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Cutting people out of your life forever because you're in a bad mood
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2018-05-07 at 4:39 AM UTC
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2018-05-07 at 4:55 AM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-05-07 at 4:58 AM UTCShe does have a very forgiving heart
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2018-05-07 at 5:10 AM UTCi believe its related to a depressive state, many people push loved ones away for some reason when depressed. although just being in a bad mood has been the cause of a few break ups as well.
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2018-05-07 at 5:13 AM UTC^RETARD!
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2018-05-07 at 5:40 AM UTCBill Krozby is mad because he's never cut anyone out of his life, but many have cut him out of theirs.
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2018-05-07 at 5:57 AM UTC
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2018-05-07 at 7 AM UTCI've done it a few times, not so much out of anger but because there was a point I couldn't deal with what I saw as their flaws anymoreThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-05-07 at 3:44 PM UTCI've done it a lot, even with family. When a relationship isn't working out in your favour, when you always seem to be on the losing end, when the person is a depressing person to be around, it seems logical. After all the world is full of new people.
However it does tend to leave you somewhat isolated, since the best way to meet new friends is via existing ones. -
2018-05-07 at 3:57 PM UTCI cut a friend of 10+ years out of my life because we had a drunken argument about who it was who ordered a $15 pitcher of premium ale when we'd been getting $5 pitchers all night.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-05-07 at 4:07 PM UTC
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2018-05-07 at 4:38 PM UTCI don't trust easily, always expect the other person to fuck me over. The only thing I trust is mutual relationship in which both parties need the other person to survive.
I have cut few people out, but one instance it was a friend of 5 years, but he backstabbed me and I cut my loses and moved on. Which was a good thing.
I don't find it abnormal to remove people that aren't there for you, but in this day and age it's hard to find people who really give an honest fuck.
So, keep it up. You're on the right path but BE a little flexible with your SO. My GF had the headache problems, I didn't dump her, helped her to fix the problem by adjusting the diet and making her drink water. I don't easily give up on people. -
2018-05-07 at 6:17 PM UTC
Originally posted by Daily I'm very sensitive
Not in a girly passive-aggressive way, but in a stoic I'll hold your hand over the dinner table kind of way. I've cut people out for various (sometimes stupid) reasons that seemed justified at the time
- Didn't seem interested in hanging out until I told them I had some kind of drug (just once)
- Embarrassed me in front of my friends (even though my friends didn't care)
- Ignored me after I initiated contact but then contacted me to ask me for some shit
- Told somebody something that was supposed to be secret (even though it wasn't a big deal)
etc. With personal relationships I care about intention, not consequence. I don't care if nothing bad happened. I care about the fact that you behaved in a way which was not conducive to my well being
Maybe I have high standards because I'm a really good friend to my friends (emotional support, financial support, entertainment, bromance, constructive criticism, co-improvement, etc). I would never betray my friends. I am very loyal
What do you think. Babe
Holding yourself to a high standard is good but forgiveness is a virtue too. Sometimes basically good people will do bad things. If your expectation of your peers is that they live up to the same standard you do all the time then you're either going to be lonely or have low standards for yourself.
There is a point where being too forgiving people too much gets you stuck with toxic people to I think letting one transgression slide isn't at the level of letting people walk on you. -
2018-05-07 at 7:48 PM UTC
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2018-05-07 at 7:54 PM UTC
Originally posted by MORALLY SUPERIOR BEING However it does tend to leave you somewhat isolated, since the best way to meet new friends is via existing ones.
i never like the idea of befriending a friends friends becos itll be awkward when [not if] you eventually cut your friend off.
the best kind of friend is the disposable type. -
2018-05-07 at 7:56 PM UTC
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2018-05-07 at 7:58 PM UTC
Originally posted by Lanny Holding yourself to a high standard is good but forgiveness is a virtue too. Sometimes basically good people will do bad things. If your expectation of your peers is that they live up to the same standard you do all the time then you're either going to be lonely or have low standards for yourself.
There is a point where being too forgiving people too much gets you stuck with toxic people to I think letting one transgression slide isn't at the level of letting people walk on you.
loneliness is a virtue too. -
2018-05-07 at 7:59 PM UTCyou have to cut some people out because there are people who are just fucking time and energy vultures and will waste all your time if you let them
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2018-05-07 at 8 PM UTC
Originally posted by greenplastic you have to cut some people out because there are people who are just fucking time and energy vultures and will waste all your time if you let them
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVQyqoRfa8w
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2018-05-07 at 8:08 PM UTC
