Originally posted by Sophie
I get what you're saying. My question would be though, if you take a selfish action whether you are conscious of it or not but it has a positive effect on more people than just yourself is the action then still selfish?
maybe not, but i don't think romance really works that way. it pretty much never works for people long term, and for the people who it does work long term for, it seems to me like the reason is because they were successfully able to transition away from romance and towards some more practical kind of relationship
Originally posted by Firekrochfatty
even, genuine, romantic love… eventually, stagnates and the desire for “NEW” languishes the heart. There’s no warranty, that lasts forever.