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  1. #1
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    So where do you all find yourselves on the "spectrum".

    No, not that spectrum.

    I mean in terms of BDSM.

    I, personally, contend that literally everyone lies SOMEWHERE on this spectrum.

    There might be some wackjob religious fundamentalists who only engage in sex for the purpose of procreation, and engage in the missionary position night after night. But secretly, they yearn for more.

    So where do you fit?

    I have very strong submissive tendencies (in the bedroom, at least). Just about anything short of scat or pegging turn me on.

    I'm not saying it's ideal, or right, or wrong, or anything. ITT we just talk kink, no value judgments.
  2. #2
    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    I like how you put this in BLTC
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  3. #3
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    HOLY FUCK WRONG FORUM.

    LMAO.
  4. #4
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    Too much liquor and xanax.

    FUCK.
  5. #5
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    https://niggasin.space/thread/35018

    This thread is about... there's gotta be a research chemical out there with the initials BDSM...
  6. #6
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    Actually, speaking of...

    There are sex drugs out there.

    I remember buying amyl nitrates at an adult/sex/porn store all the time...

    It enhances orgasms like crazy.

    Apparently it also loosens the sphincter for... Rear entry.
  7. #7
    GGG victim of incest [my veinlike two-fold aepyornidae]
    any drug can be a sex drug if you simply believe in yourself
  8. #8
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    Originally posted by GGG any drug can be a sex drug if you simply believe in yourself

    I dunno...

    I mean, opiates make me so euphoric and sedated that sex is just completely off the table at that point.

    MDMA, interestingly, makes me just as euphoric, but also sociable and driven towards romantic interaction...

    On MDMA, with the right gal, I could cuddle the whole ~2 hours and that would be better than a hundred sexes.

    And dissociatives... That'd just be plain weird.
  9. #9
    -SpectraL coward [the spuriously bluish-lilac bushman]
    It's been decades since I got a BSOD.
  10. #10
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    Originally posted by -SpectraL It's been decades since I got a BSOD.

    I had to google the acronym...

    Blue screen of death was a real nuisance at one time, though. I nearly forgot about em.
  11. #11
    Zanick motherfucker [my p.a. supernal goa]
    I tried choking, wasn't feeling it. I'm a nice guy and I don't like the thought of some poor girl beneath me gasping for air. I bought a rope, but I couldn't make a knot that didn't slip. Eventually, they stopped letting me near the mannequins.
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  12. #12
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    Originally posted by Zanick I tried choking, wasn't feeling it.

    It's become almost disillusioning over the years just how many women specifically want to be choked during sex. Maybe not always until the point of near-asphyxiation, but having a hand wrapped around the neck seems to be quite fucking common.
  13. #13
    Octavian motherfucker
    This:

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  14. #14
    34nfi4w8g3wnfge4j93qrj309jg Houston [my metonymically tentacled thales]
    They tried to teach me that shit in school but I said to teacher the only mass I need in bed is your mom
  15. #15
    HTS highlight reel
    Err, the M side of the spectrum I guess. But like I'm not super into it either. I need people to be gentle with me when they're hurting me. ;_;
  16. #16
    Originally posted by HTS Err, the M side of the spectrum I guess. But like I'm not super into it either. I need people to be gentle with me when they're hurting me. ;_;

    If you enjoy submission and masochism, then you just need proper aftercare and reassurance.
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  17. #17
    I’m a switch. But def lean more on the dom side than sub.
  18. #18
    Soyboy V: A Cat-Girl/Boy Under Every Bed African Astronaut [my no haunted nonbeing]
    Originally posted by -mal- I’m a switch. But def lean more on the dom side than sub.

    You're a dom girl?
  19. #19
    34nfi4w8g3wnfge4j93qrj309jg Houston [my metonymically tentacled thales]
    Originally posted by -mal- I’m a switch.

    I'll turn you on ;)
  20. #20
    blackbird Tuskegee Airman
    I’m more of a sub. I’m mostly into femdom and degradation.
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