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Do you think that it's strange, or creepy, that Risir already moved from Germany to the United States, after only...
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2019-05-06 at 12:44 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Common sense, nothing to do with "derp hotel". If you're limp of character you wont make it, if you are strong you will. Most milenials wont make it.
Most people require/expect more intimacy than can be attained without face to face interaction. It has very little to do with "character" and more to do with options and the human condition. If you're a loser you're more likely to find a long distance relationship amenable due to your relativity point being skewed and your choices being more narrow. It's hard to have a level of intimacy with someone that can actually constitute a relationship without being physically close to them. -
2019-05-06 at 12:46 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson If you just want someone to spend time with then no, the commitment mentioned isn't there. It's not hard to do if the commitment is there. Again, if that commitment is there 4000 or 4 miles..makes no difference.
You talk about relationships like a woman which makes perfect sense as to why you were on derp hotel in the first place no offense to anyone else -
2019-05-06 at 12:50 PM UTCSudo seems triggered (again), clearly cant find ANYONE 4000 miles away OR 4...lololol
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2019-05-06 at 12:53 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Sudo seems triggered (again), clearly cant find ANYONE 4000 miles away OR 4…lololol
This is clearly projection on your part. I have several local hos and someone about 100 miles.away moving to th city next month I'm going to be living with.
This is a really weird and defensive post from you. You have weird problems. I know about this by maintaining relationships while incarcerated -
2019-05-06 at 12:55 PM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo Most people require/expect more intimacy than can be attained without face to face interaction. It has very little to do with "character" and more to do with options and the human condition. If you're a loser you're more likely to find a long distance relationship amenable due to your relativity point being skewed and your choices being more narrow. It's hard to have a level of intimacy with someone that can actually constitute a relationship without being physically close to them.
You do know it's the 21st century and there are things called "aircraft" right? lololol. The whole "commitment" thing fails to register with you doesn't it...sure if there is no commitment and you just want a regular lay then it's definitely not going to work...but if you singularly are committed to that person and not just blowing your load and you are both working to being together...then it's relatively easy to wait a little while.
Again, 99% of MOON PERSONs don't have the character, integrity and simply will power to make such a thing work. -
2019-05-06 at 12:57 PM UTC
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2019-05-06 at 1:01 PM UTCSo, clearly this wasn't a fake thread, just like most of matts threads, so idk where the fake thing was coming from..?
The problem here is that risir was (is) going thru some pretty heavy mental health stuff, living at his mom's, not working despite being a physically healthy 29ish yr old, having some mental breakdowns and almost checked himself into a psych ward recently.
Given all that, I really don't think he's mentally prepared to 1. Move to a new country 2. Be in a serious relationship 3. Have the realistically strong possibility of being rejected and having to fly back home or somehow kick it in the states. I think there's way too much change going on way too quickly for him. Not saying it can't work out, but on pen and paper I feel like it's not a great idea. -
2019-05-06 at 1:02 PM UTC
Originally posted by DietYellow So, clearly this wasn't a fake thread, jjst like most of matts threads, so idk where the fake thing was coming from..?
The problem here iz that risir was (is) going thru some pretty heavy mental health stuff, living at his mom's, not working despite being a physically healthy 29ish yr old, having some mental breakdowns and almost checked himself into a psych ward recently.
Given all that, I really don't think he's mentally prepared to 1. Move to a new country 2. Be in a serious relationship 3. Have the realistically strong possibility of being rejected and having to fly back home or somehow kick it in the states. I think there's way too much change going on way too quickly for him. Not saying it can't work out, but on pen and paper I feel like it's not a great idea.
So nothing to lose by trying then... -
2019-05-06 at 1:05 PM UTCin the end she'll take all his money and he'll kill himself.
real niggers be like that all the time.
give it a 1-2 yr tops after this post. -
2019-05-06 at 1:07 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson So nothing to lose by trying then…
What I'm saying is that risir is a guy under a lot of stress right now, and that guys under too much stress can snap. Moving to a new country for a relationship that doesnt work out is just a teeny weeny bit stressful, correct. -
2019-05-06 at 1:08 PM UTC
Originally posted by DietYellow What I'm saying is that risir is a guy under a lot of stress right now, and that guys under too much stress can snap. Moving to a new country for a relationship that doesnt work out is just a teeny weeny bit stressful, correct.
Welcome to adulthood...life, relationships, worry for the future etc etc...it's stressful for most people.
There are those that fold and don't even try, and those that try anyway regardless of the stress possible negative outcome. -
2019-05-06 at 1:08 PM UTC
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2019-05-06 at 1:09 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson You do know it's the 21st century and there are things called "aircraft" right? lololol. The whole "commitment" thing fails to register with you doesn't it…sure if there is no commitment and you just want a regular lay then it's definitely not going to work…but if you singularly are committed to that person and not just blowing your load and you are both working to being together…then it's relatively easy to wait a little while.
Again, 99% of MOON PERSONs don't have the character, integrity and simply will power to make such a thing work.
This is a purely female perspective. Obviously if you don't foresee a future with the person it's going to work but really what self respecting male is going to remain monogamous with someone without physical intimacy? You'd have to be a complete cuck and have now testosterone. What female Is going to wait/suffer for a guy who's not powerdickin and they're not emotionally attached to? Rn I know I will be in a relationship when someone moves here but in the meantime I'm essentially free because I'm not a faggot. Women want desirable men, not someone with no options, ideally both but they have to be acutely aware a relationship with you is desirable for more than just themselves
You seem weird and losery. I think you have some problems. Let's talk Bout you -
2019-05-06 at 1:10 PM UTC
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2019-05-06 at 1:10 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Welcome to adulthood…life, relationships, worry for the future etc etc…it's stressful for most people.
There are those that fold and don't even try, and those that try anyway regardless of the stress possible negative outcome.
CAnT WiN teH Lott3ry iF yOU dOnt PlAy! -
2019-05-06 at 1:11 PM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo This is a purely female perspective. Obviously if you don't foresee a future with the person it's going to work but really what self respecting male is going to remain monogamous with someone without physical intimacy?
So you were having prison sex when you were incarcerated then, cheating on your "maintained" relationship?
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2019-05-06 at 1:12 PM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-05-06 at 1:12 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson I'm talking about the situation, not the individuals of this thread as I don't know them…and nor do you.
Are you fucking kidding me? First, I don't believe that, and if that's true, then this was a complete fucking waste of time. I don't care about "people in general", I'm interested in specific people mentioned in this thread.
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2019-05-06 at 1:12 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Which contradicts what you just said…However…YOU didn't really have a choice did you if you were incarcerated…"Keep sending the commissary money please babe, you know I love you"
lololol
You ninja edited most of this because you're stark raving mad
I can literally write a how to guide about maintaining/fostering relationships from prison but some people I know are even better than me -
2019-05-06 at 1:15 PM UTC
