2018-08-05 at 11:44 PM UTC
Sometimes I feel bad for women, doesn't usually last long.
2018-08-06 at 12:07 AM UTC
It's hard to say. Some people are more private than others. I'm guessing your aunt and her mother are friends, so maybe have a bbq and extend an invite to her and her mother through your aunt. If she comes that tells you what you need to know. Go from there.
2018-08-06 at 12:24 AM UTC
Cootehill
African Astronaut
[my unsymmetrically blurry oregano]
The thing is I know she like me and is looking for a relationship.
We were alone for a brief while, but I didn't ask her out, or even for her number.
I'm lame. Basically an autist.
I'm so scared of getting rejected, and always have been, that I don't ask girls out.
I hypothesise sometimes that my fear of rejection is due to being rejected by my Dad and being raised in a single parent household.
2018-08-06 at 12:28 AM UTC
I get that. So with the scenario I proposed, you'll be around her again to talk to her without any pressure. Should have plenty of opportunity to exchange numbers and set up a an actual date.
2018-08-06 at 12:29 AM UTC
Maybe you guys can be autistic together.
2018-08-06 at 12:36 AM UTC
Cootehill
African Astronaut
[my unsymmetrically blurry oregano]
I feel like I need this girl.
2018-08-06 at 12:44 AM UTC
I was being sincere. Geez.
2018-08-06 at 12:52 AM UTC
joerell
African Astronaut
[twine our circinate supersymmetry]
Originally posted by Cootehill
The thing is I know she like me and is looking for a relationship.
We were alone for a brief while, but I didn't ask her out, or even for her number.
I'm lame. Basically an autist.
I'm so scared of getting rejected, and always have been, that I don't ask girls out.
I hypothesise sometimes that my fear of rejection is due to being rejected by my Dad and being raised in a single parent household.
We have our differences Bro and at times it's hysterical, still you're not lame, autistic or probably as racist in real life. Even if you are...who gives a shit. Compared to Matt you're a GENUS as Pole would say and a lot funnier.
What happens to you happens to everyone and more than you think. I remember once I stopped my bike for a lady to cross and started chatting. I forget to give her my number and luckily saw her by accident 2 weeks later. I just joked about it and we're still friends.
If the girl likes you and wants a relationship great if you feel the same. But remember...not everyone is meant to be together. Don't see it as rejection if it happens...see it as a positive road to find what you really want and be genuine. It has absolutely nothing to do with your past or father...it has to do with you gaining confidence and losing your insecuity. Like 5 gang bangers approaching you late at night...you don't have many choices. You either talk your way out of the situation or run. You learn to fight ahead of time preparing yourself and knowing where to visit or not visit. Or you stay inside your home and never leave. Fear is your worse enemy and defeats you before you even start. So stay calm, don't get tense and be real. If it works it works...if not it will next time and maybe even better.
Now if you'e bullshitting me...good trolling.
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2018-08-06 at 12:53 AM UTC
If you do work up the nerve to call her and get a date I recommend keeping the Ebola talk to a minimum....that’ll only freak her out
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2018-08-06 at 12:53 AM UTC
There’s really no need to get offended or be a complete prick. All I was trying to say is that maybe you might understand each other...in a good way.
2018-08-06 at 12:56 AM UTC
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