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  1. mmQ motherfucker
    I'll try to be as succinct as possible.

    So there's a girl I work with who a while back revealed to me that she's a swinger. She's been married for 10 years and still seemingly has a happy open relationship with her husband, on top of having 2 kids and all else a relatively normal life.

    Now, we may or may not have started flirting a bunch since then (we have) and may or may not have slept together (we haven't). She certainly wants to and I do too sometimes but she is keeping us a secret from her husband but tells me it's fine because he's cheated on her technically, and what with the open relationship it's all convulated though technically they're suppose to just be basically asking permission to each other to fuck around with someone else.
  2. -mal- Mud Farmer
    Where is the question in this?

    If she’s hiding it it’s cheating. And if you really like her, you’re just going to be collater damage. If you just want to fuck, and you don’t feel morally wrong about being part of cheating, then I guess do it.
  3. mmQ motherfucker
    Accidentally hit submit but I'll continue.

    They do the swinging couple shit and all that like while they fuck in different rooms or the same room or have threesome foursomes all that shit and I'm not into any of that. And I can't bring myself to sleep with her because I feel dirty since it's a secret and I've never cheated on anyone and it's the first time I'm kinda fucking around with a married woman. It's all new to me.

    Anyway she's fucking kinda telling me she loves me and acting really strongly emotionally toward me and I don't know what to make of it and I also know I don't feel that way back especially what with her being married.

    It's all very strange and new to me so should I just cut it off or maybe try and meet her husband and make that part cool or just keep it all a secret and take her to pound town?
  4. -mal- Mud Farmer
    Cut it off
  5. are the kids involved in the swinging ?
  6. mmQ motherfucker
    Originally posted by vindicktive vinny are the kids involved in the swinging ?

    No.
  7. mmQ motherfucker
    Thanks girls.

    It's ok.
  8. mmQ motherfucker
    *note to self*

    Never make a thread online involving females unless you want females to get mad at you about making said thread online about females.
  9. mmQ motherfucker
    Originally posted by -mal- Cut it off

    Why? Furrreal why?
  10. Technologist motherfucker
    Wow, that sounds unusual for a swinger. I’ve had two people invite me to swing before, but it was with their wives and swinger friends. I had to decline. If she’s telling you she loves you, I’d stay away. Like mal said, if it’s for kicks, that’s one thing, but if she says she loves you, having sex with you, she’s gonna want more. How do you think this will play out at work if you sleep togethe? I’ve also met a guy who said he was a swinger, but that was his excuse to cheat.
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  11. mmQ motherfucker
    Originally posted by Technologist Wow, that sounds unusual for a swinger. I’ve had two people invite me to swing before, but it was with their wives and swinger friends. I had to decline. If she’s telling you she loves you, I’d stay away. Like mal said, if it’s for kicks, that’s one thing, but if she says she loves you, having sex with you, she’s gonna want more. How do you think this will play out at work if you sleep togethe? I’ve also met a guy who said he was a swinger, but that was his excuse to cheat.

    I don't know. And my back story would take like 8 million words but I think I'm looking for the answer you're trying to say or has been said?

    I hate it. I didn't ask to be in this position. I hate saying no to people. That's a fault of mine. The D.A.R.E. program MADE ME DO DRUGS.


    Thanks a lot, life. Fucking life. I'm about done with it. Sick of it; I can tell you that much.
  12. Technologist motherfucker
    Don’t like letting people down either, huh? Lol! Been there and still doing it.

    Ask yourself this:

    How will this affect work, if you do sleep with her, and if you don’t?
  13. mmQ motherfucker
    Originally posted by Technologist Don’t like letting people down either, huh? Lol! Been there and still doing it.

    Ask yourself this:

    How will this affect work, if you do sleep with her, and if you don’t?

    She only works where I do like twice a week, fortunately. It doesn't affext my work even when I'm there and when I' not there we don't even talk..at all. Haha. I'm a fucking dumb bitch.
  14. Grimace African Astronaut [my enumerable hindi guideword]
    Originally posted by mmQ …revealed to me that she's a swinger.

    Originally posted by mmQ she is keeping us a secret from her husband but tells me it's fine because he's cheated on her technically,

    Originally posted by mmQ Anyway she's fucking kinda telling me she loves me and acting really strongly emotionally toward me

    Sounds like she's trying to use you to get back at her husband for cheating and NOT trying to swing with you at all. Just telling you that to leave you dumb to the fact that she is doing it purely for revenge on her husband.



    Originally posted by mmQ *note to self*

    Never make a thread online involving females unless you want females to get mad at you about making said thread online about females.

    I HUUUUURRRRRRRRDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD DAT!

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  15. mmQ motherfucker
    Mayhaps m8.

    May fucking haps.
  16. tee hee hee Space Nigga [slangily complete this slumberer]
    It sounds like a disaster* waiting to happen.

    However, it's not your responsability to police other peoples' relationships. And since you don't think it will affect your job, the only other consequence I can think of is is she gonna later come back and say that you forced yourself on her or something like that...





    * I think you should do it.😆😆
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  17. WE SMOOTH African Astronaut
    Mmq, I've actually been fucking a married woman too. At first she told me it was an open relationship, totally cool, etc, now it's "I'm tired of my life/husband" and I'm working my way out of the situation.

    Swag..
  18. mmQ motherfucker
    I feel ZERO emotional attachment toward HER. I don't even care abiut fucking.


    True story about myself : I really don't care about sex
    . All day I don't dream about sex. At all. I just don't fucking care.
  19. tee hee hee Space Nigga [slangily complete this slumberer]
    Originally posted by mmQ I feel ZERO emotional attachment toward HER. I don't even care abiut fucking.


    True story about myself : I really don't care about sex
    . All day I don't dream about sex. At all. I just don't fucking care.

    U sound depressed :/
  20. Ghost Black Hole
    red flag
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