2018-09-18 at 9:41 PM UTC
Zanick
motherfucker
[my p.a. supernal goa]
Confronting your mother might not be as productive as you think. These things have already happened, and she either denied them or justified them however she needed to at the time to dismiss the possibility that she's done anything wrong. My point is that she's probably very comfortable with her relationship to the guilt you think she should feel, and whatever narrative you manage to extract from these memories, you are the one who is going to be doing all of the work, not her. It's going to change your life if you let it, but probably nobody else's life close to you except those who benefit from your secondhand realizations.
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