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This is it champs, the breakup is coming
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2022-01-13 at 10:04 AM UTC
Originally posted by aldra I always felt like that I actually needed to hit a woman to discipline her it was not worth the trouble because the relationship was doomed anyway. that and it's almost always a reflection of your loss of (emotional) control as much as it is about her faults
some ladies will act that like UNTIL you hit them
she kinda gives me that vibe but you never know if they will call the cops until after you hit themThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2022-01-13 at 10:06 AM UTC
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2022-01-13 at 10:06 AM UTC
Originally posted by Aleister Crowley No, don't do that. You'll hate yourself more, especially when you see other girls fawning over men who don't do that kind of shit. It'll just remind you of being a wife beating scum bag.
most people don't beat women and no girls are fawning over someone for not doing something. That's why the ones who do like to get hit are fucked because they are expecting something that could get you arrested and if you don't do it they are like WHAT ARE YOU JUST A PUSSY TOO SCARED TO HIT A WOMAN>? WOW I NEED A REAL MAN
I would say it's just a cigrate man all woman are crazy but I have met enough psychos in my life to know most people are fucked in the head these days it doesn't matter what gender -
2022-01-13 at 10:55 AM UTC
Originally posted by Tyrant And here is the thing: it's not the stuff she says then. I don't give a fuck about what she says about those things.
I am secure enough in myself that I realize that people use words to manipulate you and make you feel a certain way and affect you: they will use words that make you feel good when they want to bring you up and they'll use words that they think will hurt you when they want to drop you from that height and hurt you.
What hurts is that the entire point of making myself vulnerable was a sort of test: can I trust her? Can I actually TRUST her? If I become someone famous, would she be my weak link, the person ratting out my secrets, the person leaking shit, the person who would hold my vulnerabilities over me like a gun because I've given them ammo that grows more powerful as I have more to lose? Is this a responsible person I would trust with half my life?
The answer to that is clearly emerging as a distinct "no".
I have invested 8 years into loving her. More than any other human I've ever loved. But this entire time it feels like I just gave her way too much credit. I gave her so many chances because I thought something special was there that was just yet to blossom… But I think all I have is something that will fester.
So she's selfish, manipulative, greedy and you can't trust her.
You need to get you one of those women who are self-less, pure as driven snow, free from material wants, and who you can trust completely. -
2022-01-13 at 10:58 AM UTCyeah you should go to a third world country and locate someone willing to blow you for stew ingredientsThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2022-01-13 at 1:04 PM UTCEveryone sucks sometimes but you have to be honest and humble about it.
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2022-01-13 at 1:19 PM UTCKinda sounds like you've enabled her behavior a lot too.
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2022-01-13 at 1:26 PM UTC
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2022-01-13 at 1:47 PM UTCHave you met the guy she's gonna end up moving in with?
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2022-01-13 at 2 PM UTC
Originally posted by Bradley Have you met the guy she's gonna end up moving in with?
She's got no one and I don't care if she did anyway. I'm over it and in pretty secure in myself. I'm actually genuinely way out of her league and likely the best looking and highest quality person she will ever be with in her life. That's another thing... Try to find a nigga like me WHO WILL PUT UP with her bullshit... You can't, she got lucky with me and now she will be miserable and alone. Whereas I can pick up some cutie pretty quick.
I have the qualities of a king. I behave in a way befitting my nobility. She has the qualities of trash and behaves like trash. -
2022-01-13 at 2:09 PM UTCWas she always like this for the entire 8 years, why is it a problem now and not 4 years ago?
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2022-01-13 at 2:13 PM UTC
Originally posted by Tyrant And here is the thing: it's not the stuff she says then. I don't give a fuck about what she says about those things.
I am secure enough in myself that I realize that people use words to manipulate you and make you feel a certain way and affect you: they will use words that make you feel good when they want to bring you up and they'll use words that they think will hurt you when they want to drop you from that height and hurt you.
What hurts is that the entire point of making myself vulnerable was a sort of test: can I trust her? Can I actually TRUST her? If I become someone famous, would she be my weak link, the person ratting out my secrets, the person leaking shit, the person who would hold my vulnerabilities over me like a gun because I've given them ammo that grows more powerful as I have more to lose? Is this a responsible person I would trust with half my life?
The answer to that is clearly emerging as a distinct "no".
I have invested 8 years into loving her. More than any other human I've ever loved. But this entire time it feels like I just gave her way too much credit. I gave her so many chances because I thought something special was there that was just yet to blossom… But I think all I have is something that will fester.
+10 character attributes for making this post.
Take what you have learned and apply it to the next relationship. Keep strong m8 💪
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2022-01-13 at 2:35 PM UTC
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2022-01-13 at 2:37 PM UTCSorry 4 cringepoasting in ur tred
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2022-01-13 at 2:43 PM UTC
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2022-01-13 at 2:45 PM UTC
Originally posted by the man who put it in my hood Was she always like this for the entire 8 years, why is it a problem now and not 4 years ago?
We've had similar fights before but in the past year or so, it feels like she has gotten fully self destructive and resigned to being a full blown mental retard.
She became a straight up alcoholic and now acts like a shitty degenerate moron. It's gross, it's disgusting, and when she is drunk she is a completely different, shitarded person who is impossible to reason with because she treats it like some sort of mental shield, like she can say whatever the fuck and act like there are no consequences and go as hard as she can to say the vilest shit she can because she thinks everything will be ok in the morning.
I never, ever, ever act actively hostile towards her. I'm just not that guy, fighting and relationship drama is cringe. So it is kind of beyond belief that she even starts.
I'm not doing it, it's fucking gay and I would rather be alone than be disrespected like that. -
2022-01-13 at 2:47 PM UTCslap her next time she's at full climax of bitching at you
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2022-01-13 at 3:01 PM UTC
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2022-01-13 at 3:06 PM UTCits where you put out something good then swap it for what you're actually gonna get, which is presumably worse.
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2022-01-13 at 3:07 PM UTCWomen are fucking stupid, they should keep their whore mouths shut if they know what is good for them.
