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I really want to have kids, because I know I'd make a great parent.
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2018-03-31 at 10:46 AM UTCAnother thing, my child will not be disciplined at home for defending himself/herself at school if I do choose to send them to public school. I got that shit when I was a kid, and it fucked me up bad, and is probably where the majority of my mental and social issues started
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2018-03-31 at 10:47 AM UTC
Originally posted by Enter She won't argue after a swift backhand to the face.
But seriously, from what I remember in my relationship, the only times she started arguing with me was when I actually did something stupid, like did drugs, or made us miss the last bus home because I was completely wasted and had to run off it just as it was about to leave, to go throw up everywhere lmao. But in those instances I defused her yelling by acting "cute" I guess. She said every time, "I can't stay mad at you", which I've heard a lot. I must have some kind of charm. Hopefully that's the same in the future.
Yeah the acting cute schtick doesn’t typically last long-term. I been through all that mate -
2018-03-31 at 10:57 AM UTC
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2018-03-31 at 11:03 AM UTCOn and off about 4 years. Mostly on.
Just stupid bullshit. One of the main ones is she’ll accuse me of something I didn’t do with no proof whatsoever, so then the logical thing for me to do is I’ll just say ok you’re accusing me of something so where’s the evidence of your accusations, then she’ll just say more made up bullshit. Like literally just pull stuff out of her ass. That’s a big one.
The rest of it is hard to explain but I guess it all stems from the fact that I live in a cold, logical reality and she lives in an emotional fantasy world. When she’s on her period it’s about 5x worse than normal, but the behavior never really stops. We only ever have peace for a couple days at a time until the next time she picks a fight -
2018-03-31 at 11:05 AM UTC
Originally posted by Fox Paws On and off about 4 years. Mostly on.
Just stupid bullshit. One of the main ones is she’ll accuse me of something I didn’t do with no proof whatsoever, so then the logical thing for me to do is I’ll just say ok you’re accusing me of something so where’s the evidence of your accusations, then she’ll just say more made up bullshit. Like literally just pull stuff out of her ass. That’s a big one.
The rest of it is hard to explain but I guess it all stems from the fact that I live in a cold, logical reality and she lives in an emotional fantasy world. When she’s on her period it’s about 5x worse than normal, but the behavior never really stops. We only ever have peace for a couple days at a time until the next time she picks a fight
Oh wait yeah I forgot about the periods. When they're on their periods they really are illogical as fuck. There's no getting through that shit without a fight. Ugh.
Have you thought of getting a new better girlfriend. Are you on the lookout for one? -
2018-03-31 at 11:09 AM UTC
Originally posted by Fox Paws On and off about 4 years. Mostly on.
Just stupid bullshit. One of the main ones is she’ll accuse me of something I didn’t do with no proof whatsoever, so then the logical thing for me to do is I’ll just say ok you’re accusing me of something so where’s the evidence of your accusations, then she’ll just say more made up bullshit. Like literally just pull stuff out of her ass. That’s a big one.
The rest of it is hard to explain but I guess it all stems from the fact that I live in a cold, logical reality and she lives in an emotional fantasy world. When she’s on her period it’s about 5x worse than normal, but the behavior never really stops. We only ever have peace for a couple days at a time until the next time she picks a fight
One of the most important things I always tell men about relationships with women:
If you don't know what you did wrong, you didn't do anything wrong, and apologizing for something you didn't do because you don't want to fight with her gives her the upper hand. It makes her realize she can get anything she wants by starting an argument
This shit pisses me off so bad. The minute a woman starts this shit with me, she's gone. -
2018-03-31 at 11:11 AM UTC
Originally posted by Enter Oh wait yeah I forgot about the periods. When they're on their periods they really are illogical as fuck. There's no getting through that shit without a fight. Ugh.
Have you thought of getting a new better girlfriend. Are you on the lookout for one?
Nah I’m pretty much just resigned to it at this point. All women are the same so it wouldn’t make any difference.
I guess if I’m being honest I’m a big part of the problem myself. Because if a woman says some illogical, dumb shit I’m not capable of just “turning the other cheek”; I have to correct her and STATE FACTS, which inevitably leads to an argument. And that’s a losing proposition because you can’t even win an argument with someone who refuses to acknowledge reality -
2018-03-31 at 11:13 AM UTC
Originally posted by Juicebox One of the most important things I always tell men about relationships with women:
If you don't know what you did wrong, you didn't do anything wrong, and apologizing for something you didn't do because you don't want to fight with her gives her the upper hand. It makes her realize she can get anything she wants by starting an argument
This shit pisses me off so bad. The minute a woman starts this shit with me, she's gone.
Yeah I only apologize when I’m wrong, which is almost never so -
2018-03-31 at 11:19 AM UTCI just remembered some more fights, actually. They were caused because she wanted me to hang out with her family and go to her family events and stuff, whereas I would have rather cut off my legs.
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2018-03-31 at 11:37 AM UTCenter,
what would you name your kids?
what would you do if you had daughters? -
2018-03-31 at 11:58 AM UTC
Originally posted by Misguided Russian enter,
what would you name your kids?
what would you do if you had daughters?
I'd love my daughters unconditionally. Hopefully they wouldn't become total whores. But if there was ever a worse case scenario where something like this ever ended up being my daughter:
I would turn my back on her.
Oh, and I'd name them Shift and Ctrl. -
2018-04-01 at 11:32 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enter She won't argue after a swift backhand to the face.
But seriously, from what I remember in my relationship, the only times she started arguing with me was when I actually did something stupid, like did drugs, or made us miss the last bus home because I was completely wasted and had to run off it just as it was about to leave, to go throw up everywhere lmao. But in those instances I defused her yelling by acting "cute" I guess. She said every time, "I can't stay mad at you", which I've heard a lot. I must have some kind of charm. Hopefully that's the same in the future.
Man, I need to stop reading your shit. That ain't shit I think most couples can go 6 months without fighting. When your lives are intertwined its hella different. -
2018-04-01 at 11:33 PM UTC
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2018-04-01 at 11:34 PM UTCThat's nothing like I remember it..