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2019-11-16 at 3:56 AM UTC
Originally posted by 6011UM Lol no I've never been cheated on in my life. Or cheated on anybody. That is NOT a normal part of life, that is some fucked up thinking. There's being in an open relationship and then there is deceiving your partner by sleeping with somebody behind their back. Don't try and spin your abhorrent shittiness with some false nobility about saving your relationship. It is a fucked up thing to do, and you are a shit person for doing it.
Fuck off with your fake shit kid both you and your penis are unappealing to all but the hairiest of hydro husbands
edit: I keep starting then abandoning threads about my relationship but it's too nuanced and I doubt any insight can be attained from u virgin dweebs who can't even play eruption on air guitar -
2019-11-16 at 4:01 AM UTCI guess I agree that you should probably establish the terms of your relationship before you assume "cheating" is ok. It's just weird if you dont. I dont know I dont care.
I've touched on this many a time. Obviously everyone in the world doesnt just have their one soul mate. That shit is, to me, retarded. People feel like they have twenty soul mates throughout their life sometimes. Widows get remarried. Happy fun loving couples get divorced and remarried. Blah. Blah.
We're all attracted to people and many people can have "soul mate" qualities. Everyone just wants to be loved and wants it to be personal. It of course feels weird knowing your LIFE PARTNER is also getting railed by a bunch of other dudes.
Some cultures just embrace that and say hey let's all fuck and suxk each other and have kids and we will all take care of the sucking and fucking and the raising of the family, TOGETHER. They establish that though. Theres no jealousy. It's just a big group effort.
I dont care.!!! Just do whatever you want as long as it doesnt affect me. :)The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-11-16 at 4:43 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo Fuck off with your fake shit kid both you and your penis are unappealing to all but the hairiest of hydro husbands
edit: I keep starting then abandoning threads about my relationship but it's too nuanced and I doubt any insight can be attained from u virgin dweebs who can't even play eruption on air guitar
I can tell you feel a modicum of guilt. That's good. That's how you're supposed to feel when you cheat. -
2019-11-16 at 4:48 AM UTC
Originally posted by 6011UM I can tell you feel a modicum of guilt. That's good. That's how you're supposed to feel when you cheat.
For all have sinned and fell short of the glory of god.
All the religions are based on guilt. Are they? Idk. But obviously Chrostianity is. I'd assume Islam is as well.
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2019-11-16 at 4:52 AM UTCYou can feel guilty about things that you probably need not feel n.v guilty for. And you can not feel guilty about things that you should probably NEED to.
again guilt is weird. In this sense. I'm guilty for eating a 3rd trip through the chinese buffet.
I'm guilty for machete raping Leslie that one Saturday night when she technically said no.
I'm guilty of selling a kid a shorted sack of weed.
I FEEL GUILTY about so and so thing that I shouldn't feel guilty for.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-11-16 at 4:52 AM UTCYuck why am I wasting my paragraph thoughts in kro date thread?+ fuck. I forgot where i was.
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2019-11-16 at 4:55 AM UTC
Originally posted by 6011UM I can tell you feel a modicum of guilt. That's good. That's how you're supposed to feel when you cheat.
Of course I do you moron. Everyone does, even when you cheat out of anger on purpose in an attempt to destroy the relationship. You know so little about heterosexual relationships its weird
Originally posted by mmQ For all have sinned and fell short of the glory of god.
All the religions are based on guilt. Are they? Idk. But obviously Chrostianity is. I'd assume Islam is as well.
Guilt is interesting.
Guilt is subjective to how you monitor yourself until a standard has been set. Repentance is very important as a way to be proactive about your guilt or else there's no reason to do anything as there's no other authority. I try to be conscious of things I should repent for and I'm getting better at it. Before I really just didn't give a shit -
2019-11-16 at 4:57 AM UTCi wonder if she will want to hang out later, everything was going well up until a certain point
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2019-11-16 at 5 AM UTCI feel guilty for lying to people for financial benefit. I feel guilty for putting myself before others. I feel guilty for not being the best version of myself I can be. I feel guilty for not being as good to some people as I should have been. I feel guilty for coercing people into doing things for me in order to protect myself. I feel guilty for being angry and intimidating to people accidentally. I feel guilty for basically manipulating anybody. These are things I've done recently. Yeah, putting my penis in other people too.
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2019-11-16 at 5:01 AM UTC
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2019-11-16 at 5:01 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ You can feel guilty about things that you probably need not feel n.v guilty for. And you can not feel guilty about things that you should probably NEED to.
again guilt is weird. In this sense. I'm guilty for eating a 3rd trip through the chinese buffet.
I'm guilty for machete raping Leslie that one Saturday night when she technically said no.
I'm guilty of selling a kid a shorted sack of weed.
I FEEL GUILTY about so and so thing that I shouldn't feel guilty for.
That's a really good point mq, most of my life I use to feel guilty about fun things or stuff that I had because the bible and preacher and christian teachers said I should feel guilty for the things I have and get to do that other people don't, and that I should feel inherently guilty for being alive at all because none of us are worthy of existing, and if you don't want to exist then you're slapping God in the face for rejecting his gift and you'll go to hell. haha. Such a loving and understanding God.
I'm remembering this stuff now it sounds insane but it went so so so deep that it's really as much about choosing to feel bad for everything that feels good. It was like, whenever you feel good you should stop doing that and start feeling bad because you don't deserve it, it's a gift from God and you need to feel guilty for every he gives you because you're unworthy of it. -
2019-11-16 at 5:03 AM UTCa lot of people don't feel guilty until they meet repercussions. I'm not one of those people but a lot of people are.
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2019-11-16 at 5:05 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo Of course I do you moron. Everyone does, even when you cheat out of anger on purpose in an attempt to destroy the relationship. You know so little about heterosexual relationships its weird
Guilt is subjective to how you monitor yourself until a standard has been set. Repentance is very important as a way to be proactive about your guilt or else there's no reason to do anything as there's no other authority. I try to be conscious of things I should repent for and I'm getting better at it. Before I really just didn't give a shit
Ok so they're both about repentance eh?
Based off of my understanding, a Christian 'ought to be repenting or actively seeking repentence' (which lol) and that's the bit. Like the entire bit.
We are all sinners and we're going to keep inherently keep sinning, but in the meantime "repent" for your sins. I get it I guess but it's just not conceivable in any sense.
Try to never sin, but if you do it's fine, you got that eternal forgiveness. BUT IF YOU DONT REPENT! the Catholics throw that out the most. "You wont go to heaven if you arent 'actively repenting'
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2019-11-16 at 5:07 AM UTCI
Originally posted by Sudo you should probably be as non threatening as possible. Go with silly cat and indie rock doug. Leave the knives and chzbrgrz for another time
Heard. But do you think it's a lost cause? I mentioned nothing about the bpogz and she drove a over an hour to see me. We were kidding and cuddling. I guess it's whatever
I just thought I'd leave it alone everything was fine and she kissed me and apologized and I told her it's cool, we were just tickling eachother and talking about music from ausitn and temple and she said she would like to go to shows with me. I just dont see why it turned out that weird at the end.
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2019-11-16 at 5:15 AM UTCi dont know because everything was actually going what I thought was well, maybe she was nervous. She was actually pretty in person, i think she has another date in her hood tomorrow. when she told me she needed to make a call when I was on her I knew she'd say she was going to leave.
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2019-11-16 at 5:23 AM UTCBetter luck next time, poopsie.
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2019-11-16 at 5:30 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ Ok so they're both about repentance eh?
Based off of my understanding, a Christian 'ought to be repenting or actively seeking repentence' (which lol) and that's the bit. Like the entire bit.
We are all sinners and we're going to keep inherently keep sinning, but in the meantime "repent" for your sins. I get it I guess but it's just not conceivable in any sense.
Try to never sin, but if you do it's fine, you got that eternal forgiveness. BUT IF YOU DONT REPENT! the Catholics throw that out the most. "You wont go to heaven if you arent 'actively repenting'
Then they pray for dead people etc etc
when you repent it's like you're striving for higher ideals and trying to be a person who's more conscious of your effect on the world. I guess the risk is without repentance you're walking the slippery slope of not believing you have to answer to anybody for your behavior, which has been a recurring theme in my life.
I will use this example: I am not a thief at all, I am absolutely terrible at it and should not steal anything with my hands (fraud is another story which I have felt guilty about recently although I never really did before). However a couple weeks after I was released from prison I was really high on weed and walked out a drug store with a cadbury creme egg I was too high to figure out how to pay for and didn't want to wait in line. I was with a friend who would have told me "fuck it, don't go back and pay for it" but the presence of the person made me wonder how they would interpret the situation. If I was with a more morally inclined individual I would have paid for it. The point I failed to make was that having others present makes you think of your actions as though they're being judged, hence why I used SWIM like a weirdo because Julian Assange is listening and why I pray for repentance for things I've gotten away with without repercussions.
This is basically why Donald Trump is such a terrible person: He's never had to answer to anyone in his life hence he doesn't care about anyone -
2019-11-16 at 5:30 AM UTC"there was a big knife on the floor & I told her my cat put it there...maybe she was nervous"
Maybe she was disgusted by ur face & ur adolescent body, friend -
2019-11-16 at 5:32 AM UTCSHOTZ FIYAHD!!!!
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2019-11-16 at 5:38 AM UTCLol nah,Just brainstorming. Think u missed the 'friend' at the end of my post
