did you catch what they were saying about how the penises and vaginas they make are really shitty? that woman saying she couldn't even have intercourse with it coz it was so tight, and the penises they fashioned looked really weird and fucked up.
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If HTS wants to change her sex,then more power. I do however believe that her and people like her have a mental illness regarding their identity crisis which is bringing them to change their sex. I think they should consider their choice for a long time before going under the knife,but if they want it, and can afford it then... I hope they're happy with their choice.
I really don't care so much about adults choosing this route, as I do about kids though. Kids need intensive counseling, not hormones or surgery. If after that they choose to go on with a surgery for sex change then more power to them.
I'm not knocking your choice, HTS, and I would imagine you've gone over the pros and cons, but I won't lie and say I'm not worried. I'm sure there are many people who've had surgery who are completely happy for their entire life, but it does seem to me that there is something deeper, and for some once they realize surgery is an option, it becomes a goal, and they think all their problems will vanish after that. Counseling can take years to have any breakthroughs unfortunately if they ever happen, and that leaves someone suffering for a very long time unable to cope with how their body is. That's the same for a lot of people with mental illness regardless of if it's sexual identity or depression, anxiety, whatever else. People live with schizophrenia for their entire lives and it's unfortunate that they suffer too. I'm not putting down seeking an answer and being "fixed" for lack of a better word, but in some cases surgery is just a temporary fix,and then once the honeymoon period wears off they are left still with their same problems and possibly more due to complications, and regret.
I support you 100%, HTS, if that's what she wants,but as a friend and someone who genuinely cares I just hope and pray it's the answer for her, works successfully with no complications, and she's happy for the rest of her life with the results. I'm behind her all the way though, and if it doesn't work out, well... I'm going to be a friend just like I would with any friend who made a mistake and try to be there. We all make mistakes, but hey, this probably won't be one for her. I'm hoping this helps her be who she wants to be inside and out, and makes her happy.
Researchers also found that among those contacted for follow-up:
23% of the patients had, or were having, regular vaginal intercourse. 61% were happy with the depth of their vagina. 98% had a sensitive clitoris. 48% were able to achieve clitoral orgasm.
The study also showed that minor complications were relatively common. For example:
14% had clitoral discomfort, but none had elected to have their clitoris removed. 29% were troubled by vaginal hair growth. 27% reported urinary problems, and the majority of these needed revision surgery.
In response to your shitty link, I will provide you with a review of over 100 studies that show there's a huge amount of regret and depression experienced by those who go through sex change surgery.
Originally posted by NARCassist
so when a dude becomes a bitch and has a pussy, does the pussy get wet like a real woman's pussy does when she gets turned on?
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Originally posted by NARCassist
so what, they have to use lube i guess?
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Yes. That's all the lubrication they'll get besides the natural moistness that comes from any opening in the human body. Kinda fucked up no?
Like the post op vaginas actually look good from the outside, but it comes with so many problems that I can't believe some governments actually pay for their citizens to have this change. It's essentially mutilation fueled by mental health problems. I mean I'm all for governments taking care of their citizen's health and whatnot, but if you can't get gov funded nose jobs then you shouldn't be able to get a gov funded vagina. It's like signing on to suck tax payer money for the rest of your life because of a premeditated self inflicted physical condition.
I mean do whatever you want to your body, just don't make me pay for your cosmetic surgery.
I probably won't go any farther than getting my balls removed, but I dunno yet. My balls are already basically vestigial... non-functional for any purpose other than creating testosteroni. I'm sterile af, so they might as well go.