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The Retarded Thread: Get off that bus edition
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2020-04-29 at 6:32 AM UTCIt ain't cheating if you don't get caught
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2020-04-29 at 7:07 AM UTC
Originally posted by Octavian Why not just leave her rather than cheat?
because I love her and want to be with her and have grown quite attached and she would lose her mind if I was actually done with her as she has in the past.
I really shouldn't cheat, its gross and essentially pointless and Ive done it too much -
2020-04-29 at 7:07 AM UTC
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2020-04-29 at 7:15 AM UTCIt ain't cheating if you threaten to murder the person if they break up with youThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2020-04-29 at 7:16 AM UTCwhy does everyone always fixate on the adulterous nature of my ennui? I have a ton of other destructive coping mechanisms I'd be happy to share with the rest of the class besides having sex with women who Im not in a relationship with while Im in a relationship with someone else.
shit gets stressful tho, I really dont need that. I gotta tell this ho go away. She knows I have a girlfriend too snd shes kind of in a sometimes relationship with someone I know. Blah. Where tf is mmq? Hes not answering my messages on another medium -
2020-04-29 at 7:46 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo Im getting more and more depressed. Im having a hard time trusting anybody or anything and Im being apathetic to my own life. I just feel suffering and nothing changing. I have more money than I need but have no idea what to do with it. People hold me to standards they themselves cant match. Im trying not to cheat on my gf but feel it would make me happier sometimes. I feel fake all the time and have been purposely looking like a bum just so I look how I feel and hope someone picks up on it and wants to talk about it but Im too damb sexy and charismatic and I make it look desirable. I feel spiritually distant from myself and just bored and depressed and like nothing is going to change. Im discussing with a friend of mine whether I should house sit for him for a month in the middle of nowhere which seems so perfect for me, I just want to move my gf and her kid to this house in the woods for a month but I know it wont work out as nicely as planned.
I just feel Im trapped by yesterday which sounds like an emo song. I have no freedom but neither does anyone else, in fact I have more than most but its still eating my soul. Ive been angry fairly often lately, either angry or apathetic and resigned. Im not getting onna bus or anything but Im sick of the streets around me so maybe a rickshaw just so I get the fuck outta here
I strongly identify with everything except cheating on the gf bc i have no gf to cheat on.
Real talk tho thats shittynmaybe thats one reason u have trouble trusting. U think everyones gonna be just as selfish and do u like u do ur wimmenz?
Or maybe freud was rite n ur looking for a mommy to breastfeed from or a dads dick to suckle or someshit -
2020-04-29 at 7:46 AM UTCFeel free to bare more soul
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2020-04-29 at 7:49 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo because I love her and want to be with her and have grown quite attached and she would lose her mind if I was actually done with her as she has in the past.
I really shouldn't cheat, its gross and essentially pointless and Ive done it too much
I kind of relate to that. It is possible to love and cheat despite what they say.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2020-04-29 at 7:51 AM UTC
Originally posted by Octavian I kind of relate to that. It is possible to love and cheat despite what they say.
Ehhhhhhh.....true love is selfless. Its possible to CARE about someone and CONNECT them to your happiness. To be ATTACHED to them. Thats not love though. And i say that as someone whos cheated. -
2020-04-29 at 7:58 AM UTC
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2020-04-29 at 8:02 AM UTCThis is a trait we all share, broski.
Thats one thing I guess I got out of NA.
Its really easy to say you love someone when youre cheating on them just because your life is so emotionally intertwined with the woman. But saying you love someone that youre cheating on makes as much sense as an out of control alcoholic professing love for the wife he habitually beats.
Its like learning to walk on your hands to punch through the excuses weve signed off on for ourselves our whole lives and be honest about whats going on. -
2020-04-29 at 8:12 AM UTC
Originally posted by CASPER This is a trait we all share, broski.
Thats one thing I guess I got out of NA.
Its really easy to say you love someone when youre cheating on them just because your life is so emotionally intertwined with the woman. But saying you love someone that youre cheating on makes as much sense as an out of control alcoholic professing love for the wife he habitually beats.
Its like learning to walk on your hands to punch through the excuses weve signed off on for ourselves our whole lives and be honest about whats going on.
I think I'm too self absorbed to commit/love but get stuck in relationships. I should first sort my life out then commit but this never happens. -
2020-04-29 at 8:15 AM UTCBeing with one person freaks me the fuck out bc im always afraid of making the wrong decision, and it gives me anxiety attacks to realize that its statistically likely that there are probably 100 million people in the world who would be a better match for you than the person youre with, and we just make all sorts of compromises bc we’re afraid of being alone.
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2020-04-29 at 8:16 AM UTCThen again im pretty possessive so the idea of someone i like being with someone else makes me rage. I just want to be by myself with her, alone together. That makes no sense lol
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2020-04-29 at 8:17 AM UTCThing is, I always have opportunities with grade A pussy when in a relationship. Like, "where the fuck is all this when I'm single?"
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2020-04-29 at 8:18 AM UTC
Originally posted by CASPER Then again im pretty possessive so the idea of someone i like being with someone else makes me rage. I just want to be by myself with her, alone together. That makes no sense lol
This upon quick examination, likely means “I want to remain monogamous until i grow tired of her”
See how introspective i am now? -
2020-04-29 at 8:26 AM UTCTHERE'S TOO MUCH PUSSY MANG.
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2020-04-29 at 8:29 AM UTCKicking a habit by picking up another habit
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2020-04-29 at 8:31 AM UTC
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2020-04-29 at 8:35 AM UTC
