So let me first say a couple/few things before I get to the extortion part
I was/am a single mom. Though my children are adults now. I was on welfare for part of their lives. I received a total of 450 dollars a month for child support (for the first part of their lives [another story completely])
As a single person with no kids I could rent a one room apartment and not have to live paycheck to pay check. Having kids, and them growing up I had to move from a one bedroom to a two bedroom to a three bedroom. That cost increase was not calculated in my monthly support payments. That cost increase is not calculated in TANF benefit eligibility. That cost increase came out of my pocket. Electricity bills go up for bigger places. Water bills go up as children grow. Food bills, school needs, entertainment costs ... none of these increases get calculated into child support obligations or state funded benefits, they come out of the custodial parents pocket (because there are far more disgruntled noncustodials than there are understanding ones). And as I climbed the ladder at my place of employment my eligibility for TANF decreased. Its fine, I was proud of myself for no longer needing state aid, but it certainly wasn't easy.
I am sorry you got a bad deal for custody arrangements concerning your own child(ren), but you can always fight for more. You can also have child support adjusted every two years.
As for extortion ... there are only two ways the State will come after you to repay what they gave in benefits. 1. You weren't paying child support 2. She wasn't claiming the child support you were paying
If you were giving her money, you should always keep records or go through support enforcement so that records are kept. Plainly put
oh, there is a point system? How does one get points and where can they be redeemed ... what can they be redeemed for? Walgreens points give back money to future purchases, my kids use mine all the time
Originally posted by infinityshock lovingly lambasted lannys longing loose labia like the liberal little laotian ladyboy he loves larping like, leaving the little lads larynx lacerated and laryngitic. (banned)
How much are you selling your ass for. Just your ass…you can keep the rest.
Then I can post in this thread about what I bought
I really quite attached to it myself. Parting with it would pain me tremedously
