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How do I learn to trust people.
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2023-12-04 at 1:05 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka That sounds like excessive paranoia, like you're not thinking clearly about the liklihood of those things happening. Now that you've brought it I'm wondering how I deal with it. I guess I'm open about emotions but I almost expect people to try to use what I say against me and it doesn't hurt. I don't tell people things they can hurt me with but still vent. There are a few people I trust with different things and am not sure why. Maybe it's easy to tell when people have strong principles.
It's not paranoia when the entire universe is out to get you -
2023-12-04 at 1:13 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka That sounds like excessive paranoia, like you're not thinking clearly about the liklihood of those things happening. Now that you've brought it I'm wondering how I deal with it. I guess I'm open about emotions but I almost expect people to try to use what I say against me and it doesn't hurt. I don't tell people things they can hurt me with but still vent. There are a few people I trust with different things and am not sure why. Maybe it's easy to tell when people have strong principles.
I understand that the possibility of most of the things I worry about taking place is minuscule at best. Knowing that doesn't help me in the slightest, though. I'm only emotionally open online, sometimes with my parents, but that's it. I am getting better at reading emotions, and also at expressing them, but too slowly at this rate. -
2023-12-04 at 3:12 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka That sounds like excessive paranoia, like you're not thinking clearly about the liklihood of those things happening. Now that you've brought it I'm wondering how I deal with it. I guess I'm open about emotions but I almost expect people to try to use what I say against me and it doesn't hurt. I don't tell people things they can hurt me with but still vent. There are a few people I trust with different things and am not sure why. Maybe it's easy to tell when people have strong principles.
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