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This is it champs, the breakup is coming

  1. #1
    Tyrant Tuskegee Airman
    Bismillah. Pray with me for safe passage through the storm my brothers.
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    ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Naturally Camouflaged
    What breakup? Please elucidate. Expound, if you will, and I promise not to call you a homosexual Paki.

    tl/dr

    pics or it won't happen
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    Solstice Space Nigga
    Don't let her manipulate you with guilt. That's their specialty.
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    ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Naturally Camouflaged
    This sounds more... final.. than any relationship.
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    Tyrant Tuskegee Airman
    I was going to make a beheading joke about breaking up her torso from her head... Honestly I feel too fucked up to enjoy it. It's coming from an angry place so it doesn't feel right.
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    Meikai African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Tyrant I was going to make a beheading joke about breaking up her torso from her head… Honestly I feel too fucked up to enjoy it. It's coming from an angry place so it doesn't feel right.

    don't be a pussy. be angry. your hate makes you powerful.

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    ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Naturally Camouflaged
    Haterz gonna hate.
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    Tyrant Tuskegee Airman
    I know I am a really abrasive asshole on here for fun but IRL and specially in my relationship I try to be good. Like really good. I also fuck up a lot but man I try. I really try to be as good as I can be.

    Today we had an argument and I swear to god my volume didn't rise 1 decibel above my normal speaking tone and I totally kept it together and tried to communicate with her.

    Howevershe does that thing where no matter what I say or how I say it, multiple times through a sentence she would just start randomly busting out every emotional manipulation tactic up her sleeve to try to throw me off, like literally tossing everything at the wall to see what fits.

    But no matter how hard I tried, she just kept getting more and more retarded. It is like talking to an absolute moron when she gets in a certain "mode". Doesn't matter what I say.

    I'm also not a "hurter". I don't relish in hurting her emotionally or in any way when we have an argument. I genuinely explicitly try not to offend her or make her feel bad but she'll fake it anyway to try to get leverage in an argument.

    I will say stuff like "you're being a bitch" but like that is basic ass shit, I consciously make a decision to never go in on something she made herself vulnerable to me on. Meanwhile, even if I'm even keeled, not trying to be offensive, trying to stay on topic, don't even call her a bitch... She will come back knives-out.
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    Tyrant Tuskegee Airman
    And here is the thing: it's not the stuff she says then. I don't give a fuck about what she says about those things.

    I am secure enough in myself that I realize that people use words to manipulate you and make you feel a certain way and affect you: they will use words that make you feel good when they want to bring you up and they'll use words that they think will hurt you when they want to drop you from that height and hurt you.

    What hurts is that the entire point of making myself vulnerable was a sort of test: can I trust her? Can I actually TRUST her? If I become someone famous, would she be my weak link, the person ratting out my secrets, the person leaking shit, the person who would hold my vulnerabilities over me like a gun because I've given them ammo that grows more powerful as I have more to lose? Is this a responsible person I would trust with half my life?

    The answer to that is clearly emerging as a distinct "no".

    I have invested 8 years into loving her. More than any other human I've ever loved. But this entire time it feels like I just gave her way too much credit. I gave her so many chances because I thought something special was there that was just yet to blossom... But I think all I have is something that will fester.
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  10. #10
    ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Naturally Camouflaged
    Let her kill you. It would be an act of love and respect.
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    cigreting Naturally Camouflaged
    Originally posted by Tyrant And here is the thing: it's not the stuff she says then. I don't give a fuck about what she says about those things.

    I am secure enough in myself that I realize that people use words to manipulate you and make you feel a certain way and affect you: they will use words that make you feel good when they want to bring you up and they'll use words that they think will hurt you when they want to drop you from that height and hurt you.

    What hurts is that the entire point of making myself vulnerable was a sort of test: can I trust her? Can I actually TRUST her? If I become someone famous, would she be my weak link, the person ratting out my secrets, the person leaking shit, the person who would hold my vulnerabilities over me like a gun because I've given them ammo that grows more powerful as I have more to lose? Is this a responsible person I would trust with half my life?

    The answer to that is clearly emerging as a distinct "no".

    I have invested 8 years into loving her. More than any other human I've ever loved. But this entire time it feels like I just gave her way too much credit. I gave her so many chances because I thought something special was there that was just yet to blossom… But I think all I have is something that will fester.

    Being vulnerable is not a masculine trait. Pretty common sense or is it these days?
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    aldra JIDF Controlled Opposition
    dunno the context, but don't feel bad for doing it especially if she doesn't give you a choice

    some bridges are better burnt
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    Tyrant Tuskegee Airman
    Man I sometimes just wish I had it in me to smack her. I'd never do it. But damn I do think it would work.
  14. #14
    aldra JIDF Controlled Opposition
    Originally posted by Tyrant Man I sometimes just wish I had it in me to smack her. I'd never do it. But damn I do think it would work.

    I always felt like that I actually needed to hit a woman to discipline her it was not worth the trouble because the relationship was doomed anyway. that and it's almost always a reflection of your loss of (emotional) control as much as it is about her faults
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    Tyrant Tuskegee Airman
    True. I know it would mean I lose as well. In the eyes of the world, perhaps even my own eyes since I am conditioned for it by living in the world, no matter how bad she was, hitting cancels it all out: suddenly I'm a woman basher and she's a victim of domestic abuse. Fuck that. It won't come that easy. I actually do have 2 brain cells to rub together so it won't work.
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    General Butt.Naked African Astronaut
    Make her lick a white hot spoon to prove her love and if her tongue blisters, stone her to death.
  17. #17
    stl1 Let's Go Brandon
    Have you met her new love interest yet?
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    Aleister Crowley Tuskegee Airman
    Rape and break her like a horse, show dominance.
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    aldra JIDF Controlled Opposition
    Originally posted by Aleister Crowley Rape and break her like a horse, show dominance.

    then drop her off at the glue factory
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  20. #20
    Aleister Crowley Tuskegee Airman
    Originally posted by Tyrant Man I sometimes just wish I had it in me to smack her. I'd never do it. But damn I do think it would work.

    No, don't do that. You'll hate yourself more, especially when you see other girls fawning over men who don't do that kind of shit. It'll just remind you of being a wife beating scum bag.
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