2022-06-21 at 3:54 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sophie
Here are some classic BPD behaviors as they usually get expressed in women. Not saying you have BPD, and not trying to say you do these things, i'd just like to mention some stuff and you tell me if it sounds like something you might do.
Threatening self harm, actually self harming, over-reacting on purpose to test how much people actualy care about you. Maybe pretending to be pregnant hoping the guy(bf, love interest/whatever) pays more attention to you. Feeling like there is a sinister reason why someone isn't treating you the way you'd like or expect to be treated. Getting upset at the thought, making a huge fight about it, considering breaking up/ending friendship. Doing just that and regretting it. Confirmation biasing yourself into believing you were right about the person all along, hating them for that but still feeling like he or she should be with you in one way or another, feeling despair and intense negative emotions as a consequence. Alleviating said feeling by trying to seduce him/her back, sending out mixed messages, feeling like the person should just understand your very convoluted reasons for doing what you are doing and why you feel what you feel. Then assuming they don't give enough of a shit to even try to understand you when in reality the person is just confused. Getting mad about it, getting sad about it. Alleviate with high risk behavior, such as drugs, promiscuity, and generally putting yourself into dangerous situations. Spiraling as a consequence until you feel so bad that you are compelled to self harm in order to escape. Suicidal ideation. More risk seeking behavior.
There are a number of differences with guys with BPD, the easiest example to give is that 25-40% of BPD mind games are substituted with aggression, the end goal of BPD antics is to get the intra-personal relations and inner desires to match up with reality. BPD guys try to impose control more directly, BPD girls try to impose control through tricks and plots, however the former is no stranger to that tactic either.
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2022-06-21 at 1:12 PM UTC
Sudo
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Suboxone makes my poop so hard it's like I'm shitting out razorblades. Luckily that is my fetish
2022-06-22 at 8:10 AM UTC
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what do you suppose she actually does at the gym 5 days a week
2022-06-22 at 8:15 AM UTC
She bench presses the vending machine
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2022-06-22 at 8:16 AM UTC
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you're right, I fucked up, that's the body of a power lifter
2022-06-22 at 12:28 PM UTC
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My son is going to be massive af, he's like 3 feet tall now and ridiculously strong for a baby/toddler. The other day my friends drunken blonde whore baby mom picked him up and he beat the fuck out of her face and ripped hair out of her head but wanted her to continue holding her so he could wail on her. He's going to be the new thotslayer for sure. I'm basically as white as they come but he's got some Puerto Rican in him so when the sun hits him he gets swarthy. Brock Lesner has already been informed of him and has gone into hiding
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