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2019-03-07 at 5:39 AM UTCSo where do you all find yourselves on the "spectrum".
No, not that spectrum.
I mean in terms of BDSM.
I, personally, contend that literally everyone lies SOMEWHERE on this spectrum.
There might be some wackjob religious fundamentalists who only engage in sex for the purpose of procreation, and engage in the missionary position night after night. But secretly, they yearn for more.
So where do you fit?
I have very strong submissive tendencies (in the bedroom, at least). Just about anything short of scat or pegging turn me on.
I'm not saying it's ideal, or right, or wrong, or anything. ITT we just talk kink, no value judgments. -
2019-03-07 at 5:41 AM UTCI like how you put this in BLTC
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2019-03-07 at 5:42 AM UTCHOLY FUCK WRONG FORUM.
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2019-03-07 at 5:42 AM UTCToo much liquor and xanax.
FUCK. -
2019-03-07 at 5:45 AM UTChttps://niggasin.space/thread/35018
This thread is about... there's gotta be a research chemical out there with the initials BDSM... -
2019-03-07 at 5:50 AM UTCActually, speaking of...
There are sex drugs out there.
I remember buying amyl nitrates at an adult/sex/porn store all the time...
It enhances orgasms like crazy.
Apparently it also loosens the sphincter for... Rear entry. -
2019-03-07 at 5:51 AM UTCany drug can be a sex drug if you simply believe in yourself
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2019-03-07 at 5:55 AM UTC
Originally posted by GGG any drug can be a sex drug if you simply believe in yourself
I dunno...
I mean, opiates make me so euphoric and sedated that sex is just completely off the table at that point.
MDMA, interestingly, makes me just as euphoric, but also sociable and driven towards romantic interaction...
On MDMA, with the right gal, I could cuddle the whole ~2 hours and that would be better than a hundred sexes.
And dissociatives... That'd just be plain weird. -
2019-03-07 at 6:42 AM UTCIt's been decades since I got a BSOD.
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2019-03-07 at 6:43 AM UTC
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2019-03-07 at 6:45 AM UTCI tried choking, wasn't feeling it. I'm a nice guy and I don't like the thought of some poor girl beneath me gasping for air. I bought a rope, but I couldn't make a knot that didn't slip. Eventually, they stopped letting me near the mannequins.
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2019-03-07 at 6:47 AM UTC
Originally posted by Zanick I tried choking, wasn't feeling it.
It's become almost disillusioning over the years just how many women specifically want to be choked during sex. Maybe not always until the point of near-asphyxiation, but having a hand wrapped around the neck seems to be quite fucking common. -
2019-03-10 at 10:18 PM UTCThis:
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2019-03-10 at 10:20 PM UTCThey tried to teach me that shit in school but I said to teacher the only mass I need in bed is your mom
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2019-03-10 at 10:23 PM UTCErr, the M side of the spectrum I guess. But like I'm not super into it either. I need people to be gentle with me when they're hurting me. ;_;
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2019-03-10 at 10:33 PM UTC
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2019-03-11 at 12:41 AM UTCI’m a switch. But def lean more on the dom side than sub.
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2019-03-11 at 12:46 AM UTC
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2019-03-11 at 12:56 AM UTC
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2019-03-11 at 8:25 AM UTCI’m more of a sub. I’m mostly into femdom and degradation.