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2020-01-19 at 3:56 PM UTC
Originally posted by iam_asiam68 interesting, so by the fact i chose to confront him and point out he was wrong was not the trigger point (obviously, i was triggered by what he did to his employee well before his stupidity of trying to break me down to my face)?
to me, him not acknowledging his wrong doing by compounding it with calling me a name was just a green light to whip his ass.
im tellin ya u really shoulda dropd his pantalones n sukd his wener till he cumd then everyone at work would know hes the faget not u -
2020-01-19 at 3:58 PM UTC
Originally posted by Technologist Iam,
I don’t really think he literally meant you were a fag. It was just his way of insulting you back. You just finished saying he needed is ass beat, what do you expect him to say?
How would you react if someone said you were wrong and needed your ass beat?
in my viewpoint, i was an outsider there to help, and i saw a problem and went directly to the source to correct it. honestly, i expected him to apologize to his employee, since i told him he made a mistake and the fault did not fall on his employee. but instead of accepting he was wrong, he chose to act like his shit didn't stink. -
2020-01-19 at 4:04 PM UTC
Originally posted by iam_asiam68 in my viewpoint, i was an outsider there to help, and i saw a problem and went directly to the source to correct it. honestly, i expected him to apologize to his employee, since i told him he made a mistake and the fault did not fall on his employee. but instead of accepting he was wrong, he chose to act like his shit didn't stink.
I understand that, but you know you’re a big guy with an intimidating demeanor. I have to deal with that a lot. I’m a tall, loud voiced person that can come across very intimidating, or so I’m told.
You also know there are PLENTY of people who will not admit they’re wrong, especially when confronted in front of others. He had to assert his manliness.
I’m just brainstorming here, but maybe if you pulled him aside and told him you were the one who made the mistake, not the other guy. He may have received it better.
Also, you say you expected him to apologize, something you or I might do; but we can’t expect anything from anyone. -
2020-01-19 at 4:08 PM UTC
Originally posted by Technologist I understand that, but you know you’re a big guy with an intimidating demeanor. I have to deal with that a lot. I’m a tall, loud voiced person that can come across very intimidating, or so I’m told.
You also know there are PLENTY of people who will not admit they’re wrong, especially when confronted in front of others. He had to assert his manliness.
I’m just brainstorming here, but maybe if you pulled him aside and told him you were the one who made the mistake, not the other guy.
Also, you say you expected him to apologize, something you or I might do; but we can’t expect anything from anyone.
This is really conflict resolution 101. He just made a big scene in front of everybody and lost his shit. Now everybody thinks both he and that boss are jackasses with short tempers, and will be less likely to come to either of them when something goes wrong.
If you pull them aside or at least calmly explain things, people will respect and like you more for it. -
2020-01-19 at 4:09 PM UTC
Originally posted by Technologist I understand that, but you know you’re a big guy with an intimidating demeanor. I have to deal with that a lot. I’m a tall, loud voiced person that can come across very intimidating, or so I’m told.
You also know there are PLENTY of people who will not admit they’re wrong, especially when confronted in front of others. He had to assert his manliness.
I’m just brainstorming here, but maybe if you pulled him aside and told him you were the one who made the mistake, not the other guy. He may have received it better.
Also, you say you expected him to apologize, something you or I might do; but we can’t expect anything from anyone.
no, i see your point and cannot argue against it.
i have called idiots faggot before who was being a dumbass.
it was the attitude remark that = a faggot that i did not get.
but in reality, the moment he refused to accept responsibility for his wrongdoing was the point i was ready to jack stomp him. he could have said anything because i was looking for "my bad," not go fuck myself in the terms he chose to use. -
2020-01-19 at 4:11 PM UTC
Originally posted by MexicanMasterRace This is really conflict resolution 101. He just made a big scene in front of everybody and lost his shit. Now everybody thinks both he and that boss are jackasses with short tempers, and will be less likely to come to either of them when something goes wrong.
If you pull them aside or at least calmly explain things, people will respect and like you more for it.
i was there for 1 week. that is how it is done when i am sent to help. so it's a short period and i have to fix the problem within that 1 week. and the employees and i spent the remaining last days working our butts off and i bought them lunches and on friday paid the tab for the beer pounding session we had before saying our goodbyes. -
2020-01-19 at 4:15 PM UTCthe employees hate their boss. what i did made them trust me even more.
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2020-01-19 at 4:17 PM UTCi stood up for them. because evidently where they are from, you don't stand up for yourself. but i did learn where they are from that standing up for yourself means attitude which means a faggot hahahaha
cracks me up from the midwest to the East/West coast the idealisms are not even remotely close to one another. -
2020-01-19 at 4:19 PM UTC
Originally posted by iam_asiam68 i was there for 1 week. that is how it is done when i am sent to help. so it's a short period and i have to fix the problem within that 1 week. and the employees and i spent the remaining last days working our butts off and i bought them lunches and on friday paid the tab for the beer pounding session we had before saying our goodbyes.
So buying them shit means they like you lol. OK.
I guarantee they just think you're an asshole. Nobody trusts an asshole. A real show of character is to retain composure even when you are wronged. That he didn't apologize doesn't give you the right to threaten him. You have anger issues nigga. Stop acting like a wild gorilla who needs to posture and thrash through the bushes, and start acting like a human. -
2020-01-19 at 4:24 PM UTC
Originally posted by iam_asiam68 but in reality, the moment he refused to accept responsibility for his wrongdoing was the point i was ready to jack stomp him. he could have said anything because i was looking for "my bad," not go fuck myself in the terms he chose to use.
I get it, trust me, I used to lose my temper easily, I probably still do, at times (yeah I do). We have to realize this about ourselves and try to correct it. Going about it another way may have given you the outcome you wanted. Ya know, the means to the end.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2020-01-19 at 4:24 PM UTCIt’s always funny whenever a troll who goes around acting all tuff and badass all the time gets on here and posts actual IRL details about their sad, pathetic life and you really get to see just how tiny and insignificant and how much of a failure they actually are.
Sploo did this a lot, so did Infinityshock sometimes, like that time he posted a really long thread about cussing out his boss and getting fired from his menial job. Wait is OP infinityshock lolThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2020-01-19 at 4:25 PM UTC
Originally posted by MexicanMasterRace So buying them shit means they like you lol. OK.
I guarantee they just think you're an asshole. Nobody trusts an asshole. A real show of character is to retain composure even when you are wronged. That he didn't apologize doesn't give you the right to threaten him. You have anger issues nigga. Stop acting like a wild gorilla who needs to posture and thrash through the bushes, and start acting like a human.
so what kind of character is it to be ran over by others VS standing up against bullshit?
i am actually trying to see why people make fun of LBG&T. i did it because i know there are mental issues. but these people are tying it to things like attitude, the way you look, the way you stand, the way you talk. they have broken down this is what a faggot is and then look for that in people they meet. and i know for a fact attitude does not mean queer. so when i hear something retarded, i like to give my own view of things.
and btw, after the boss left, they all came up and thanked me. the next following days is when i bought them lunches and then beers.
i have no idea where you are coming from by your post, but i think its retarded as fuck. -
2020-01-19 at 4:28 PM UTC
Originally posted by Fox It’s always funny whenever a troll who goes around acting all tuff and badass all the time gets on here and posts actual IRL details about their sad, pathetic life and you really get to see just how tiny and insignificant and how much of a failure they actually are.
Sploo did this a lot, so did Infinityshock sometimes, like that time he posted a really long thread about cussing out his boss and getting fired from his menial job. Wait is OP infinityshock lol
i make more in 1 year than you do in 5. if having my wants and needs met are pathetic, then let me be the most pathetic loser in the world :) -
2020-01-19 at 4:29 PM UTCI made $108,000 this year and that’s on the low end; I’ve made more in previous years. If you really do make more than me then it’s whatever, but I seriously doubt you make half a mil per year. What is your actual salary?
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2020-01-19 at 4:31 PM UTC
Originally posted by Fox It’s always funny whenever a troll who goes around acting all tuff and badass all the time gets on here and posts actual IRL details about their sad, pathetic life and you really get to see just how tiny and insignificant and how much of a failure they actually are.
Sploo did this a lot, so did Infinityshock sometimes, like that time he posted a really long thread about cussing out his boss and getting fired from his menial job. Wait is OP infinityshock lol
Actually Iam is a big strong guy. He also owns a very large ranch, and is highly specialized in his field. He does have to watch his anger at times, but we also have to consider where people come from. Where he’s from this isn’t that unusual.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2020-01-19 at 4:33 PM UTC
Originally posted by Fox I made $108,000 this year and that’s on the low end; I’ve made more in previous years. If you really do make more than me then it’s whatever, but I seriously doubt you make half a mil per year. What is your actual salary?
as an R&D Engineer in Machining Concepts, plus I do Consulting like i did for this past company and i do that about 10 times per year. my base salary in engineering basically doubles yours and then the consulting jobs are a real cash cow. but no, i do not make 500k a year. -
2020-01-19 at 4:34 PM UTC
Originally posted by iam_asiam68 so what kind of character is it to be ran over by others VS standing up against bullshit?
i am actually trying to see why people make fun of LBG&T. i did it because i know there are mental issues. but these people are tying it to things like attitude, the way you look, the way you stand, the way you talk. they have broken down this is what a faggot is and then look for that in people they meet. and i know for a fact attitude does not mean queer. so when i hear something retarded, i like to give my own view of things.
and btw, after the boss left, they all came up and thanked me. the next following days is when i bought them lunches and then beers.
i have no idea where you are coming from by your post, but i think its retarded as fuck.
And then after you bought them lunch everybody clapped, amirite?
There's a difference between standing up for others and threatening to kill somebody. Like I said, you could have stood up without losing your shit because you lack self control and have anger issues.
"Hey he didn't do it, I did"
"What what the fuck whats wrong with you faggotttt ill beat ur ass"
"lol ok"
Simple as that. Instead, you fed into the anger and let it get the better of you. You escalated and turned it into an argument instead of simply standing up for yourself/others. I assume you've been in multiple fights. People who are like this usually get into tons of them. It's cool when you're a teenager but adults shouldn't behave like this. Especially the threatening I mean my god. I very literally know toddlers with better anger management than you.
Nobody respects a hothead. -
2020-01-19 at 4:34 PM UTC
Originally posted by Technologist Actually Iam is a big strong guy. He also owns a very large ranch, and is highly specialized in his field. He does have to watch his anger at times, but we also have to consider where people come from. Where he’s from this isn’t that unusual.
Let me guess, from the south? -
2020-01-19 at 4:35 PM UTCSouthwest.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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