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I really tried too hard.
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2018-08-06 at 2:13 PM UTCI used to always try to be a character in order to impress people and make them like me, and it barely worked. This past week I've calmed down and just let the other person do the talking -- ask them questions about themselves, etc, and not try to be funny or tell a "wacky" story from my life, etc. Nobody wants to be entertained unless it's media. Goddamn, I must've been so fucking annoying...
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2018-08-06 at 2:19 PM UTCYes, it's always best to just be yourself, putting on a persona to win favor is a beta move.
If your normal self is being a dull twat..then embrace being a dull twat etc. -
2018-08-06 at 2:22 PM UTC
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2018-08-06 at 2:27 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Yes, it's always best to just be yourself, putting on a persona to win favor is a beta move.
If your normal self is being a dull twat..then embrace being a dull twat etc.
Trying to think whether it was actually putting on a persona, but yes, I think you're right. I was constantly conjuring up traits that I thought people would find interesting; definitely a persona. Pathetic. -
2018-08-06 at 2:33 PM UTC
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2018-08-06 at 2:34 PM UTC^ one of the negatives of being popular is guys like this follow you around.
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2018-08-06 at 2:45 PM UTCYou found this site and invited us all here from DH, dammit!
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2018-08-06 at 2:49 PM UTC
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2018-08-06 at 4:53 PM UTCOp i appreciate your willingness to self analyze... and ur attemps at self improvement. You seem to be maturing and developing nicely.
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2018-08-06 at 4:56 PM UTC
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2018-08-06 at 5:35 PM UTC
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2018-08-06 at 11:51 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enterita I used to always try to be a character in order to impress people and make them like me, and it barely worked. This past week I've calmed down and just let the other person do the talking – ask them questions about themselves, etc, and not try to be funny or tell a "wacky" story from my life, etc. Nobody wants to be entertained unless it's media. Goddamn, I must've been so fucking annoying…
Why?
I dont think I've ever tried to impress others.