males and females social standing.
people need to learn how to use birth control. its not that complicated of a concept.
Originally posted by Wick Sweat By the time you're 40 though I'd say you should maybe be married to someone who you can tolerate, cause being 40 and eating frozen dinners alone would be sad.
false. eating with someone else is annoying...for so many different reasons. i much more prefer eating without anyone bothering me. -
2017-10-29 at 5:45 PM UTCI saw a baby with two heads, one eye, and three legs once.
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