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Originally posted by Bill Krozby
Sounds like pretty bad advice bromo. Not everyone just has money to drop on a hobby and then get bored with and move on.
And obviously it's not working for you if you're still smoking
Not as often. I'm not trying to quit entirely. I'm assuming most people will find a hobby they like rather than being ADHD like me. Plus GP has a good job and makes decent money AFAIK.
Originally posted by mmQ
Because they're monotonous and boring as fuck, mostly.
I went to one a few years ago as a "support" for someone who had to go who didn't want to go alone.
It was a fucking joke, they sat there talking about their drug of choice and then they had a guest speaker who was a former hooker and drug addict...She told her "life" story and people laughed when she mentioned anything related to drug taking. At the end of the meeting it felt like it was more about glorifying the whole fucking thing than actually helping anyone.
Oh and the whole hugging bullshit, give me a fucking break. When we got there I wasn't sure we were in the right place and the girl I was going with was very shy so I asked the fools standing around "Is this the NA class?" and 2 of them just came over and started hugging me...didn't say a fucking word just started hugging.
I said to the girl "Yep I think we have the right place".
Originally posted by Rear Naked Joke
Keep up your meds and keep off the other drugs man. Really try. You're in shape and you're getting somewhere dude, you got this.
My biggest advice is to find new hobbies. Go and find ways to fill up time while you're sober. That's what kills me about trying to not smoke weed so much the days just drag on when in sober. So my strategy has been to drop money on whatever hobby strikes my whim and just wear it out. Yeah long term I'll drop it but it's whatever. I just get out the impulse. It actually makes me happy. Yeah I'm spending a shit load but what else do you make money for except to be happy and express yourself? I just ordered some VR gear and a new graphics card and I'll get lost in that for a couple of weeks. Music, art, whatever. Just be wild and let it all out, fill up that time.
PM me if you'd like me to talk.
Thanks, I've been doing pretty well with those things I guess. My attention span is still fucked up though, it feels hard to get into anything like that. I've been trying to read though and do things that don't straight up rot my brain like just watching shitty music videos and getting high for hours in my time off work. I'm actually about to have everything line up for me in a way that should make life "good" if my brain allows myself to be happy in those circumstances. I think I need to quit smoking weed, but you're right, it's so fucking boring without it. I start to lose my mind when I don't have anything to do.
my normie friend actually hit me up last night and asked me to go to thai food with him and his girlfriend. i've been bitching to him a lot in recent weeks about my life so he knows what's going on in my life kind of even though we never hung out outside work. like 5 minutes after we order their neighbor by "coincidence" shows up and orders her food and sits next to me and they kept going "oh what a COINCIDENCE" to see you here as she mentions like 3 times over an hour that she's single and is putting her hand on my shoulder and shit. shes kind of cute and i felt like my friend actually gives a shit about me enough to go out of his way for me but i don't even feel like i can do it. it feels weird, almost disrespectful to both me and her (and her) to even fuck around with someone else when i still have 5 years worth of lodged memories of my ex in memory
people say you just need to see someone else or start dating again but i think that's pretty much just using codependency as a replacement. like you are literally just depending on someone else to replace those feelings and memories, without establishing a new self to share with them first. its stupid and selfish and gross and bound for failure because the basis of the entire relationship would be just to kill off those feelings with your ex. i wouldn't want to be either person in that relationship. i guess if all you want is a warm body to eat and sleep with you then it gets the job done. but maybe the problem is with me and it's unrealistic to expect much more than that.
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Originally posted by OG_GREENPLASTIC_JOHNSON_III
people say you just need to see someone else or start dating again but i think that's pretty much just using codependency as a replacement.
Humans are "allegedly" a social species...socializing isn't "codependency".
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson
Humans are "allegedly" a social species…socializing isn't "codependency".
i'm trying to figure out what part of what i wrote you interpret as simply "socializing" but i can't because you're an idiot and a boomer and should kys
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Originally posted by OG_GREENPLASTIC_JOHNSON_III
i'm trying to figure out what part of what i wrote you interpret as simply "socializing" but i can't because you're an idiot and a boomer and should kys
This part dumbo.
"my normie friend actually hit me up last night and asked me to go to thai food with him and his girlfriend. "
^ That's socializing.
Jesus on a bike! these fucking millenn-ials, about as sharp as a blunt thing.
Originally posted by OG_GREENPLASTIC_JOHNSON_III
i'm trying to figure out what part of what i wrote you interpret as simply "socializing" but i can't because you're an idiot and a boomer and should kys
Yeah..stop calling us Boomers you dirty ass whores. I'm a fucking Gen X -boomer cusp. I was born into the start of Gen X and we didn't have freedom sex. We were teen and preteens when Reagan Nomix and AIDS aka Gay Cancer first broke out. No "Leave no child behind" we were the last analog children. fuck you Kr0z you spoiled little cunt. And the cold war got real several times over.
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