2018-09-19 at 6:04 PM UTC
I don't roll like that. My dad tried to raise a coldblooded killer and it manifested in a dislike of men in general. I don't trust another man with my emotions. That's what girls are for.
2018-09-19 at 6:08 PM UTC
The fact you have so many complicated emotional issues that only a woman can understand / help with them is disgraceful. Part of the reason you need to find a respectable man to talk to is so he can knock you upside the head and tell you to quit being a little girl.
2018-09-19 at 6:20 PM UTC
You are projecting. I never said my emotions were complicated, just that I don't trust other dudes.
Why are you so invested in this?
2018-09-19 at 6:21 PM UTC
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2018-09-19 at 6:22 PM UTC
I'm not. I just hate when men go running to women for help with their problems. It's the opposite of mascuiline, and downright nauseating. The only problem a woman should help you solve is what's for dinner.
2018-09-19 at 6:28 PM UTC
Pull your dick out next session
She might be the one 🌹
2018-09-19 at 6:31 PM UTC
Still dead. How's yours doing?
2018-09-19 at 6:33 PM UTC
Still a loveable old woman.
How was your relationship to your mother when she was still alive?
2018-09-19 at 6:36 PM UTC
Nothing to complain about. Are you close with your mother?
2018-09-19 at 6:40 PM UTC
We have sex every now and then but other than that, no.
2018-09-19 at 6:49 PM UTC
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2018-09-19 at 7:37 PM UTC
This will probably sound like something a psychologist would say, but apart from what splooge said about them being worthless parrots of basic bitch remedies and suggestions, there is SOME value in talking to them. Or someone at all for that matter.
It's not perhaps to get a magical answer or loads of good advice, but more perhaps to hopefully have a breakthrough as they like to say. This could come with talking to anyone though, not necessarily a psychologist.
Like for example you could see a counselor once a week and they just tell you the same things like eat an apple and go for a jog and you'll start feeling better, and you tell them you are too depressed to eat an apple and go for a jog, and they're like well you're gonna have to eat and apple and go for a jog in order to snap out of your depression, and you remind them that you can't, then at some point maybe one of you will see something that helps like, "hey wait a minute, you've become so convinced that you can't do something that even though you absolutely can, you can't accept it."
And maybe you figure out why. Or maybe not. Or maybe your counselor just pisses you off so much so that you get pissed off enough to light the proverbial fire under your own ass so that you don't have to keep going back to tell him or her the same fucking thing every week.
So basically the point in doing it could be more about a- being able to vent and rant to an irl person and b- waiting for the diamond in the rough, so to speak, the moment where something one of you says ends up clicking and something that never made sense ends up making complete sense. Just another perspective to look at it from.
Having said that, I personally haven't seen them much because I too feel like I already know everything they're gonna say or I just don't wanna go talk to a stranger about my feelings. I'd do well to take my own advice but I'm not very good at it.
So I'll just continue to carve lambs and Pentagons (mhmm) into my chest and crawl around my apartment growling at the electricity until something changes.
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2018-09-19 at 7:41 PM UTC
I'll use this place to vent. Prepare yourselves!
2018-09-19 at 7:44 PM UTC
My least favorite part of depression is people telling you how to fix your depression. Bc for fuck’s sake if you could fix it you would.
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2018-09-19 at 7:47 PM UTC
I didn't really talk about depression with my therapist. I just told her my hobbies, she bitched about them and I tried to justify myself. Lol.
What a waste of time.
