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2019-04-07 at 5:09 PM UTC
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2019-04-07 at 5:14 PM UTC
Originally posted by -SpectraL Just because someone is a bricklayer doesn't mean they lay bricks.
Pedophiles are not child molesters. Many pedophiles willingly seek treatment before they offend and wind up living very ordinary lives.
Big surprise to a lot of people, not all child molesters are pedophiles, either.
The main difference is that a pedophile is someone who is primarily sexually attracted to prepubescent children, whereas a child molester is someone who actively molests a child.
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2019-04-07 at 5:15 PM UTC
Originally posted by yabbadabbadindunuthin Pedophiles are not child molesters. Many pedophiles willingly seek treatment before they offend and wind up living very ordinary lives.
Big surprise to a lot of people, not all child molesters are pedophiles, either.
The main difference is that a pedophile is someone who is primarily sexually attracted to prepubescent children, whereas a child molester is someone who actively molests a child.
And yes, there's a lot of cross over but it's not the same thing.
how does one become a paedophile? are they born that way? -
2019-04-07 at 5:22 PM UTCthat was over the line young Lady
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2019-04-07 at 5:24 PM UTCAh shit. I’m just messin.
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2019-04-07 at 5:26 PM UTC
Originally posted by Grylls how does one become a paedophile? are they born that way?
Psychologists and neuroscientists have debated this for a while. There's no unified theory of identity that's universally accepted but, like anything in psychology, people are an amalgam of their sociological, political, biological, psychosexual, genetic, and other extraneous influence -- perhaps their greatest influence being that of their own choice.
The most recent research I saw seems to indicate that people know they're sexually attracted to children during puberty, which would lead one to believe it's a sexual preference like any other one. The main difference between pedophilia and a preference like heterosexuality is that the law dictates children can't consent to sexual activity, to therein lies an immediate problem.
This problem is further complicated with by the rich history of inconsistent laws in the Western world governing age of consent.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-04-07 at 5:26 PM UTCi was talkin to star that last post lala
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2019-04-07 at 5:44 PM UTC
Originally posted by yabbadabbadindunuthin Psychologists and neuroscientists have debated this for a while. There's no unified theory of identity that's universally accepted but, like anything in psychology, people are an amalgam of their sociological, political, biological, psychosexual, genetic, and other extraneous influence – perhaps their greatest influence being that of their own choice.
The most recent research I saw seems to indicate that people know they're sexually attracted to children during puberty, which would lead one to believe it's a sexual preference like any other one. The main difference between pedophilia and a preference like heterosexuality is that the law dictates children can't consent to sexual activity, to therein lies an immediate problem.
This problem is further complicated with by the rich history of inconsistent laws in the Western world governing age of consent.
ummm interesting
i always had this thing i kinda believed, its like.. for example, people who have grown up to be adults but during their childhood and teenage years they never had the chance to experience what its like to be with someone else sexually
so as they've grown up are still virgins, never had any or very little sexual contact and are basically just stuck in the past which makes them more attracted to adolescents and what could have been -
2019-04-07 at 5:46 PM UTCIf you have thoughts of fucking kids, you're already finished. May as well just take a bullet to head and get it over with.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-04-07 at 6:25 PM UTCI'm about to watch the movie called Generation UM
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2019-04-07 at 6:34 PM UTCumm k
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2019-04-07 at 6:50 PM UTC
Originally posted by Grylls ummm interesting
i always had this thing i kinda believed, its like.. for example, people who have grown up to be adults but during their childhood and teenage years they never had the chance to experience what its like to be with someone else sexually
so as they've grown up are still virgins, never had any or very little sexual contact and are basically just stuck in the past which makes them more attracted to adolescents and what could have been
There's no research that supports that to my knowledge.
Originally posted by -SpectraL If you have thoughts of fucking kids, you're already finished. May as well just take a bullet to head and get it over with.
Define "kids." Different countries have different laws, and what's a felony in my country wasn't a felony less than 50 years ago -- or might not be a felony contingent on where you live. In fact, the APA still hasn't even decided if Hebephilia should be treated as a mental illness.
Just to clarify, I'm not defending these guys. I'm just saying that the modern day witch hunt never does anybody any good, and it's resulting in more kids being abused because people who are ill aren't stepping forward for help. Either no services exist or they're impossible to access without a modern-day scarlet letter that makes it impossible to find employment.
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2019-04-07 at 7:09 PM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo Don't you fucking Umm me I don't even care but you shouldn't have done it and you know why you ummed and it's ok gurl we're in this together but remember when something happened and I didn't say Umm? That's me because I'm not the kind of person who says Umm or even a person who cares about it so don't fucking dare ever say umm in reference to anything to do with me again bitch
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2019-04-07 at 7:36 PM UTC
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2019-04-07 at 7:48 PM UTC
Originally posted by ohfralala “I’m not pressing.”
“I wanna press it.”
Lol
You and April are fucking made for each other.
God fucking damn it. Just stop. What you don’t understand is that people were trying to take up for you. I’ve defended you NUMEROUS times since we’ve come to this site, including the time April flipped on you, and you get fucking bent out of shape over EVERY single thing that people say including “um” but you don’t get twisted over some dude posting your pics.
I mean FUCK. Get bent.
Something that pretty should be seen. Don't be jelly girl.
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2019-04-07 at 7:51 PM UTCMaybe you a jellybaby
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2019-04-07 at 7:52 PM UTCDH is still alive lol
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2019-04-07 at 7:55 PM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-04-07 at 7:55 PM UTCOh hey look, it's pedophilia debate #7,883,976 on NiS.
How fresh and original.
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2019-04-07 at 8:08 PM UTC
