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havent had sex in 5 years and it's starting to kill me
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2019-07-21 at 2:29 AM UTCBut yes, I agree that finding an asian handshop would be good for sploo. It's a step in the right direction, and practice makes purple.
My buddy from New York says that he went to a famous one one time just to get things out of his system before he went to go talk to girls at the bar because he didnt want to get into something with someone just because he was thirsty. Kinda smart. -
2019-07-21 at 2:33 AM UTC
Originally posted by frumbob ππ¦ππ―π·π¦ wtf do i do? where do i meet girls? how to i pick up chicks with bad social anxiety like i have? its like im doomed to reverting to virgin and i have no idea how to get out of this predicament. it seems hopeless
Step 1: Make a list of what you actually do
Step 2: Make a list of things you'd realistically like to try
Step 3: Do those things
Step 4: Meet people while doing those things
Step 4a: Statistically speaking eventually you'll meet a female into things you are into
Step 5: If you actually see a future with this girl, go ahead and fuck her, if not, just have a chick friend to get advice on chicks from
Step 6: Bang a chick
The thing is you're never going to meet a chick unless you get yourself out there, and the thing is, you're not going to bang every chick you talk to, but that's okay, because every chick you DON'T bang takes the pressure off of being with a chick that you WANT to bang.
I could go on, but you probably stopped reading at the username.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-07-21 at 3:04 AM UTC
Originally posted by DietPiano Yeah, basically watching TV and movies was by far the most prominent activity I did with my parents… I later got bored of that and hung out with my friends mostly in high school and somewhat regret not spending as much time with them, but not really.
Unfortunately I learned way too many simple and fundamental things I should have learned from my parents and other people from the internet because my parents were too tired to parent me and kind of gave up on me in a sense, and I wasn't great at asking other people for advice.
Sometimes parents place a goal for You they think you should fulfill. They see the long term you when you are in your learning stages. They see how fast you adapt and accomplish tasks and understand patterns. So they place this ideal and expectation upon you. In reality, they know you have potential in the Beginning, but they are not prepared when you turn out to be better than expectations. But the reason it's not achieved, is because it your breaks your self confidence down trying to reach their goals. Just be good at being You and what makes you enjoy life. -
2019-07-21 at 3:13 AM UTC
Originally posted by iam_asiam68 Since your generation definitely has its own thought process based upon several influences, what do you see in terms of the future, when you are 20 years from now and having more say in the world. Obviously the technology will be far more advanced. The world view will be closer to your own views now. how is the world going to relate?
Technology and over socialization will push us further away from our true nature, i'm just a self radicalized extremist monk though
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2019-07-21 at 3:15 AM UTC
Originally posted by iam_asiam68 Sometimes parents place a goal for You they think you should fulfill. They see the long term you when you are in your learning stages. They see how fast you adapt and accomplish tasks and understand patterns. So they place this ideal and expectation upon you. In reality, they know you have potential in the Beginning, but they are not prepared when you turn out to be better than expectations. But the reason it's not achieved, is because it your breaks your self confidence down trying to reach their goals. Just be good at being You and what makes you enjoy life.
my parents did cocaine and got involved with a gang and we lived in a trap house and now I do more drugs than both of them and make my mom cry when I stay up all night smoking meth and chasing hookers around the neighborhood -
2019-07-21 at 4:52 AM UTCdamn dawg u gonna blow the biggest load ever
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2019-07-21 at 4:53 AM UTC
Originally posted by Ghost Technology and over socialization will push us further away from our true nature, i'm just a self radicalized extremist monk though
Technology is social entrapment. And with the race to win who has the best spying technology, you can be found off grid within 20 minutes. Your electric ID supplies quite a bit of information. To escape, is to be financially free to go where you at least need a search party to locate you. -
2019-07-21 at 5:05 AM UTC
Originally posted by Ghost my parents did cocaine and got involved with a gang and we lived in a trap house and now I do more drugs than both of them and make my mom cry when I stay up all night smoking meth and chasing hookers around the neighborhood
Fibbing actually isn't going to lead to understanding. -
2019-07-21 at 5:05 AM UTCsploo, you have very little value to a woman beyond your time and personality and either make them feel better about themselves, or reinforce their insecurities and inadequacies sexually. Step outside your house and you will meet girls who are stupid and naive and probably think you're quirky. Avoid certain subjects and focus on others to make yourself appear less introverted and more just cynical about the world
I've been telling you similar things for years, you can easily do it, you just need to make an uncomfortable effort and try. I remember a while ago you posted a story about hanging out with a girl wearing a pink tutu and you decided to steal shitty drugs from her parents medicine cabinet. This is a perfect example of autistically burning a bridge, just don't do that to people anymore. -
2019-07-21 at 5:13 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo sploo, you have very little value to a woman beyond your time and personality and either make them feel better about themselves, or reinforce their insecurities and inadequacies sexually. Step outside your house and you will meet girls who are stupid and naive and probably think you're quirky. Avoid certain subjects and focus on others to make yourself appear less introverted and more just cynical about the world
I've been telling you similar things for years, you can easily do it, you just need to make an uncomfortable effort and try. I remember a while ago you posted a story about hanging out with a girl wearing a pink tutu and you decided to steal shitty drugs from her parents medicine cabinet. This is a perfect example of autistically burning a bridge, just don't do that to people anymore.
Telling him how to learn a new trait is a good idea. Especially one that creates something positive. -
2019-07-21 at 10:27 AM UTC
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2019-07-21 at 10:58 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo sploo, you have very little value to a woman beyond your time and personality and either make them feel better about themselves, or reinforce their insecurities and inadequacies sexually. Step outside your house and you will meet girls who are stupid and naive and probably think you're quirky. Avoid certain subjects and focus on others to make yourself appear less introverted and more just cynical about the world
I've been telling you similar things for years, you can easily do it, you just need to make an uncomfortable effort and try. I remember a while ago you posted a story about hanging out with a girl wearing a pink tutu and you decided to steal shitty drugs from her parents medicine cabinet. This is a perfect example of autistically burning a bridge, just don't do that to people anymore.
What about the subject of prison and being an ex con? -
2019-07-21 at 11:47 AM UTC
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2019-07-21 at 12:08 PM UTCghost, In an ideal world, I would kill myself, right after I spent my last dollar.
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2019-07-21 at 12:22 PM UTC
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2019-07-21 at 1:14 PM UTCI guess I got into a bad crowd
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2019-07-21 at 1:45 PM UTC
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2019-07-21 at 2:58 PM UTC
Originally posted by vindicktive vinny dave letterman was like the uncle i never had that taught me a lot of useful things including how to look at things.
and those top 10 lists …
The more I can see how those your age learned to somewhat survive on, the kind of skills they would obtain from such a learning process, You really did not have much of a chance.
My Dad was my coach in sports, he was involved in all of our activities, my Mother really tried her best and together life was surrounding with people, From Church, to friends, to those we meet from the youth teams I participated in, and every weekend, every occasion we had people everywhere.
I really feel for you guys. I believe you missed out. I am not dishing on your parents, but it is a sad reality knowing families do their own thing. Some get more involved than others. Some even cut each other off within the unit. Might even appear to be more dysfunctional family units that need vision. I always related to my Parents. I am amazed at the level of those now do not relate to their Parents.
