Originally posted by Sudo
If I was born to be a gay I was born to be a toxic gay. The type who does meth, fucks with grinder and gets off on fucking straight guys then extorting them. How do I become a big bouncy happy healthy fabulous flamer?
I'm talking to some bleach blonde ho on tinder right now and I already know I have no interest in a relationship but I kinda just want to just go into something with a clean palate and feel no pressure or reason to reciprocate or be fake or expect anything. She's apparently a fucking makeup artist or something so this is obviously stupid. Idk fam idk
I think you need to practice mindfulness and maybe start reframing your thoughts about women when you catch them to see if it's bias or not.
I've noticed I can't be vulnerable and that won't change. I feel like guys always try to make me emotional and it's never for a good reason. I feel like their aim is always to hurt me because they can't stand it when they can't affect me emotionally.
I don't think you have to be vulnerable with someone to have a non-toxic relationship though.
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What does vulnurable even mean? I'm in a LTR and I call my SO a bitch whore slut all the time (she likes that)
Like I said to her yesterday it's like the hot girl at a party, if everyone is nice and tip toes around her she will seek out retards like me that have no problem calling a bitch a bitch. Like yeah i'm not the HOTTEST GOY with a 6 pack of abes, I have a 6pack of pabst blue ribbon and a hard dick and not much else going for me
yet I keep ending up in relationships with these REAL chicks and it's not even "faking confidence just fake it bro" I'm just a fucking asshole which I tell them and they still fuck with me??
How do you even do that? I constantly think my GF is ready to drop me like a bad hat and I would not blame her.
Lots of people like to have "lifeboats" as I call them basically you half flirt up a girl enough that you can jump into a new relationship as soon as yours dies. I think shit like that is pretty gay and a sign it's not gonna last
I used to do that a lot because I assumed the relationship would not work out and sure enough we both jump ship and land right into lifeboats when it dies. Monogamy is weird
Originally posted by Ember McLain
How do you even do that? I constantly think my GF is ready to drop me like a bad hat and I would not blame her.
Lots of people like to have "lifeboats" as I call them basically you half flirt up a girl enough that you can jump into a new relationship as soon as yours dies. I think shit like that is pretty gay and a sign it's not gonna last
I used to do that a lot because I assumed the relationship would not work out and sure enough we both jump ship and land right into lifeboats when it dies. Monogamy is weird
